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Modern spellings for classic names?

85 replies

14B01F2021P · 23/12/2020 12:56

What do we all think of this? For example, we have DD due and I love the names Lily and Ruby but for some reason I really love them spelt like:

Lillie
Rubie

Am I being completely stupid here? Please don’t beat around the bush. I’ve had a few moments this pregnancy where hormones have took over and I wanted to name her something ridiculous then the next morning I think “what the f*%k was I thinking?!” I won’t mention in case anyone has kids named that name but I highly doubt people do

Does anyone here have a little one with a classic name that has a modern spelling or twist?

Another we considered was Gracie :) modernised Grace

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Corneliusmurphy · 23/12/2020 20:12

When I see rubie i read it rub-ie as in rubbing something, Lillie is better but I know someone who went for that spelling and now regrets it - everyone misspells it and for all the unique-ness it sounds exactly the same, hence all the misspelling I suppose. I think Lily is gorgeous as it is.

campion · 23/12/2020 20:06

I like Sophy as an alternative to the usual Sophie but I suppose she'd have to keep correcting everyone.

KaptainKaveman · 23/12/2020 19:48

Steffanny
Bevvaleigh
Marreeyah
Anjeller
Krysstell
Elleee
Loosea
Kaahleee

The list is endless.

seriousandloyal · 23/12/2020 19:40

Prefer the conventional spellings. Ruby and Lily are both lovely names, slightly prefer Ruby.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 23/12/2020 19:33

Rubie doesn't work, you MIGHT get away with Lillie (because Lilly is a fairly common variant already to Lily) but I still think it would be easier on her to spell it the usual way. Gracie is fine, but many people will assume she is Grace on the BC (nn Gracie) so it might be easier to do that.

Other suggestions : Daisy, Sophie, Millie, Rose/Rosa (Rosie), Amelie, Sylvie.

KarenMarlow3 · 23/12/2020 19:22

I think that people who spell Deborah as Debra (I taught one) just can't spell. I know an Alyss too. Awful.

MindyStClaire · 23/12/2020 19:17

Why not look at the name lists, scroll down to the ones only used a few times a year, and pick a traditional name from there?

Our DDs have traditional names with the normal spellings, but they aren't in vogue now so their names are unusual.

olivo · 23/12/2020 18:35

My teen daughter has a traditional name ending in y and I seem to have spent the past decade correcting people who put it with the ie spelling! Whichever way, you can't win!

Ruby Grace is lovely.

VenusClapTrap · 23/12/2020 15:15

My friend Angee is a professional woman in her fifties, who is embarrassed by her name. Her mother chose it because she thought it was cute and different. Angee would give you a good argument why you should steer clear of creative spellings.

GiveMyHeadPeaceffs · 23/12/2020 15:10

MN is obsessed with children having to spell their names all their lives...I know several Sara/Sarahs and Clare/Claires and they're forever spelling their names to people, hardly way-out, wacky names.
Spell your dc name whatever way you want, I don't think Rubie or Lillie is that bad.

LadyLazaruss · 23/12/2020 14:51

@Greenteandchives

Think of your poor child desperately searching for a pencil with her name on in the gift shops on holiday OP.
Hah, i've never found anything with my name on in gift shops Grin
LadyLazaruss · 23/12/2020 14:50

@Awwlookatmybabyspider

Kristoffer (Christopher) Gaibreal Gabriel Duglass (Douglas) Nykolas Nicholas Jaiden (Jayden) Lukah (Luca)
Not sure if you're taking the piss or not ...
CaptainMyCaptain · 23/12/2020 14:50

@Greenteandchives

Think of your poor child desperately searching for a pencil with her name on in the gift shops on holiday OP.
I know of a child who had her name changed to Sophie by deed poll, aged 10, for this very reason.
Parkandride · 23/12/2020 14:30

I'd want to pronounce Rubie as Rub-ee rather than Rube-ee, it looks odd

rainontinroof · 23/12/2020 14:30

Or call her Grace on BC and Gracie in person.

rainontinroof · 23/12/2020 14:29

OP what do you think about Hollie or Lucie? They're lovely.

Otherwise some less usual names I can think of:

Thalia
Primrose
Xena
Anneliese
Tamsin

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 23/12/2020 14:27

Kristoffer (Christopher)
Gaibreal Gabriel
Duglass (Douglas)
Nykolas Nicholas
Jaiden (Jayden)
Lukah (Luca)

FestiveStuffing · 23/12/2020 14:24

I know this has reached a conclusion now, but my immediate thought was Gracie Lou Freebush.

Donotgogentle · 23/12/2020 14:20

I do love unique names but I think my gut tells me “don’t do it”

Listen to your gut op.

Soubriquet · 23/12/2020 14:20

Lillie is fine and is a well known alternative spelling

Rubie however, looks silly. You wouldn’t spell it Rubee, Rooby or Roobie would you?

BiBabbles · 23/12/2020 14:19

Lillie doesn't look that odd or modern to me. It's been in the top 200 or so for a while now and as others put has been used for a while, though I more often see it as a nickname for Lillian.

I'd assume Rubie was a nickname of a longer name. It looks...incomplete somehow.

Gracie isn't modernized and neither really are any of these nicknames. It's a current trend, but it's not entirely new. I have a great-grandmother whose name was Lottie. She had a sister named Addie. There was an Orley in the generation above (which might be a nickname or the dreaded surname as first name trend). These are styles that come and go rather than anything modern.

If you want a classic, but unusual name, it may be an idea to look through the Office of National Statistics list of names, and look for names that above 1000 (my DD2 likes to say her name is in the top 3000, this was unintentional on my part, but she likes it) or look through things like findagrave.com or familysearch.org to look back through older names that have fallen out of use which will be more unusual than using a less popular spelling of very popular names.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 23/12/2020 14:19

I quite like unique spellings as long as you can dicifer what the name is.
My sister is Aimee (Amy). Its not that unusual now but it was when she was born. My DD is Molly Im sort of kicking myself now for not going with a more imaginative spelling say Molliegh Mollee.Molli
Incidentally though Grace and Gracie have a different pronunciation.
Grace is Gray-s.and Gracie is Gray-see. There's a youneek spelling for youWinkGrin
I've met a Lili (Lily) and a Melhoney (Melanie) which I thought were lovely.
Other alternative name spellings.
Nancie (Nancy)
Frayah Freya
Kloee Chloe
Typhanie (Tiffany)
Nykoel (Nicole)
Shannyn (Shannon)
Olivier (Olivia)
Jaid (Jade)

CremeEggThief · 23/12/2020 14:18

Some work. Lillie and Lucie are fine. Rubie and Daisie are not!

ivfbeenbusy · 23/12/2020 14:16

Modern spellings = miss-spelling which just makes you come across as illiterate

partyatthepalace · 23/12/2020 14:15

Younique spellings are dire. Don't. It's just naff.

Names have histories, which is part of their appeal. If you don't want a name with a history, pick something modern or a noun. If you want something unusual pick something unusual.