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Boudicca

66 replies

GlitterGlueGun · 09/11/2020 07:47

...And other strong women's names.
Also like
Jekka
Hecate

Thoughts, suggestions?

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CaptainMyCaptain · 09/11/2020 11:27

@Yesyoudoknowme

And how would you pronounce that? I was brought up being told it was Bow-da-cee-are and I think unless you are around 'young' people all the time that is how they would say it - heaven knows how you are supposed to pronounce it now... Bow-dicker?
Grin at 'Young' people like me who pronounce it Boo-dicca. I'm 65, it isn't that new.
Oneandabean · 09/11/2020 11:22

@MadCatLady71 Eowyn isn’t an old English name, it was actually made up by Tolkien. But I agree it’s a brilliant and beautiful name and she’s such a badass in LOTR. The only one I know of is an author.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/11/2020 11:17

@CaffiSaliMali

I've always liked the Welsh for Boudicca which is Buddug but it will be mispronounced as Bud-dug unfortunately.

I would look at strong women of history for inspiration:

Eleanor (of Aquitaine)
Matilda (the Empress Matilda)
Elizabeth (the first, Fry)
Ada (Lovelace)
Anne (Frank)
Sophie (Scholl)
Rosa (Parks)
Emmeline (Pankhurst)
Marie (Curie)
Rosalind (Franklin)
Mary (Wollstonecraft, Seacole)
Lucy (Stoner)

I can never see a list like that without adding Dorothy (Hodgkin) to it. Smile
YoniAndGuy · 09/11/2020 11:14

[quote TwoLeftSocksWithHoles]@YoniAndGuy

Unfortunately I find that 'Hero' is now irreparably linked to the purple, plastic tub of sweets that get rummaged through at Christmas. Sad[/quote]
Hmm yes! Not an association for me as they are 'Heroes' - but see your point

TeaAndStrumpets · 09/11/2020 11:10

Aethelflaed was a strong leader. Just saying.

Whatthebloodyell · 09/11/2020 11:05

Victoria
Greta
Saskia
Yvette
Etta

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 09/11/2020 11:00

@YoniAndGuy

Unfortunately I find that 'Hero' is now irreparably linked to the purple, plastic tub of sweets that get rummaged through at Christmas. Sad

ZaraCarmichaelshighheels · 09/11/2020 11:00

There is a councillor in my area with the most fabulous name, Saxon, I love it, her surname is Spence. Saxon Spence I always imagine her at planning committee meetings brandishing a massive sword above her head.

CaffiSaliMali · 09/11/2020 10:49

I've always liked the Welsh for Boudicca which is Buddug but it will be mispronounced as Bud-dug unfortunately.

I would look at strong women of history for inspiration:

Eleanor (of Aquitaine)
Matilda (the Empress Matilda)
Elizabeth (the first, Fry)
Ada (Lovelace)
Anne (Frank)
Sophie (Scholl)
Rosa (Parks)
Emmeline (Pankhurst)
Marie (Curie)
Rosalind (Franklin)
Mary (Wollstonecraft, Seacole)
Lucy (Stoner)

ramblingsofanobody · 09/11/2020 10:39

Rosalind would be my choice.

YoniAndGuy · 09/11/2020 10:26

I'd use Hero.

AbuDhabiYouDoYou · 09/11/2020 10:14

@user12636853357

I love your idea of remembering all the strong women who have been forgotten by time.
💓

CeibaTree · 09/11/2020 10:05

I quite like Hecate, how about Persephone or Demeter in the same kind of vibe.. I also like Athena or Hera/Juno or Artemis/Diana if you want a Greek/Roman mythological name.

But Boudicca would actually be quite a cruel thing to do - could you use it as a middle name if you really love it?

happylittlechick · 09/11/2020 09:54

What if the baby is really quite and shy. Imagine being an introvert with an outlandish name that lends itself to teasing.

mrshonda · 09/11/2020 09:51

Athena - Greek goddess of wisdom and learning. There's a lovely vlogger called Athena Mellor and the name suits her so well. Welsh legend names are beautiful too - Rhiannon is gorgeous. Cariad is Welsh for beloved. Or if you're a fan of Cornish names, how about Demelza? I went to school with a Demelza.

Peeteea · 09/11/2020 09:30

In a similar style, Minerva was a top choice of mine but my husband said no.

MeringueCloud · 09/11/2020 09:22

@Yesyoudoknowme

And how would you pronounce that? I was brought up being told it was Bow-da-cee-are and I think unless you are around 'young' people all the time that is how they would say it - heaven knows how you are supposed to pronounce it now... Bow-dicker?
BOO-dick-uh
Disfordarkchocolate · 09/11/2020 09:20

I love Hecate.

Orphlids · 09/11/2020 09:18

We’ve just registered our baby. My DP’s first choice of name was Boudicca, and I admit I did love it too. The Boadicea pronunciation is apparently a result of a mistranslation, although a prettier sound, I think. What a woman! As tempted as I was to use the name for our daughter, I reluctantly decided it could turn out to be a burden for her later in life. While I’d love to be named Boudicca, I can imagine plenty of people would hate it. But if I met a baby Boudicca, I’d be overjoyed!

MadCatLady71 · 09/11/2020 09:18

If I were looking for a strong name with a good story behind it for a little girl, I’d go with Eowyn (A-Oh-Win). It is a pretty old English name, and Tolkien it belongs to the beautiful and brave Lady of Rohan who rides (in disguise) into the Battle of Pelennor Fields and slays the Witch-King of Angmar, Lord of the Nazgûl - something no man could do. I know of one little Eowyn out in Australia and I thought it was a super choice.

user12636853357 · 09/11/2020 09:14

Do you mean strong as in the sound? Or 'strong' women who shared the name?

Just because most women were deliberately excluded from the recording of history, especially the further back you go with older names... So I'd be inclined to take the view that there will have been strong and noteworthy women who shared the names even if we have been denied the chance to know about them. Any older, strong sounding name that you liked would connect to them.

But I am a bit awkward like that.

BiBabbles · 09/11/2020 09:11

Boudicca - the whole story with her daughters isn't exactly one I'd want associated with my daughter. Also, any name with 'dic' in it isn't one I'd use with my kids.

Hecate is a mythological figure rather than a 'strong woman' to me. Deity names tend to be a mixed bag to me.

No idea about Jekka.

I have a soft spot for Salome with Queen Salome Alexandra and her essentially mythical status within some communities (among other women who've had that name) though I'm aware she's more associated with Josephus naming the girl who in the Bible asked for John the Baptist's head that and the many things written about that character with that name since. The latter doesn't really put me off, but I'd use it as a middle name for my daughter's sake.

Honestly, I think with most names you can look up and find role models to fit (or to damn) them. I look into finding a broad range of role models and stories with a name (I enjoy giving my kids books with characters who share their name on their birthday, more awkward for some than others) than trying to find a name with one very strong association. I'd use Alexandra with the many possible choices of admirable woman over Boudicca where there were probably many with that name, but we all think of one.

EssentialHummus · 09/11/2020 09:10

There was a little Boudicca in the nursery near me - I worked out of their space over the holidays and her name was on a few drawings. I wouldn't, personally.

Hero? I'm not brave enough to use it see what I did there but it's a lovely girls' name.

GlitterGlueGun · 09/11/2020 09:02

Thanks for the feedback

@KiriAndLou yeah! Come to think of it Dawn... stealthy.

It is Boo-di-ka I'm thinking of. Quite like kicking sounds I think.

@TwoLeftSocksWithHoles that's a thought...

Emmeline And Marie are lovely but I was hoping for more oomph in the name itself.

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PattyPan · 09/11/2020 09:01

No to Boudicca, Jekka and Hecate. They’re all way too much.
Pp suggestions of Emmeline,
Ruth and Sylvia are good.
What about Millicent (as in Fawcett), Elizabeth (as in queens/Garrett Anderson), Victoria, Eleanor (of Aquitaine), Margaret (as in Thatcher/Bondfield)?