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Tadhg or Paxton

162 replies

MarjorieX · 29/10/2020 19:38

I'm pregnant with a boy and I quite like these two names. Tadhg is a name we have previously considered for our other sons but we didn't go for it. Paxton would be after my grandad. I'm so indecisive and my baby is due in a month so I'm really not sure on what name to choose. What are your opinions on these names and do you have any middle name suggestions for them? Thank you

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purplecorkheart · 29/10/2020 20:56

Tadgh is nice although most of the Tadgh I know are in their 70s +. I am so sorry to say this but your other name makes me think of American reality tv. However I am in Ireland so it could be just uncommon here. Sorry

I'm in Ireland & my oldest DS is a Tadhg! (He's 18 now)There are 2 in his class, and I know at least one more. I guess it's just not as popular in your area.

I obviously love the name OP X

mathanxiety · 28/10/2023 23:06

@SeanCailleach
O Dineen got a bit carried away sometimes.

Thaddeus and Timothy are not related to Tadhg but they were used as official names on documents where Irish language names were not acceptable, as approximations of the name. These approximations were mostly not translations or even etymologically related. They might have had a few letters or sounds in common.

For names in Irish that were clearly Irish versions of names from Latin, French, Greek, or English, it was far easier to find an English version - Margaret for Mairead, Bridget for Brighid, Mary for Mairin or Maire. Names like Eithne or Tadhg or Damhnait, which are old Irish names, or Nabla, an Irish version of the unusual Annabel/la, could end up with a variety of 'equivalents' depending on the mental name bank a particular clerk was drawing from.

mathanxiety · 28/10/2023 22:49

lavenderlove · 30/10/2020 18:21

I prefer Tadgh a lot more!

I'm confused as I have a friend called "Tadhgh" and he pronounces it "Tay-Dee" and is called "Tad" for short. Is this a completely different name with the extra h?

No, it's a complete balls up of the names Tadhg and Thady.

Tadhgh would be pronounced Tye in Irish.

Daisybuttercup12345 · 28/10/2023 21:54

Both awful. Please dont!

User6761 · 28/10/2023 10:34

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MsJuniper · 28/10/2023 09:21

Tadhg is lovely and starting to become more well known. I teach lots of children with traditional names from different countries. If I come across a name I don't know how to pronounce, I check with the child or parent at the beginning of term and then it's fine. Children do the same with each other. It's not an issue.

MarjorieX · 02/11/2020 21:17

Wow, thank you everyone for the information and feedback on the names, it's very helpful and I really do appreciate it.

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SeanCailleach · 02/11/2020 15:23

Grma don chláru @LizzieAnt
Scribbling notes. This name is epic.

NellWilsonsWhiteHair · 02/11/2020 11:59

I really like Tadhg.

FWIW I’m in London and I don’t have Irish in my personal background or anything, but it’s a name I’ve come across before and recognise. In general I think MN has way more ‘you can’t possibly use that name, have you thought about John?’ than real life! (I have an uncommon name but a combination of politely correcting people when I need to, and being gracious when someone gets it wrong in spite of trying, makes this a painless experience.)

Paxton works as a middle name IMO (and goes well with Tadhg). I wouldn’t personally use it as a first name, but I don’t think it’s bad if you do - I haven’t come across it before but it’s not unlike any of the other perfectly normal ‘surnamey’ names which are widely used.

LizzieAnt · 02/11/2020 11:47

@SeanCailleach
My Hiberno-English pronunciation of 'th' is much the same as the broad Irish language 't' (I think). That's why the start of the English word 'thigh' is same as the start of the Irish Tadgh for me.
I'll stop confusing people now!

LizzieAnt · 02/11/2020 10:07

@SeanCailleach
No, I think @mathanxiety has explained it better now thankfully. I was starting to tie myself in knots with 'th's'Grin I will add that the pronunciation of the Irish slender 't' varies a lot between dialects...you don't really get that 'ch' sound in Munster as you do in Ulster. That's not relevant to Tadhg though.

SeanCailleach · 02/11/2020 09:40

@LizzieAnt we might have 4 th sounds now... Grin
A mhaithe, @mathanxiety an cainteoir dúchais thu?

mathanxiety · 02/11/2020 06:35

@SeanCailleach, there is a difference between an English T sound and an Irish T sound.

An Irish broad T sounds like a French T. I think this is what posters are getting at, not the silent TH of various cases where the nominative begins with T.

For example, the word 'tá' is pronounced thaw, not taw.

(A slender T is more of a CH sound).

mathanxiety · 02/11/2020 06:28

How does Tadgh = Tiger without the r? I'm in awe of anyone who teaches phonics in Ireland Smile. I think it's a lovely name.

For starters, it's Tadhg, not Tadgh.

The phonics part is easy:
In the middle of a word the DH in Irish is always silent. Just like GH in English it gives a long I sound (as in sigh, light, fight, right, Blighty). At the beginning of a word it is sounded as a Y.
The G in Tadhg is sounded.

Irish orthography is incredibly regular. English otoh is incredibly irregular.

SeanCailleach · 02/11/2020 06:25

"Tadgh" would read "tad-y" in Modern Irish, not "tayg".
In Irish nouns change so:
"Tadhg is ainm domh" (T is my name)
"Slán , a Thaidhg!" (Bye T)
"Tigh Thaidhg." (At T's house.)
When people say they say th for the first sound, like in English "thigh", that's like in Classical Irish (C13 - C19). Modern Irish has a h sound instead, but personal names hang onto old sounds longer . Often people think of the vocative form as the name, instead of the nominative (root) form. Hence "Thayg", "Hayg".

LizzieAnt · 02/11/2020 03:11

@Gifgif
The letters/letter combinations just make different sounds in Irish and English. Irish is a very phonetic language so no problems there. An issue I've noticed, though, is that in most (English language) schools in Ireland, children learn the English language phonics via Jolly Phonics etc, but aren't taught the sounds in Irish in the same way. They're just expected to pick up that the letters can make different sounds, and Irish language phonics aren't directly taught at all. I know it's caused my DC some problems learning to read Irish. (A smaller number of schools teach through the medium of Irish.)

Notthegoldenchild · 02/11/2020 02:50

Also the female name above, where I am from is pronounced Sigh-ve’.

Notthegoldenchild · 02/11/2020 02:48

@Gifgif I leave you with the female name of ‘Saidhbhe’ to figure out so Grin I think because we learn Irish language from the day we start school over here that it just becomes natural to pronounce things for us but I am fully aware our language and pronounciation is very messy outside of here too! If I said to you that we say Tadhg as Tige I am not fully sure the sound would be like the word tiger if you removr the last letter :)

LizzieAnt · 02/11/2020 02:43

@DramaAlpaca
I pronounce Tadhg the same way. I'm an English woman living in the west of Ireland and that's how I've been taught to say it by my in-laws, with an Irish 'th', not an English one. I can do the Irish 'th' no problem, it's other sounds I have to make a real effort with.
Oh dear, I think there might be three different 'th' sounds now...
When I referred to an Irish 'th', I meant the Irish language one where the 't' isn't pronounced.
My English 'th' (your Irish 'th'?) is a Hiberno-English one really. Like @Pomegranatemolasses and you, the start of Tadgh and the start of Thigh sound the same to me.
The proper English 'th' is different again as my children have learnt from watching too much television.

Gifgif · 02/11/2020 02:20

How does Tadgh = Tiger without the r? I'm in awe of anyone who teaches phonics in Ireland Smile. I think it's a lovely name.

Notthegoldenchild · 02/11/2020 02:13

Im in Ireland so Tadhg is a common enough name where Im from pronounced Tiger without the r so because of its popularity here I would choose Paxton as I like my own dc name to stand out.

BrassyLocks · 02/11/2020 02:05

There's a Tadgh in my DS school in England. Until today I'd never seen it written, but I instantly made the connection as I'm sure others will. It's a very nice name. We can't all be called Bob because it's 'easy'.

DramaAlpaca · 02/11/2020 01:37

@Pomegranatemolasses

Just to add fuel to the fire, I pronounce Tadhg as Thige, ie tiger without the r and with a h added.

I'm Irish and live in the west of Ireland. This is how I've always heard ot being pronounced.

I pronounce Tadhg the same way. I'm an English woman living in the west of Ireland and that's how I've been taught to say it by my in-laws, with an Irish 'th', not an English one. I can do the Irish 'th' no problem, it's other sounds I have to make a real effort with.
LizzieAnt · 02/11/2020 01:30

@SeanCailleach
Thanks Smile
Meant the English 'th' sound just to clarify. Things are changing though. My children correct my th's now sometimes - the influence of Cbeebies when they were small, I suppose...

SeanCailleach · 01/11/2020 23:09

Whatever way you say th is totally fine by me. I love all the different dialects.