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Enola for DD?

437 replies

scarletm · 27/09/2020 18:56

me and DH watched Enola Holmes recently with his nieces and would love the same name for DD. We do thinks it's a little different though! Any thoughts??

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Theradioison · 29/09/2020 19:02

We were discussing the name of the plane, not the bombing

I think you'll find that we were discussing the bombing

RunningFromInsanity · 29/09/2020 18:47

Posters do know that the OP isn’t naming her child ‘Enola Gay’, just ‘Enola’?

Which is now going to be more associated with Enola Holmes.

SleepingStandingUp · 29/09/2020 17:44

I don't disagree with that, and it is not necessarily someone's fault if they don't know something, but I do think it matters because it does impact on their understanding of stuff. I don't think we can make informed decisions if we are not, well....informed. I'd bet that even the people who know what Hiroshima means don't particularly use this when they're making decisions on everyday politics. It night be a factor is different parties have different opinions on nuclear weapons but they're much more likely to be influenced by a million other things"closer to home" that affect their everyday lives. The idea that is a person doesn't know about this one thing then they're wandering around saying "dog" a lot and writing Trump on their courting skills because they're clearly so ignorant, which is what you'd expect from how some posters are carrying on,is absurd. I'm sure @ScarMatty had lots of other things she's aware of which enable her to make intelligent decisions about important issues

MsTSwift · 29/09/2020 17:39

None of the other “stuff” they know will be as important though will it? Their opinions will be flawed because of the seismic gap in their knowledge.

EvilPea · 29/09/2020 14:59

@AlexaShutUp

We all come at life from our own experiences, the cards we’ve been dealt and the situations we find ourselves in. The decisions and views we hold reflect that.

I don't disagree with that, and it is not necessarily someone's fault if they don't know something, but I do think it matters because it does impact on their understanding of stuff. I don't think we can make informed decisions if we are not, well....informed.

they will be informed with other stuff that forms their opinions. Just not this
Coffeeoverload · 29/09/2020 14:41

Absolutely Enola Gay...

You shouldn't do this to your child. Even if your child is unaware of the connotations, it will reflect appallingly on you - either for your ignorance or your callousness. Neither are great looks!

Also in my 30s and have known about the Enola Gay since a young age. 80s child but never heard of the song, just the atrocity.

Quite shocked by the number of people on this thread a) learning what the Enola Gay was for the first time and b) STILL thinking it's OK to name a baby after an instrument of genocide. Are millennials really that desensitised to the pain of others? Sick...

AlexaShutUp · 29/09/2020 14:30

We all come at life from our own experiences, the cards we’ve been dealt and the situations we find ourselves in. The decisions and views we hold reflect that.

I don't disagree with that, and it is not necessarily someone's fault if they don't know something, but I do think it matters because it does impact on their understanding of stuff. I don't think we can make informed decisions if we are not, well....informed.

India999 · 29/09/2020 13:57

Love it! Really nice name.

MidnightCitrus · 29/09/2020 13:56

@SionnachRua

Not that important??

You want your DD to be forever associated with the name of the plane that dropped the Atomic bomb on Hiroshima. Reallt??

Wow

Another one lacking reading comprehension skills I see. The song isn't that important, the event obviously is.

As an aside, I can't see why people are so surprised that others might not read up on a particular event. I love learning about ancient civilizations and rulers - Benin kingdom, Mansa Musa etc. Explorers and world folklore too. World wars aren't my thing but I don't expect everyone else to be interested in my favourite parts of history. There's so much history out there, everyone will have their niche.

Yes, I know the song is not important, I'm 'wowing' at the not knowing about the event.
EvilPea · 29/09/2020 13:54

It’s like the brexit comments on here being related to not knowing about Hiroshima. They are pretty rude and judgemental.

We all come at life from our own experiences, the cards we’ve been dealt and the situations we find ourselves in. The decisions and views we hold reflect that.

AlexaShutUp · 29/09/2020 13:48

I also think it depends how you’ve grown up.
So I grew up in a house where learning stopped at school, you didn’t carry that on outside. Picking up a history book or going to a museum was not the done thing.

That's actually a very fair point, EvilPea. It's very easy to take such perspectives for granted, but we shouldn't.

EvilPea · 29/09/2020 13:28

I also think it depends how you’ve grown up.
So I grew up in a house where learning stopped at school, you didn’t carry that on outside. Picking up a history book or going to a museum was not the done thing.

Now with children I do the opposite with them, we spend most holidays (BC!) at museums, I take the topics at school and go with that for days out to get a better base of knowledge for them.

EvilPea · 29/09/2020 13:25

@BrazenlyDefying

Fuck me there are a lot of of people around who don't read, watch documentaries or know much about the world.
You have to know about it and / or have an interest in that topic to Seek out that information.

Now I know the bomb existed, I know it brought about the end of the war but that’s it, I am probably not going to watch a documentary about it or read about it.

It’s a little bit like the google algorithms, which I find incredibly scary. They will only show you responses based on what you’ve previously searched for. So two people googling the same news story could get two totally different responses.

EmpressSuiko · 29/09/2020 13:24

I think it’s a lovely name but I’ve also never heard of Enola Grey so don’t associate it with that.

EvilPea · 29/09/2020 13:18

@DangerMouse17

People that dont know about Enola Gay should be seriously embarrassed....educate yourselves! Read!

I'm stunned.

I’m not embarrassed about not knowing something.

I’m not rude about gaps in your knowledge. So why do you think it’s ok to be so rude to others?
I am pretty sure there are things I know that you don’t. Does that make you a bad person? Or me better than you?

Of course not.

DuesToTheDirt · 29/09/2020 13:12

Fuck me there are a lot of of people around who don't read, watch documentaries or know much about the world.

Absolutely. But every time such a debate comes up there are hordes of people hiding behind "We didn't learn it in school so how can I possibly be expected to know about it?" As though the few short hours spent in class can possibly cover all the important events, facts and issues in the world.

AlexaShutUp · 29/09/2020 13:09

We were discussing the name of the plane, not the bombing

But you said that you had not heard of Hiroshima itself. That is what people were reacting to, not that you didn't know the name of the plane. I don't think anyone here is seriously arguing that such details are crucial and important, rather that the event itself is too important for us to allow it to be forgotten.

Doginabandana · 29/09/2020 13:08

Awful association with the name of the plane that dropped the bomb on Hiroshima. Also sounds too much like Ebola. I’m not a fan.

Lisa78Lemon · 29/09/2020 13:05

Sounds strange to me. How about Nola, Nuala or Leona?

ScarMatty · 29/09/2020 13:05

@Theradioison

What you define as important and crucial is not someone else's thoughts.

Quite ignorant of you to think that everyone thinks the same as you, but then you seem proud of that

The idea that the dropping of two nuclear bombs on two cities full of totally innocent citizens doesn't fit into ANYONE'S idea of important or crucial just beggars belief. I don't quite know how anyone could defend that for any reason whatsoever esp if you are out of your teens.

We were discussing the name of the plane, not the bombing Hmm
AlexaShutUp · 29/09/2020 13:04

What you define as important and crucial is not someone else's thoughts.

Agreed, but are you saying that you consider the first ever use of nuclear weapons on a civilian population to be unimportant? I would be surprised to see anyone trying to make that case tbh.

MadameBlobby · 29/09/2020 13:03

@Theradioison

What you define as important and crucial is not someone else's thoughts.

Quite ignorant of you to think that everyone thinks the same as you, but then you seem proud of that

The idea that the dropping of two nuclear bombs on two cities full of totally innocent citizens doesn't fit into ANYONE'S idea of important or crucial just beggars belief. I don't quite know how anyone could defend that for any reason whatsoever esp if you are out of your teens.

This

Jeez

Theradioison · 29/09/2020 12:56

What you define as important and crucial is not someone else's thoughts.

Quite ignorant of you to think that everyone thinks the same as you, but then you seem proud of that

The idea that the dropping of two nuclear bombs on two cities full of totally innocent citizens doesn't fit into ANYONE'S idea of important or crucial just beggars belief. I don't quite know how anyone could defend that for any reason whatsoever esp if you are out of your teens.

Pluckedpencil · 29/09/2020 12:52

Eleonora is a nice unusual name

serialreturner · 29/09/2020 12:49

Sorry, Op.

It's a negatory from me.

Don't mean to be unkind but for all the reasons above, just no.

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