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Girls Name Shortlist Help Please

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user256162589 · 15/08/2020 08:27

Hello Everyone,
I'm struggling to narrow down my shortlist of girls names.
My Son has a name in the Top 5. We didn't know this when we picked it, but surprisingly we've only met one other! So popularity isn't really a concern for us.

The names are:
• Isabel Matilda
• Juliet Matilda
• Poppy Matilda
• Sofia Matilda
Matilda is a definite for the middle name.
Which do you prefer and why?
If there is another first name that would sound better, please feel free to suggest.

Many Thanks.

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sunyla · 17/08/2020 10:00

I love Juliet! I also really like Sofia and Isabel spelt like that.

The only name I don't like is Poppy as I know a few people who call their grandfathers this and it also sounds like pop off (fart) to me.

MikeUniformMike · 17/08/2020 09:40

Sarah Jessica seems to not have done Ms Parker any harm.

missmouse101 · 15/08/2020 19:58

Sofia Matilda does not work. Two names ending in 'a'.Hmm Juliet is the nicest. How about Hazel?

123Dancewithme · 15/08/2020 19:53

Juliet Matilda!

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user256162589 · 15/08/2020 19:52

@dementedma Just personal choice. I view is that what is the point giving a middle name if your not going to use it. So I've always used my sons middle name. I love the two names together and so does he.

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dementedma · 15/08/2020 19:43

I dont use the dcs middle names unless I am angry...Joseph Benjamin get in here right now!! ..or being uber affectionate..hey, Joey Benny are you feeling better today?.

DramaAlpaca · 15/08/2020 19:17

I really like Isabel, Sofia and Juliet, so any of those.

Not Poppy, it's a noise not a name and very twee.

Sofia Matilda is my favourite combination, very elegant sounding.

mummy2myJJ · 15/08/2020 19:04

Loooove Poppy Matilda, also like Sofia Matilda x

user1493494961 · 15/08/2020 19:02

Not keen on the spelling of Sofia. I think I prefer Juliet Matilda but it seems a bit of a mouthful to use both names with any of your choices. Matilda would be my first choice out of all of the names. I'm curious as to what your son's two names are.

coronabeer · 15/08/2020 18:57

I think Julia Matilda sounds better than Juliet Matilda (too many t sounds close together).
I also think Sophie Matilda rolls off the tongue better than Sophia Matilda.
Far too many Isabels around (at least amongst my daughters' friends).
Poppy Matilda... kind of works but also had me humming "Waltzing Matilda".

SerenaSandwich · 15/08/2020 18:49

I like all four options but my favourite two are Isabel Matilda and Juliet Matilda.

I'm less keen on Poppy as to me it sounds more like a nickname. And not so sure about Sofia with your chosen middle name as it means both names end in -a.

MikeUniformMike · 15/08/2020 18:08

i know some people who always got the firstname middlename but the names were more more like Helen May, Mary Anne and John Luke (not their real names but names of the same length), and some who are double barrelled like Anne-Marie (usually sounds like Ammery) or David-John (Dave).

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user256162589 · 15/08/2020 17:25

@MikeUniformMike on my sons school forms when they ask for his known as name, I always put first name and then first and middle name together. They used both his first and middle name rather than first letter of surname when there was other child with same first name.
I've always used his first and second name and so most people generally do now too.
Juliet Matilda is probably a bit chunkier when said together compared to Sofia Matilda.
Hence why we are so undecided as we probably like Juliet more but Sofia Matilda sounds better than Juliet Matilda.

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MikeUniformMike · 15/08/2020 17:10

Sorry, I meant some syllables are less noticeable. Elizabeth is 4 syllables but is not much different to Lisbeth, the name of a girl I was at school with.

MikeUniformMike · 15/08/2020 17:03

You might OP, but others probably won't.
Most of your list are 3 syllable names so are quite long before you add another 3 syllables

Some syllables are more noticeable e.g, El, al,-a.

As someone who likes names like Ann, Dot, Kate, Meg, Fay, Fern, Kim, Jill etc I would think that Juliet Matilda was way too much work.

It sounds more like a doll's name

PunkMudda · 15/08/2020 16:34

Juliet is the loveliest of those names

userabcname · 15/08/2020 16:33

I like them all! I like Isabel best because I like all the shortenings and it flows well with Matilda. Probably next best is Juliet - very pretty, classic name. I dislike "Jules" though, which she may get called. Poppy is really pretty actually. Sofia is nice but I don't like it as much as the others.

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user256162589 · 15/08/2020 16:23

For that reason I'm leaning more towards Sofia Matilda as it rolls off the tongue quite nicely when you say both names together.

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user256162589 · 15/08/2020 16:21

@RosieJess91 and @MikeUniformMike
Its all slightly complicated but Unfortunately we can't use Matilda as first name. But we'd still like to use it, hence giving as a middle name.
My Son we use both his names. We don't like double barrel, they are first and middle name on birth certificate but we generally call him both. We sign everything from him using his first and second name. Hope that makes sense. So we'd probably use both names.

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MikeUniformMike · 15/08/2020 13:14

I would say call her Matilda too. It's quite a strong name but middle names are rarely used.

So Juliet Matilda Surname would end up being Juliet Surname.

TheRosariojewels · 15/08/2020 12:57

Juliet

RosieJess91 · 15/08/2020 12:52

Why don't you just name her Matilda?
I think Juliet or Sofia sounds nicer personally 😊

MikeUniformMike · 15/08/2020 12:07

Poppy Matilda

flatoutpanic · 15/08/2020 11:05

Sofia Matilda is lovely 😊 (very similar to DD’s name)

sweetnosugar · 15/08/2020 11:03

Adore Sofia Matilda!
I do however prefer the Sophia spelling. However that’s just my opinion. Either way a beautiful name!