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Finlay or Finley?

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Crazymummyto3 · 22/07/2020 22:49

We like the name Finlay for a boy, which could be shortened to Finn. Would you spell it Finlay or Finley?

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Pawsin · 27/07/2020 19:32

I know several Finley's (work in EY) and one Findlay. The Findlay I know pronounces it the same, but they do often get the 'lay' pronounciation from people at first. So I suppose it would depend on whether that would annoy you or not (or whether you want to say it like that 🤷🏻‍♀️)

Wheresthebiffer2 · 27/07/2020 16:29

They're all pronounced the same , it's a silent d in Findlay (pron..Finnly).

SneakyBlinder · 27/07/2020 07:38

I have a Finley....nobody has ever spelt it ‘Finlay’ in the last 10 years.

He’s mainly just Fin tho....unless he’s in trouble! Wink

SavageBeauty73 · 27/07/2020 07:31

My Finley hasn't ever had to correct his name.

CosmicVagina · 27/07/2020 07:28

DS is a 'lay'

Behindthecurves · 27/07/2020 07:22

Finlay

EarlGreyJenny · 27/07/2020 07:18

Finlay. Lovely name. Finley seems more feminine to me.

midsomermurderess · 26/07/2020 22:52

Findlay.

sibbys · 26/07/2020 22:41

Finley

flibbertmygibbert · 26/07/2020 21:16

I pronounce them completely differently and as a teacher have encountered the same.
Finlay - Fin Lay
Finley - Fin Lee

Frazzled2207 · 26/07/2020 20:54

Finley. But I prefer just Finn and know a couple who are just that.

Minai · 26/07/2020 20:51

I have a Finley. I would choose depending on how you want to pronounce it. I say it Fin-lee but a lot of people pronounce Finlay as Fin-lay so I went with the Finley spelling.

beautifulmonument · 26/07/2020 04:47

Finlay
My son's middle name

Hopefulhen · 26/07/2020 04:25

I think if you’re going to pronounce it Fin-lee it would be easier for him if you spell it Finley. I think with Finlay you run the risk of people mispronouncing it to write with hey or yay.

ellaandthebella · 26/07/2020 04:22

Just go whichever you prefer. He will get asked to spell it whichever way you choose. I am called Rachel, a very very very common name in the 90s, and I am being forever asked whether it is 'Rachael with an A' and having people spell it wrong in family christmas cards. It is honestly not that bad, and names with multiple spellings are becoming more popular.

(I prefer Finlay).

Stopyourhavering64 · 26/07/2020 04:08

I have a Finlay ( I'm Scottish) ...he'll be 21 in a couple of weeks ....glad to see so many people like the name!

IHaveBrilloHair · 26/07/2020 03:44

Finlay.

MrMeSeeks · 26/07/2020 03:39

I admit if i see findlay, i automatically think ‘find-lay’

Grufallosfriends · 25/07/2020 21:49

How do you pronounce Findlay? Find Lay?!

Wheresthebiffer2 · 25/07/2020 21:07

Findlay with the D.

Thefaceofboe · 25/07/2020 18:55

Finley. You pronounce it like Finley not FinLAY or FinDLAY

ALC1985 · 23/07/2020 17:32

I’ve never seen it spelled with an E and I’m surprised it is the far more common spelling, I’m Scottish tho so up here it’s spelled Finlay or Findlay, genuinely never came across a Finley and spelling it that way never crossed my mind!
FWIW I prefer Finlay.

ThatsNotMySheep · 23/07/2020 12:56

In Scotland it tends to be Finlay. I would see Finn and Finlay as different names however, and certainly in some areas there would be a distinction made between the 2 names.

sel2223 · 23/07/2020 12:45

I know a little Finley

Pippilangstrumpfie · 23/07/2020 11:38

Finn may well be a name in its own right, but is definitely also a Finnish person 🇫🇮. That's the first thing that came into my mind. Maybe others won't have that association.

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