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Teddy for a girl, is it really that controversial??

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lucie8881 · 05/03/2020 11:45

Now I'm not overly swayed by others opinions because when it comes to names as we all have our preferences. Whether you love or loathe a name depends a lot on your own personal experiences, thoughts and feelings. I've always gone along with if you're happy with your choice and it's not offensive pretty much all's good.

I'm pregnant with a little girl due in June, myself and DH have been pondering names and on our shortlist is the name Teddy. We'll pick a middle name as well but haven't really given much consideration to that as yet. I was speaking with my DM and she asked me about names, I mentioned a few before getting to Teddy, at which point she was horrified!
Not just "I'm not keen" but more along the lines of "you can't name a baby that, it's not a proper name" and we're being cruel and opening up the child to being bullied at school. The conversation ended with DM saying if we used the name she wouldn't be using it, she would use the baby's middle name or something else more appropriate. I responded with its best we don't discuss names any further and leave it at that.

Sorry about the ramble, but I'm not sure whether I'm missing something?? I get that it may be not to everyone's taste but is it really that offensive?

It's made me question my judgement a little so just wondering what others opinions are?

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Comefromaway · 05/03/2020 11:55

I know it as a nickname for Theodora. I wouldn't call a child Teddy but let them have the choice when older whether to use it as a nickname.

Lllot5 · 05/03/2020 11:54

It’s a boy’s name.

Finfintytint · 05/03/2020 11:53

How about Theodora with Teddi as a nickname?

DropYourSword · 05/03/2020 11:53

I’m glad you’re questioning your judgement here because...that seems like a pretty cruel name choice! Could you have that as a middle name instead?

Seymoursyourfriend · 05/03/2020 11:53

Each to their own, as they say. If you like it go for it. It really doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks.

Illberidingshotgun · 05/03/2020 11:52

It's not offensive at all, but it's usually a nickname and short for a more formal name, like Theodora (there are probably others). It would give her more scope for the future if you used it as a shortened version of a longer name, I do wonder if she will always want to be known as "Teddy" although Ted for a girl I also really like.

My DD has a shortened name, similar to Teddy which almost everyone uses, but now she is an adult is using her formal name more, so she certainly appreciates the flexibility.

However it is the choice of you and your DH alone - if you love it, go for it. It is certainly not offensive in any way.

carlyclock · 05/03/2020 11:52

Sorry about the ramble, but I'm not sure whether I'm missing something??

Is it that you are having a baby not a kitten 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm sorry but please be realistic. Teddy is not an appropriate name for a person.

EmrysAtticus · 05/03/2020 11:51

Would it be short for anything? If not and she decides she doesn't want to go by Teddy as an adult but doesn't like Ted as being too masculine what could she go by! It doesn't give many options.

datasgingercatspot · 05/03/2020 11:50

It's not controversial, it's naff and silly.

PawPatrolMakesMeDrink · 05/03/2020 11:50

I’d be putting the choice down to hormones

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