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Teddy for a girl, is it really that controversial??

210 replies

lucie8881 · 05/03/2020 11:45

Now I'm not overly swayed by others opinions because when it comes to names as we all have our preferences. Whether you love or loathe a name depends a lot on your own personal experiences, thoughts and feelings. I've always gone along with if you're happy with your choice and it's not offensive pretty much all's good.

I'm pregnant with a little girl due in June, myself and DH have been pondering names and on our shortlist is the name Teddy. We'll pick a middle name as well but haven't really given much consideration to that as yet. I was speaking with my DM and she asked me about names, I mentioned a few before getting to Teddy, at which point she was horrified!
Not just "I'm not keen" but more along the lines of "you can't name a baby that, it's not a proper name" and we're being cruel and opening up the child to being bullied at school. The conversation ended with DM saying if we used the name she wouldn't be using it, she would use the baby's middle name or something else more appropriate. I responded with its best we don't discuss names any further and leave it at that.

Sorry about the ramble, but I'm not sure whether I'm missing something?? I get that it may be not to everyone's taste but is it really that offensive?

It's made me question my judgement a little so just wondering what others opinions are?

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Sleepyquest · 07/03/2020 16:41

It was on my list but I would have put Theodora on the birth certificate so it wasn't just teddy! In the end, we felt it didn't suit our baby but I do love it!

Grufallosfriends · 07/03/2020 16:38

Teddy 🧸 ?!

Would any teenager or adult really want to be called this? HmmShock

Dyra · 07/03/2020 15:44

I'm going to side with your Mum OP. I strongly dislike Teddy as a name for a boy, nevermind for a girl. I don't really like Teddy as a nickname that much either.

HaddawayAndShite · 07/03/2020 15:27

Roosevelt hated Teddy too.

bxua · 07/03/2020 15:14

@comefromaway made my day

Lavenderblues · 07/03/2020 14:35

Yet another thing Teddy Roosevelt didn’t need to worry about

Teddy was simply a name, not a Teddy Bear 🧸 then!

LittleBearPad · 07/03/2020 14:16

Admittedly Theodore Roosevelt had the longer version to fall back on but everyone preferred Teddy and he's known in history as Teddy Roosevelt.

And a hugely powerful and wealthy family. And his only name option wasn’t Teddy.

It’s a cute nickname but is limiting - particularly for a girl. People will make assumptions about a girl called Teddy. Yes I know it’s not fair but it’s true.

Yet another thing Teddy Roosevelt didn’t need to worry about being a man.

Lavenderblues · 07/03/2020 13:25

Teddy was a fine nickname until it became a Teddy Bear 🧸. So when Theodore Roosevelt was known as Teddy, it was just a name.

Nowadays a Teddy is a stuffed toy. Not only in English but in lots of languages!

Nearlyalmost50 · 07/03/2020 10:12

If only someone could be the President of the US and still called Teddy?! And have soft toys actually created in his honour...

Admittedly Theodore Roosevelt had the longer version to fall back on but everyone preferred Teddy and he's known in history as Teddy Roosevelt.

Runkle · 07/03/2020 08:18

She's going to grow into a woman.. Give her a strong name not one that makes her sound like a toy or pet.

Somebodystired · 07/03/2020 08:01

I love it but do think it needs a full name with Teddy as a nickname. Not keen on Theodora or Edwina....but if Edwina works then could Edith work? Teddy and Edie are both adorable nicknames.

Eleanor90 · 07/03/2020 07:47

This kind of babified name just seems to play to the idea that girls should be small, sweet, cute, adorable, etc. etc.

Totally agree with this.

Yellowcakestand · 06/03/2020 22:24

I like it a lot!

Loads of kids are called Rocco... Is that going to stop them getting a job? I doubt it very much.

Sindy is a toy, I know 2 of those, one is a fully functioning adult, with a job and a family.

One of my name choices was unusual ... I got told to find a 'fu##ing
proper name' by ex MIL.

I also liked Teddy for a boy thinking they can change it to Ted when they were teens as that's cool.

There are a lot of silly comments on this thread.

I know a Loki, Luca, Samuela. My son has an unusual name, the only one called it in his school.

Emthebaker · 06/03/2020 21:47

I think it’s a pretty cool name, actually, and much prefer it to some of the names that seem to be super popular on MN.

Larrydavid · 06/03/2020 21:35

I think it's a great name and perfect if it's short for Theodora. That way she has options. It's not a cruel or silly name at all. If everyone was called Olivia or Charlotte, the world would be pretty boring. Ignore the haters OP!

Bluebutterfly90 · 06/03/2020 20:36

As a full name I would say no. Being an adult woman called Teddy seems like kind of a lot. Having to have the conversation "Yes I'm a woman called Teddy" would probably get old real fast for her.

Theodora with Teddy as a nickname seems nice. Or Theodosia, if you're a Hamilton fan. But as far as I'm aware, even when Teddy is used as a boys name, it's a nickname.

MamaFlintstone · 06/03/2020 20:27

I don’t like it as full name for either a boy or a girl. Fine as a nickname.

MyWorriedHusband · 06/03/2020 20:25

YABU imagine being 13 with that name.

I know at the moment you're thinking of a cute baby.

But she has to live with it.

Cookit · 06/03/2020 20:23

Bobby and Charlie are surely quite unusual choices for a girl?

Wonder if everyone hates Teddy or Ted on boys...? As a stand-alone name, yes absolutely hate it on boys. It’s never popular when people ask on here. If it’s short for Edward or Theodore then it’s a different thing.
One of the Teddies I know is really an Edward and though he was announced as Teddy I’ve noticed that since he was about 18 months old they’ve quietly dropped the nickname and he’s only ever referred to as Ted now. I’m guessing the cutesy name lost its appeal..

Carouselfish · 06/03/2020 19:05

Fine. Its the wife of a main character in a series of detective novels I read. Think it's short for Theodora. It's much much nicer than the frumpy Thea that people are into now.

WhateverHappenedToBathPearls · 06/03/2020 12:39

The lingerie connection kills it for me I'm afraid.

Plus I have to agree with the 'cute for a kid, less cute for a civil servant' sentiment. Sorry.

Thisismytimetoshine · 06/03/2020 12:37

It’s not a question of “the world not being ready for a female Teddy”, which makes it sound like a brilliant, innovative idea whose time has not yet come.
It’s not, it’s just plain silly.

toomuchpeppapig · 06/03/2020 12:32

Teddy is a lovely nick name. Make sure you actually name her Theodora or Edwina though as suggested upthread, so she has a 'proper' name to fall back on as an adult.

MoggTheCat · 06/03/2020 12:09

I think Teddy is a lovely name for a girl. It’s very cool and pretty.

daisypond · 06/03/2020 10:49

@Whatsyourflava - yes, quite right. I’m wrong re Billie Faiers!

Yes, kids still call teddy bears teddies.

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