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Vicsleighbob · 28/10/2019 15:10

DH and I are expecting our first DS together early next year. We've discussed baby names many times and the ONLY name we both love is Harry, BUT.....it's currently no 4 on the most popular list, I personally know at least 12 people socially with a DS called Harry and I also know of a few other pregnant women that are due before me and have chosen to use the name too. We've not told anyone our name yet as I prefer to wait until the baby is born.

I'm really concerned that is just too popular. I don't want DS to end up in a class full of Harry's. DH always refers to my bump as baby Harry now though and I'm really torn. We have 4 other DS's between us, all with traditional bible names so want something traditional for our DS too. Harry was perfect until it became so popular. What would you do? DH is very picky about names too which isn't helping Confused

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MissHenty · 01/11/2019 13:52

The numbers of babies called Harry has actually been declining every year since 2011. There’s way less Harry’s now than 8 years ago.

names.darkgreener.com/#harry

Whattodoabout · 01/11/2019 13:46

It’s hugely popular and has been for many years. I’m not a fan of it personally.

bottleofbeer · 01/11/2019 00:19

It's a bloody lovely name. My Harry was born before Harry Potter became a huge thing.

Top name.

MissHenty · 31/10/2019 12:38

Yes go with Harry

When we were at school popular names were much more popular than they are now. Sorry that probably doesn’t make sense but gone are the days when 1 in 5 boys were called John or David.

The percentage of babies called Harry is miniscule compared to the top names in the 80s and before that.

It’s a great name you both love. Like another posted has said if you pick another name that you like less, you’ll probably find there’s more babies with that name than Harry! I know more Arlo’s than Harry’s for example
Only know one Harry and none at mu DS nursery or baby groups

daisypond · 31/10/2019 08:10

You obviously both love Harry, so call him Harry. It’s a nice name!

IckleBear · 31/10/2019 07:58

Harry Lee seems like hairily to me, and I don't think it sounds right together.

Vicsleighbob · 30/10/2019 08:36

Thank you for all your replies.

I know Harry isn't a bible name like the others, but it is very traditional. I'm not a fan of 'trendy' names and would like something classic.

People saying use Henry, it's just not the same name as Harry and I really don't like it - personal choice - sorry.

My DH keeps saying we can use Harry and it doesn't matter if it's popular because it'll be 'OUR Harry' which is quite sweet.

We have a short list of other names that are 'OK' but we don't love: Noah, Isaac, Edan, George.....

Our middle name is Lee because it has special meaning, so Harry Lee......I still just don't know 😫

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Woodchiponthewall · 30/10/2019 08:20

I have a Harry who is 4. Of his 2 reception classes (so 60 kids) there is no other Harry. But there are multiples of Leo/Theo/Milo/Reuben and other names parents have chosen not to be ‘bland’. It is ageless and classless, a great name for a little boy and a grown man. Choose a couple of more unusual middle names he can use if he is one of many. I still love it, love shouting it across a playground.

BertieBotts · 30/10/2019 08:09

It's unlikely you'll get two in a class. Even the most popular names are still something like 1 in 300 children. So it's possible but not that likely.

Lavenderblues · 30/10/2019 08:07

If it's really popular where you are, then use it anyway - no-one will think anything of it.

What an odd recommendation...?!

The op herself is concerned about popularity and her son may hate having to add his surname to his name.

Lavenderblues · 30/10/2019 08:02

There are 3 Harrys in our cub scouts group of 12 and 2 of them have a similar surname. It can be tricky to differentiate between them.

I find it dull from overuse.

MrsNoMopp · 30/10/2019 08:02

I don't know any young Harrys. If it's really popular where you are, then use it anyway - no-one will think anything of it.

VenusClapTrap · 30/10/2019 07:16

There are no Harrys at all in my dc primary. I like it.

diddlediddle · 30/10/2019 06:10

@AlliKaneErikson 😂 just personal taste! And anyway, if it's short for Harrison then you haven't given him a nickname as a proper name on his BC. I don't mind people having nicknames as long as they have a proper name too. So that's one of my bugbears to tick off the list... 😬

AlliKaneErikson · 30/10/2019 00:45

Wow, diddle, you’ve got me over a number of barrels: my DS name is ‘bland’, I lack imagination and worst of all it’s a nickname- in his case...short for Harrison!!

diddlediddle · 29/10/2019 19:59

Harry has been popular for ages and ages, it's hardly like you thought of it then it suddenly got common.

I don't like nicknames as names so I would go for Henry n Harry personally. Henry is a classic name. I know a few Harrisons - I personally hate it, don't like surname names and find it very of the moment - but it's an option.

I met a(nother) Harry recently and my first thought was what a shame his parents didn't have a bit more imagination. It's such a bland name and so many people are called it.

Pick something else!

MikeUniformMike · 29/10/2019 14:16

Of course Harry is a classic name.
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_(given_name)

coastergirl · 29/10/2019 04:34

My concern with very popular names is that if there are a few in one class, people find a way to distinguish between them. Hence you get "fat Harry", "ginger Harry" etc. I do love the name Harry, but wouldn't use it for that reason. When I was at school there were lots of Johns and Matthews, and they were distinguished in this way.

My two boys have names that were chosen with the following criteria: not so popular that there could be several in the class, not so unusual that it could incite ridicule, easy to spell and pronounce, any nicknames would still be ok, and initials didn't spell anything dodgy! Obviously I had to like the names too. I guess my criteria were heavily influenced by the fact I was bullied as a child.

Seahorseshoe · 29/10/2019 03:54

I'd have what you like and not worry about what people think. I'd also not mention it, so folk can't put you off it. Once the baby is here and you tell them his name, nobody will put you off it then.

Jossina · 29/10/2019 03:20

Go with Henry.

AlliKaneErikson · 29/10/2019 00:06

I have a Harri, so I obviously love it! I don’t think there are any other boys called Harry In his reasonably sized secondary school, but I do know a few younger ones. The Harri spelling is quite popular around here (SE Wales).

Astronica · 28/10/2019 22:52

I like it and wouldn't be put off by the popularity. But if that is an issue for you why not consider some other names too?

daisypond · 28/10/2019 19:03

Agree - Harry is not a strong or classical name. Henry is, and Harry is the pet form of Henry. Larry? Short for Laurence?

Jj2431 · 28/10/2019 18:42

Agree with pp that Henry with nn Harry is a good option, although if you love a name then I wouldn't be put off my popularity as such.

Lavenderblues · 28/10/2019 18:17

Harry is popular for a reason - it’s a strong classical name, has meaning in several languages, etc etc

Classical? I wouldn't think so.

Meaning in other languages? Which languages do you mean in particular..?

Actually when you google the meaning of 'Harry' it says 'to harass'!

Personally I find Harry overused and quite dull.

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