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A name that won’t date..

37 replies

Hawknotdove · 09/08/2019 10:38

I’m having a girl after two boys!!! So excited. But I thought girls names were easier...?!?! Really struggling, despite having maintained a list forever.

I hate my own name as it really dates to the early 80s. So I would like a name that is not going to date. I dont mind whether that’s because it is (a) popular but classic or (b) unusual enough not to be a trend.

Here’s my current shortlist. I’m not looking for alternative suggestions right now but would appreciate views on whether any of these will date badly...

Grace
Eve
Isabel
Imogen (Immy)
Olivia
Elodie
Estelle (nn Stella)
Stella
Genevieve (nn Evie / Vivi)
Romy

Thanks!

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TildaTurnip · 13/08/2019 00:11

Stella already sounds dated to me.

Genevieve I don’t think is or will be linked to a particular few years. Romy too.

KateUrrer · 13/08/2019 00:05

Eleanor is another classic.

I also like the spelling Elinor.

HotChocolateLover · 12/08/2019 21:55

Please pick my name because i’m Never having a girl, all done with babies after one DS.

My girl name would have been Eleanor. Love that name 💖 Congrats on the baby x

Ellmau · 12/08/2019 19:53

Honestly, I think they'll all date. Genevieve and Stella are probably the least.

What dates a name is not so much that it's super popular, but that it then goes out of popularity. And you just can't tell if that will happen, although an awareness that a name has been super popular does tend to make to decline.

campion · 12/08/2019 18:02

If you want a name that won't date then see if a particular name is used in different ages/generations without comment. I can think of people called (for eg) Catherine, Anna, Elizabeth, Isabel, Helen, Eleanor, Rachel with a wide mix of ages.
All the names on your list are well represented in current classrooms with maybe Romy, Elodie and Genevieve just beginning to have a moment.

Don't overthink it though. My Ds's have classic names which were also quite popular at the time and still are. The most important thing was that we liked the names,and they haven't raised any objections!

bridgetreilly · 12/08/2019 17:53

Elodie and Romy will date badly. Grace is already quite dated.

Isabel, Imogen and Stella are my favourites.

Zazia · 12/08/2019 17:38

I don't see Eve or Stella dating at all.

IsobelRae23 · 12/08/2019 14:16

Grace- no, very common
Eve- no, very common
Isabel- no, love
Imogen- no, like
Olivia- no, very common
Elodie- no, like
Estelle- no, Marmite name
Stella- remind me of the TV programme
Genevieve (nn Evie / Vivi)- no, love, love,
Romy- yes,

Antonin · 11/08/2019 23:40

Names are like new cars, the moment you use it it becomes dated.
There’s no way you can ensure a name you use will not become dated. Once a blue moon, if you choose a so called classic name, it will not seem to date. Even unique/made up names like Apple, Peach etc date because they reflect a trend at a particular point in time.
In the future people will regard flower names, animal names and names such as Alfie, Arthur, Effie and Agnes. (Recycled from the early 2Oth C) as being indicative of the current point in time.
Use any random name that appeals to you. Today’s unusual name may be in next year’s top 20.

DickieDonkey · 09/08/2019 20:20

They are all perfectly nice but they all seem quite ‘now’ names. A lot of girls names go in and out of fashion. Even timeless names like Elizabeth and Anna have peeks and troughs. I could easily name 20 boys names that don’t date but that is harder to do with girls names.

Kokeshi123 · 09/08/2019 17:44

Stella, Genevieve, Estelle are pretty timeless.

Imogen and Olivia perhaps a bit less so.

The others are all very "early 21st century" names. Nothing actually wrong with that, but if that is not what you want, do not call your kid Eve or Isabel etc.! Romy seems to be suddenly all over the place as well.

whatausername · 09/08/2019 17:12

Grace, Isabel, Eve and Olivia will date. Even if it dates to a 10+year period like Olivia will, it will date.

KateUrrer · 09/08/2019 15:22

I think all your list seem to have been very popular (eg Eve , Isabel, Olivia) or on trend now.

Classic to me would be :

Katherine
Elizabeth
Anna

I would go for something not currently popular if this is important to you, like:

Jane
Jennifer
Pamela

Militantmartha · 09/08/2019 15:10

@diddlediddle really interesting looking at the trends on darkergreen

Elodie has jumped up from position 1364 to 153!

diddlediddle · 09/08/2019 14:26

Grace - bit dull, may date as very popular
Eve - nice but many many Evelyn/eve/evies around so will also probably date
Isabel - definitely will date, so so popular
Imogen (Immy) - on the increase so may date
Olivia - popular forever but will probably date to a 10 year period
Elodie - seems suddenly popular

Estelle (nn Stella) - pretty dont think will date
Stella - lovely don't think will date
Genevieve (nn Evie / Vivi) - nice don't think will date
Romy - nice don't think will date

Look at names.darkgreener.com to see popularity trends.

Nonnymum · 09/08/2019 14:22

I think imogen and genevieve are timeless. But to be honest most names are associated with a certain time to a greater or lesser extent. PP mentioned some names they thought were timeless but J but I think of Jessica as a baby from the 90s (I knew of 3 baby Jessica's then and none now) and names like Alice, Kate. Hannah were popular 80s names and Eve is very popular now. They are all old names but they just seem to go in and out of fashion.

JollyGiraffe · 09/08/2019 14:12

Eleanor
Alice
Elizabeth

user1493494961 · 09/08/2019 14:09

Not keen on Elodie and Romy and think they will date. Like all your other choices except Estelle, prefer Stella.

BikeRunSki · 09/08/2019 14:05

My dniece is 15 and is Stella. I have never met another one. I think it isa name that is used so infrequently that it is not tied to a particular time.

CalmFizz · 09/08/2019 14:01

I agree with a pp, classic biblical/monarchy type names are the least likely to be too tied to one time. I feel like all of your list are somewhere on the tail end of a very popular run or at the crest of a wave of new trends. How often do you hear people say they chose a name because no one else had done so then 5 years later there’s 6 in the school.

Properly timeless classic names tend to get labelled as dull/boring by some people. Kate, Jessica, Alice, Eve, Hannah, Mary type names.

BikeRunSki · 09/08/2019 13:58

Eve, Olivia and Grace have been very popular for 10 ish, so are likely to scream “2010s” in time to come.

joystir59 · 09/08/2019 13:53

Stella is old fashioned to me.

joystir59 · 09/08/2019 13:52

Romy is lovely. German I think? Anyway, definitely a name.

Lyingonthesofainthedark · 09/08/2019 13:45

I think Romy will date.

Militantmartha · 09/08/2019 13:17

They are all nice names and I don't think any will date badly.

Perhaps Olivia is most likely to date fastest as it's been so popular for so long that it will surely reach its peak soon and will start to seem passé?

I feel the same about Grace especially when used as a middle name. It seems to be the current mn of choice (along with Rose) just like Louise was in the 80s.

Of your list Romy and Estelle are the ones I like most - they are more unusual and not tied to the latest trends.