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Picking longer version of name for birth cert

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AnnieMay100 · 19/05/2019 17:34

Posting for a friend... she would like to call her first baby jack after her father and grandfather, but due to her married surname she’s having second thoughts (the k at the end of the name would make her surname sound rude when said in full) so she’s considering Jaxson/jackson/Jaxon for the birth certificate/school/work but calling him Jack in general. Does this kind of thing work? Would she be better choosing a new name/ double barrelling a first and middle name or would her plan be ok? Had a quick Facebook stalk of the name and it seems popular in America so can’t be all bad? I’m not sure what advice to offer so hoping you ladies can help

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AnnieMay100 · 20/05/2019 09:13

Thanks everyone I appreciate the comments and agree with them, I don’t want to give away their surname as their family could be on here, now just to break it to her...

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stucknoue · 20/05/2019 07:35

Jack is traditionally "short" for John, but no idea why. The other names aren't good

Pythonesque · 20/05/2019 07:21

I also agree that, however much you like a name, if it leads to problematic associations due to the sounds, with the whole name, the shortened name, the initials, or any other standard shortening even if never intended to be used, you really need to think twice. Kids can be cruel, and the moment a combination is spotted you know it will be used.

I grew up with an unusual surname that was an "easy win" for teasing. You can't change that, but you can reduce any additional problems. Weirdly enough my married name is as bad as my maiden name, with more potential for problems with choices of initials - and we were extremely careful when naming our children. We nearly had a girl's name for our eldest when I ran it past my mother who immediately word-associated a common phrase with unfortunate connotation; it was ruled out straight away and I'm very glad we did.

StickOfRhubarb · 20/05/2019 07:14

I agree that if they call him Jack, he’s likely to be called Jack Hunt or whatever it is the whole time through school as there is likely to be another Jack as it’s so popular.

The names Jack, Jackson and Jaxon are not similar in any way other than the sound.

Outofinspiration · 20/05/2019 07:05

If its Gough (or whatever it is) then having a long name on the birth certificate won't make any difference will it? And I don't think you can control whether or not 'only family' call him Jack.

They need to go for something different. They could have Jack as a middle name as although they would still have the rude sounding name problem, it would be very rarely rather than every day.

peanutbutterismydownfall · 20/05/2019 07:02

I don't think this will work as a plan to avoid the name Jack ever being used with the surname.
By the time they get a few years into school, many children's names are automatically being shortened by their friends, particularly it seems amongst the boys, whether a traditional short form (William to Will; Thomas to Tom) or one which has just developed (Owen to O). This happens even when the parents are using the long name. If the parents are using the short name, there is even less chance of the long name being used officially as staff (other than the class teacher who has it on the register) just won't know that he has a long name.
Do also think about about the first name/initial of surname combination. There may be several Jacks so he is likely to be known as Jack H (if the surname was Hunt) at least some of the time.

saywhatwhatnow · 20/05/2019 06:59

Is it Hunter? I really want to know what it is now. If any variation of Hunt she cannot call him Jack in my opinion, kids can be cruel.

EskewedBeef · 20/05/2019 06:51

The surname might be Hock/Hockney or similar. Jack Hockney would be quite funny actually.

EskewedBeef · 20/05/2019 06:50

or Iago, the Spanish version of Jack.

That's James isn't it? Like Jago.

RaffertyFair · 20/05/2019 06:44

We dont know the surname Kokeshi but we know it's not Hunt. OP wrote surname not hunt but on a similar level,

Kokeshi123 · 20/05/2019 01:56

She CANNOT call him Jack Hunt, sorry. Either this is a windup or she is really stupid!

There are a million other lovely boys' names that work fine with Hunt.

Complainingagain · 20/05/2019 01:09

Her idea won't work because people will still call him Jack Surname! Even if on his BC is says Jackson or whatever. Especially his friends. She's setting him up for a lifetime of bullying/jokes. It's not at all fair.

ThanksItHasPockets · 19/05/2019 21:12

Jack is so popular that he is likely to be one of several in his class or year and known as Jack Hunt (for example) at school. It’s one thing to have a longer formal name for birth certificates and class registers but you can’t call a small child one thing at home and another at school. One form of the name will stick.

How about John? It’s traditionally what Jack is a nickname for.

Herbella · 19/05/2019 20:42

or Iago, the Spanish version of Jack.

Yes, I was wondering if he was the first born if the solution would be to slip her maiden name in to doubel barrell the surname.

Or just save the name Jacqueline for a daughter.

Chilledout11 · 19/05/2019 20:26

Could she double barrell her surname (maiden) with her new surname ?

Proseccofuelled · 19/05/2019 20:22

If it’s something like Jack Ockley then it really won’t help & they shouldn’t do it

Proseccofuelled · 19/05/2019 20:21

Usually yes but those names are horrific
Jack was short of Jonathan anyway I think so that might be the better choice - or would Jacob help?

Divgirl2 · 19/05/2019 18:26

John but known as Jack is pretty common in Scotland. Could that be an option?
Jackson/Jaxon/Jaxxon/Jaxson is awful.
They could go for Giacomo?

AnnieMay100 · 19/05/2019 18:25

Thanks everyone I’ll point out possible issues but ultimately it’s up to her and I don’t want to offend her...surname not hunt but on a similar level, I think her idea was for everyone to refer to him as Jackson and only family call him jack (not sure how you’d control friends calling him jack too though)

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RaffertyFair · 19/05/2019 18:25

Putting a longer version on the birth certificate won't help the issue at all, as MikeUniformMike has pointed out!

TatianaLarina · 19/05/2019 18:21

Jackson is a bloody awful name and Jaxon is even worse.

He’ll still be Jack Hunt so it doesn’t solve the problem.

daisypond · 19/05/2019 18:18

Jack is better than Jaxon or Jackson or Jaxson as a name. But Jack is the familiar form for John, so maybe use that as the proper name.

TheRedFox · 19/05/2019 18:15

Agree - if the surname is something like "Hunt" then registering a different name on the BC will make no difference as he'll still be known as eg Jack Hunt at school.

I wouldn't do it.

AuntMarch · 19/05/2019 18:11

Mike is definitely worse than Jack, if it is Hunt 😂. If it's Gough, Mike would make it funny rather than rude though.

I'm not a fan of Jackson, it's still very much a surname to me. I especially don't like the X spellings. (It's a secret opinion though as there is one in my family!)

HasThisSoddingNameGoneToo · 19/05/2019 18:09

Small?? Snail!

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