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Do you like your name?

162 replies

MustardYellowJumper · 23/04/2019 10:58

As I'm naming a baby girl, I'm wondering what you like/don't like about your name. (You don't have to say what it is.)

I have always liked my name. I like that it's feminine but not too girly or frilly. There's lots of them my age, but that's never bothered me - and there's a few different nicknames anyway. I never felt my name was boring or shared by too many people, although it was popular. I always liked that there were lots of famous women in history with the same name.

I didn't like that my siblings had a story to their names, and mine was a name my parents "just liked"!

So what do you like/dislike about your own name?

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cliquewhyohwhy · 24/04/2019 12:58

I hate my name, it's literally the most boring plain name ever.

whitehalleve · 24/04/2019 12:51

I love my name. I think it's a classic. It was in the top 10 when I was born but I haven't met another since school.

brizzlemint · 24/04/2019 12:48

I know of a 21 year old Hebe but she's the only one I know of apart from HebeMumsnet It's a lovely name thank you for the £5

HebeMumsnet · 24/04/2019 12:23

I like my name now but didn't like it when I was little as there weren't many of us around. I really wanted to be a Sarah or a Melanie or something else popular and more cool in the mid-eighties. But as an adult I do like it, and the fact that you don't hear it that much.

Stroan · 24/04/2019 11:55

No, I hate it. I was named after someone very prominent at the time, against my Mum's wishes.

The shortened form is more awful than the full one and the name sounds stuffy. I've always thought it was a name for a middle aged woman!

Jayne05 · 24/04/2019 11:47

I like my name but hate the Y in it. I really wish it was spelt Jane. Classic and traditional. I get sick of always having to say ‘Jayne...with a y’ when being asked. I would always stick with the most common spelling of a name.

AlliKaneErikson · 24/04/2019 10:37

I can’t complain about mine- it’s one that is often suggested on threads here too. It’s one of my dd’s Middle names too. Short, not flowery and not overly common when I was growing up.

Hushnownobodycares · 24/04/2019 10:27

I hate my name and always have. Can't use the middle one as it's no better Angry

DM told me it was DF who'd insisted on my ghastly moniker. She wanted to call me Melanie which I much prefer. I reckon I'd be a great Mel Grin

BuffySummerss · 24/04/2019 10:01

I love my name now, Olivia. I was born in the 80's and I've met no other Olivia's until recently thanks to the boom in popularity.
I hated it growing up as I wanted to be like all the other Sarah, Rebecca and Louises in my class.

beenhereages1 · 24/04/2019 09:36

I don't hate it, it's very classic, but I think 90% of girls who were born the year I was were also given the name! I went to school/worked with a lot of them..

ReginaGeorgeous · 24/04/2019 09:22

I'm a Lucy. I don't like it. I was one of three Lucys in my class at secondary school. Nobody ever calls me Lucy; it's either Luce or Lu. It's a little girls name that sounds a bit ridiculous now I'm in my thirties. I was serenaded with 'Lucy In The Sky With Diamonds' on a daily basis at primary school.

BillywigSting · 24/04/2019 08:13

Mine is okay but I much prefer the 'a' ending over the 'e' ending I have, I think it's less clunky.

I do love my shortened name tagged together with my surname though, it sounds pretty cool

Tiramisu1 · 24/04/2019 08:10

I hate mine. It's very much of it's time, the 60s and early 70s, and my parents chose it because it was popular and meant that I wouldn't stand out.

This should be a lesson to all those who claim popularity doesn't matter. I think lots of kids and especially adults would prefer not to have a popular name that eventually sounds dated and that they have to share with lots of others.

sashh · 24/04/2019 05:40

I've grown into the contracted version of my name, my original name was a classic but I was cursed with a made up spelling which was ditched by use of a deed poll.

ps1991 · 24/04/2019 04:10

I like my name, Carly, it’s not very common but also isn’t weird or out there. I do struggle to say it though. I think as I’ve gotten older I’ve become conscious of how it sounds with a northern accent and struggled with it 🙄 I like that it can’t be shortened too!

mathanxiety · 24/04/2019 04:04

beanaseireann no, that was my best friend Smile.

MercyBodle · 24/04/2019 03:53

I don't like my name. 3 reasons: it sounds terrible with my surname, it was extremely common in my birth decade, and I hate the obvious nickname that most people immediately shorten it to.

I like feminine but not fussy or frilly strong sounding names. Known but not common. And most of all to sound good with the surname. Even though I'm an older person I'm considering changing my name to either a variation of my original name or to a completely different name. Friends and family can just continue to use my old name as they do, but in new situations - work, study etc - I can feel much more confident about my name.

MadisonAvenue · 23/04/2019 21:32

I hate mine. It's very much of it's time, the 60s and early 70s, and my parents chose it because it was popular and meant that I wouldn't stand out.

I can't even use my middle name (Gail) instead as I hate that too.

Magmatic80 · 23/04/2019 21:31

I love my name. It’s quite pretty sounding, and springlike. It’s unusual enough to remark on it if I meet another one. My Dad chose my name. My surname is unusual in spelling, spelt slightly differently it’s a brand name so I automatically spell it when I say it. If I get married I will keep my maiden name, it’s mine, and I’m the last and youngest in my extended family with it, so I feel that I don’t want it lost.

lordofthefries · 23/04/2019 21:26

I hate my name (Katie), it just feels too boring and common and hasn’t aged well on me; but I hate Kate just as much. My last name was also very boring, one of the most common last names in the world. Thankfully DH’s name is very unusual and I love it

ilovebronn · 23/04/2019 21:22

I love my name and my maiden name. My married name is rubbish and I wish I'd have kept my old surname!

FinallyMrsE · 23/04/2019 21:14

I don’t mind mine at all, it’s inoffensive, pretty timeless but with 3 of us in the school mum group of friends, I don’t think it particularly bothers any of us though. (Emma)

sweetsaltypopcorn · 23/04/2019 21:06

Don't like mine.
I'm one of many, but the others are usually at least 15 years older.

CatkinToadflax · 23/04/2019 19:42

My name is Elizabeth and I absolutely loathe it. It's too long and too formal-sounding! I go by one of its many, many shortenings.

Thesnobbymiddleclassone · 23/04/2019 19:39

I love mine it works both long and short.

Alex and Alexandra.

I also love my middle name is I feel it all sounds nice together.

Alexandra Jayne.