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Changing 12 month olds name

53 replies

Rivan424 · 16/04/2019 06:36

Here's the thing, I had a name picked out for my son that I had always planned to call him. After giving birth, I found out no one in my family approved of the name and in a horrid mixture of pregnancy hormones and anxiety, I instead chose a random name that the doctor suggested. I am a single mother with no father figure in my child's life, so probably cared far too much about the opinions of my family members.

I have regretted this decision ever since and hate telling people his current name. I've decide after much heart ache and soul searching to change his name to what I truly wanted to call him, the name I feel suits him better than his current name. The only thing is that because he's at the 12 month mark, if I change his name now it will forever show on his birth certificate and I will have to explain to him as an adult how I misnamed him as a child.

Has anyone else been through this and has it affected their child later in life to have a different name the birth cert and the actual name a post script at the bottom?

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HeyJude81 · 16/04/2019 06:43

If that’s what you want and that’s what you’re happy with-go for it! Your DC will probably quite enjoy telling the story of their ‘2 names’ as they get older! If it feels right to you, that’s what matters!

englishdictionary · 16/04/2019 06:41

Get a goldfish. Call it the name you like. Leave your child's name alone. This thing about renaming children is quite bizarre. Your child is a year old already!

Rtmhwales · 16/04/2019 06:39

Haven't done this myself but I changed my name legally when I was 12. It never bothered me having a different name on the original.