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Sibling names starting with the same letter?

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RiverMeadow · 14/03/2019 21:07

I always said I wouldn't but absolutely adore a name that starts with the same letter as DC1? Thoughts? Is it chavvy?

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Crunchymum · 21/03/2019 21:41

Depends on the names? If they are similar then yes it's a bit meh..... but for example Adam and Anabelle are fine.

OwlBeThere · 21/03/2019 03:01

3 of my 4 children have names starting with the same letter, it’s entirely coincidental, perhaps because don’t have the same sound it didn’t really occur to me until I had no4 and she didn’t fit the ‘theme’. No one every says anything about it! 🤷🏼‍♀️

neddle · 20/03/2019 23:52

All mine have different initials, it makes it a lot easier for shorthand writing. Eg in my diary or on the calendar!i just write their letter rather than a full name. (I do have a large family though).

What they do share though is the last letter of their name. It’s also the same last letter for both mine and dh’s name. The first one was deliberate and matched the last two letters of mine and my mum’s names. The second one just happened without us thinking about it. By the third, wed realised and carried it on. After that, it got a little harder, but still doable.
To be fair, our surname starts with an s, which makes it difficult for names to sound right with it.

Antonin · 20/03/2019 23:43

In my family. all 3 of us had names beginning with the same.letter. It wasn’t planned and never caused any problems.. Names sounded different.

mrsdavys · 19/03/2019 13:08

I don’t see it as an issue at all.
You name your children what you like and then if the names happen to start with the same letter, well, why would that matter?

Bloomburger · 19/03/2019 06:00

Aw you'll be just like Pauline Fowler! Smile

Happilyacceptingcookies · 19/03/2019 05:51

I have a DD and a DS who are both J. Makes name labels for neutral school things easy! But on a serious note doesn't bother me in the slightest, those are the names we loved, didn't plan it that way

sycamore54321 · 18/03/2019 20:50

If I had narrowed my preferences for the second baby’s name down to just two that I liked equally, then I’d probably choose the name with a different initial if I really liked both absolutely equally. But otherwise I wouldn’t let it bother me and I think it’s absolutely fine.

Redrupunzle · 18/03/2019 13:40

My daughters have the same first letter, it's the same as mine to but it just happened my top 5 names all begin with that letter. Their names sound very different though.

aliceandkids77 · 15/03/2019 10:33

I have mixed opinions about this. If you have only two kids or a lot of kids with names all starting with the same letter, I think its a bit twee and Kardashian-y and personally wouldn't do it.
I think it's a completely different story if you have, say, five children and it happens that two of them have names starting with the same letter. I think that's absolutely fine! go with what you love x

SadieContrary · 15/03/2019 08:43

My three are all CC (2 SDS and one DC)

Normandy144 · 15/03/2019 08:41

I think if you have 3 or 4 then it's a bit much as it seems very deliberate. I have two girls both with C names, but they are different sounds, one has a Ch and the other a hard C. It wasn't deliberate at all, it's just that we liked those names. If DH had given in, then we'd have had an L and C but it just wasn't to be. If people think it's tacky then that's their issue.

SnuggyBuggy · 15/03/2019 06:50

It don't think it's necessarily chavvy but the post issue is something to consider. A different middle name would help.

WatchingTheWheels85 · 15/03/2019 06:43

I know someone with six children all beginning with L. Someone else with four children beginning with K.

ChoccyBiccyTastic · 15/03/2019 06:39

I don't think it gets weird until the endings are matchy too. Nothing wrong with Aaron and Amelia or Toby and Tristan.
Tilly, Tommy & Toby is a bit naff.

FenellaMaxwell · 15/03/2019 06:27

Depends on the names. Theodore and Tamsin would be fine but Lulu and Luca sounds stupid....

Arowana · 15/03/2019 06:24

I wouldn’t personally as I don’t like the way it sounds. It’s up to you though!

Bluelonerose · 15/03/2019 06:22

They're your dc name them what you like.
I know someone who has 4 dc all beginning with the same letter I also know someone (possibly more than 1 but this one springs to mind) who has first 2 with same letter initials and her other 2dc have completly different ones.

Me personally wouldn't go out of my way to pick a name starting with the same letter but if they just so happened to have the same initial coz I like the name I don't see the issue.

RiverMeadow · 15/03/2019 06:11

Sorry maybe chavvy was the wrong word to use! I was meaning slightly tacky.

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ElizabethMainwaring · 15/03/2019 03:02

Saying chavvy is a bit chavvy.

Ouchmytoe · 15/03/2019 02:35

I'm keen to name baby number 2 something that begins with a different letter to baby number 1, just because I'm worried that one day there might be a baby number 3 and this would be a problem because:

  1. while two kids with the same name could sound either cute or accidental (Rory and Rose, for example) 3 would sound planned, OTT and maybe even a bit naff (Rory, Rose and Ramona - overkill?)
  2. what if I can't find a name I like beginning with the same letter for baby number 3, so they're named something different? (Rory, Rose and Kate, for example. Wouldn't you feel a bit sorry for yourself if you were Kate?) I feel like it's the kind of thing that would bother a child. Or am I overthinking it?

(Thought about this a lot as I have a name for baby number 2 that I love but am unsure about as it begins with the same letter as baby number 1!)

CloserIAm2Fine · 14/03/2019 23:34

I don’t think it’s neccessarily chavvy, I’m not a fan though and I do think it’s a bit tacky

timeisnotaline · 14/03/2019 23:22

My two do , they were the names we liked. I am fine with it but won’t do the same with a third, that’s too much for me!

MumUnderTheMoon · 14/03/2019 23:20

I don't like it myself. It feels like they're a "set" it's even worse when one or both of the parents also have the same initial.

Bigonesmallone3 · 14/03/2019 22:15

I don't see how that would be chavvy

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