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Name paranoia

37 replies

SPR1107 · 26/02/2019 20:28

I'm not 100% on the names we've decided on, but neither me nor my DH will have each other's first choices (Florence or Olivia).

He has always wanted Rosie so I've said that I would go for that because I think it's a pretty name, we can't agree on anything else and I just hope I'd come to love it.

We haven't told anyone this name but at work, people have been giving me suggestion upon suggestion. Yesterday someone suggested Rosie by coincidence... our surname starts with an R and has two S's in it.
A couple of them laughed, with comments such as 'imagine calling it that', 'god that's a definite no' and 'what a mouthful'.

My DH was so happy that we'd come to a decision, and now I'm so paranoid about the name!

Is it really that bad?

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Tavannach · 05/03/2019 03:58

Anna
Sadie
Zoë
Nancy
Lucy
Alexandra

I like Rosie.

nocluenoidea · 05/03/2019 03:37

I think the alliteration is lovely and would def go with Rosie, such a pretty name.

However, it you want similar alternatives;

Romy
Remi
Felicity
Mila
Millie
Amelie
Livvy
Lavinia
Luella

Bumblebeesmum · 05/03/2019 01:10

I think Penrose is another

Bumblebeesmum · 05/03/2019 01:03

Nothing wrong with alliteration !

I think when you’re very sensitive to people’s opinions it can mean you’re not completely convinced yourself though.

I think Rosie is lovely but there would be a name you would both love if this isn’t it. I have a friend with a Rosalie and of course the legend Rosa would be cool.

If the alliteration is the thing that bothers you then what about Primrose & have Rosie as a nickname?

MumUnderTheMoon · 04/03/2019 09:48

Alice
Iris
Ivy
Hazel
Daisy
Hester
Maeve
Violet
Scarlet
Emer
Tessa/ Tess
Beth
Laurie/ Laurel
Faith
Grace
Felicity
Blithe

FrancisCrawford · 28/02/2019 12:22

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MikeUniformMike · 28/02/2019 10:37

I think it's fine and nicer than Florence and Olivia.

MollyYouInDangerGirl · 27/02/2019 23:23

I think Rosie is nice and probably wont be bad with your surname but it's hard to say without knowing what it is.

However it does seem like you don't love the name so maybe it isn't the right one?

I love florence!

Other names you could both like are
Annie
Alice
Daisy
Ella
Pippa
Sadie
Phoebe
Clementine (wild card choice 😂)

mkmo · 27/02/2019 22:18

Rosie Russel is a beautiful name. I'm sure your colleagues were joking. If you like it that's all that matters.

kaytee87 · 27/02/2019 22:14

I prefer Rosalie nn Rosa to Rosie.

What about Emma?

Ribbonsonabox · 27/02/2019 22:06

I think it sounds fine! I'd not use it as I say 'w' instead of 'r'... can you imagine lol!!! But if you can actually say 'r' it's totally fine. I dont think itd be too much of a mouthful.

Backhometothenorth · 27/02/2019 22:02

Flossie Ross would be quite bad!

LetsSplashMummy · 27/02/2019 13:39

I'd find it hard to go with that name after the conversation, sorry, but it doesn't sound like you really like Rosie anyway. I'd also try and steer any conversations away from this topic in future as people are much more brutal about theoretical baby names than ones they are presented with as fact.

I think there must be a good solution somewhere between Myla and Amelia - I know an Emilia who goes by Mila, for example. Then there is Maya, Amelie, Emme, even Emma, that are close to both.

Otherwise, maybe Josephine with either Posie or Josie as a nn - both similar to Rosie without the alliteration?

Mrssnowflake · 27/02/2019 12:54

I know a little Florence with nn Flossie...sounds a bit like Rosie? Would DH go for that?

Disfordarkchocolate · 27/02/2019 09:46

I think it sounds fine, I love an alliterative name they make me smile (handy as I have one). Some of your colleagues are rude.

NuffSaidSam · 27/02/2019 09:42

'The person who said Florence and Olivia are the same sort of names, I don't think they are as I loath Olivia'

Why? Is it the sound? Because they don't sound similar at all, but culturally (I don't think that's the right word, but hopefully you know what I mean!) I think they're in the same group!

It's interesting how the same name can provoke such different reactions! It's for the best otherwise we'd all have DC with the same name.

I don't have an Olivia or a Florence, but I really like both names.

MercyBodle · 27/02/2019 07:09

Sure, alliterations can be cute - but I grew up with one and couldn't wait to change my name. Cute for other people I think... or extroverts. I really do think they can sound good, and I like Rosie, but based on my experience I can't recommend it.

Just have an honest talk with DH. Tell him you don't love it, and are concerned that it may not work with surname. Maybe you have to keep working to find another name you can both agree with. Maybe one of your loves will grow on him, especially after he sees you in labour. I do think in the end you both need to love, or be happy enough, with the name.

Divgirl2 · 27/02/2019 06:52

My sister is a Rosie, but it's short for Róisín. Names with a similar feel to Rosie but which aren't a million miles from your other names...
Molly. Susie. Ruth (Ruthie). Katie. Ruby. Millie. Pippa. Libby. Zara. Freya.

Shadow1234 · 27/02/2019 06:44

First off, I dont think you should go for a name unless you both really love it, and I don't think you can make your husband like Florence if he really isn't keen. If you are not hundred per cent on Rosie, then I would keep searching until you are both happy with the final decision.

What about..

Amelie
Hannah
Lorna
Lana
Hailey
Lucy
Nancy
Evelyn
Laura
Alice
Lydia

RuthW · 27/02/2019 06:22

My dd is Florence. If your surname is Ross then Rosie Ross doesn't go but Florence Ross is even worse.

The person who said Florence and Olivia are the same sort of names, I don't think they are as I loath Olivia.

LauraPalmersBodybag · 26/02/2019 21:42

I have a name like that....I love it! I’ve had superhero and PI comments, always in a nice friendly way and I love the alliteration.

Jessabean · 26/02/2019 21:28

It depends on the surname really but alliterations I think can be quite cute.
How long is the surname? As others have said might it work better with a longer name and Rosie as a nn?

If you like Florence Rosie and Olivia maybe Flora? Harriet? Beatrice? Edith? Elsie? Iris? Eloise? Fleur? Sophia? Grace? Poppy? Maisie? Pippa?

PeanutButterIsOneWord · 26/02/2019 20:58

Do it! It's like a superhero alter ego.

MadameJosephine · 26/02/2019 20:55

How about a longer version with Rosie as a nn? I work with a Rosie whose full name is Rosemary or you could have Rosalind, Rozina or Roseanne?

ATailofTwoKitties · 26/02/2019 20:54

The Florences and Olivias that we know have sisters called Verity, Tamsin and Isabella, if that helps at all.

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