Which surname to use on birth certificate

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EducationComesFirst · 09/09/2018 11:55

We are of Eastern European origin and so the surname ending changes depending on the sex (letter "a" is added in the end for females). I would like to get some opinions on what version of surname sounds "better" to English ear (as need to register our daughter). Below is not the real name but similar example. Thanks!

Margaret Poludev
or
Margaret Poludeva

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EducationComesFirst · 09/09/2018 12:12

It's a bit messy. We registered Dd1 as Poludeva. When I was changing my maiden name to married after DD1 was born I was given my husband's surname Poludev as per marriage certificate. DS is also Poludev. So what version do we use for DD2??
We are planning to live in England. I suppose my question is which version sounds "better" or "less odd" to English ear?

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sashh · 09/09/2018 12:03

Please use the 'a' ending.

Historically surnames in England indicated ownership. This why apprentices and slaves took on their master's surname.

Having an indication that the name has something to do with the person whose name it is is a lovely idea.

JungWan · 09/09/2018 12:01

I'd add the a for a girl. I've known one russian family, a boy and a girl at my children's school. I get it. It aint rocket science.

otherwise you'll get people telling you you're wrong.

Sunflower321 · 09/09/2018 11:58

If she's female, would you normally choose the feminine version? Poludeva?

SleepyMcEdie · 09/09/2018 11:58

I think add the a

HJE17 · 09/09/2018 11:57

Both are lovely! I guess the real question is if ever in future you have a boy, do you want them to have the “same” last name. Although I think most people could figure out that Poludev and Poludeva are related!

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