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Teresa

53 replies

FloydOnThePull · 20/05/2018 13:20

DH and I have settled on calling our baby girl Tess. I worry that it might be too cutesy for an adult woman and therefore would like to give her the option of a more formal name that she could use when she's older if she wanted to. We've considered other options for a longer name but it has come down to a straight decision between Teresa (known as Tess) or just Tess.

As an example, DH and I both work in the sort of professions where there aren't that many women at the top anyway and those that can chose to go with a shortening for the office and a more formal version to the outside world e.g. Liz in the office but Elizabeth when corresponding with new clients or giving a speech (obviously, I'd love to think that by the time our daughter is starting her career there will be much better workplace equality and people wouldn't judge based on a name but sadly that's not the world we currently live in).

We would only refer to her as Tess. We both like the name Teresa but DH has reservations on the basis that our current Prime Minister is Theresa May (note we are proposing the different spelling). Politics wise we're both floating voters but would probably vote Lib Dem more often than not. My point is that, nobody but close family would know she even has the longer version as we'd be calling her Tess and by the time she's old enough to consider using the option, Theresa May will be a distant memory.

Anyway, long ramble to get to the point but, would you be put off calling a baby Teresa simply because people might assume that you had named her after Theresa May?

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TatianaLarina · 20/05/2018 14:23

I never liked Theresa but May would put me off even more. She will never be a distant memory given that she’s completely fucked the country.

Really like Tessa though. If you call her Theresa she routinely be called her full name. If you want her to be Tess she needs to be Tessa.

I think Tess for an adult on its own is too familiar for a professional environment.

Wellhellooo · 20/05/2018 14:12

Stick with Tess

HeyDolly · 20/05/2018 14:11

Hate Theresa/ Teresa but love Tessa/Tess.

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