Mothers maiden name as middle name?

I think it depends on the actual name. I have my grandmothers maiden name as my middle name, it's a definite surname & also a place name & it's awful, I hate it! I never tell anyone what it is.

We actually gave both my DSs my mother's maiden name as a middle name. It had otherwise died out.

If I ever get around to it I'll add it to my name too.

I wanted to recognise my (late) DM's family/heritage and we didn't fancy double barreled surnames

I mean travel alone with the kids

We have this too. I didn’t take my husband’s surname after marriage and I find it helps when I travel alone to have my (somewhat uncommon) surname somewhere in my kids’ passport :-)

Like pp my dd has two middle names, 1 a traditional middle name and the second my maiden name before her surname.

DS has my maiden name as a middle name - it is more commonly used as a boys name then surname anyway so works well. I'm glad we did so as I was feeling a bit unrepresented (although I can't really explain why) and this helped a lot.

It's not unusual in Wales. Either the mother's maiden name or a family middle name is often used as a middle name for a boy or a girl.
e.g. Huw Vaughan Roberts or Cadi Lloyd Jones

My DS has my maiden name as one of his middle names. It wasn’t something I was too fussed with but my DH thought we should as his family did it.

My DS has my last name but my husband's surname as his middle name.
I do think most last names that can be first names do tend to be men's names.

I use my own surname. Both our twenty something DCs have it as a middle name. So they have the ‘Forename Forename MySurname HisSurname’ combo mentioned upthread.
At DS’s Graduation, the whole darn lot was read out, which frankly was a bit of a mouthful. As a result, DD insisted on being announced as plain ‘Forename Surname’ at hers. That’s our example of the potential embarrassment of lots of names OP.

My maiden name was Williams so we used William as a middle name

I think it can be very cool, depending on the actual names involved. One of my schoolfriends had Jones as a middle name and it really worked well with her other names - very stylish.

I would have loved to do the same for my kids, but unfortunately my maiden name is an actual boy's name (and a really sad and uncool one at that).

I think it really depends on the name, my dm's maiden name is Dick so im fairly certain I wouldnt be greatful for that

My husband has his mother’s maiden name as one of his middle names. I have my maiden name as my middle name (didn’t have a middle name before getting married) and my children have my maiden name as one of their middle names too. It means they have long names in their passports but in reality just use first and last name at school and out and about. But they’re v aware they have my maiden name as part of their name too and seem to like it.

You could use your surname as your DC surname, why do you want to use it for a middle name?

Both my DC have a Scottish surname as their middle name, family tradition on their Dad's side, their cousins have it too, they are older teens and have never been teased about it.

But no way would I have given them my maiden surname as it's a girls name and I found it a pain growing up and it was obviously worse for my brother.

I know quite a few people that do it - I'm in NI. Most of the ones I know are first namey anyway if you know what I mean - Spencer, Murray, Reid etc. I've 3 kids - they never mention their friends middle names - teasing or otherwise. They couldn't tell you most of their friends middle names. I know their own middle names are only ever used at the Doctors when the initial comes up on the electronic board. My youngest asked me what my and her dads middle name was a few months ago - they are very rarely used on a day to day basis.

Lovely idea. Go for it

I would absolutely be giving our son my surname as a middle name when he arrives, but it just sounds awful when said aloud with DP's surname. Both begin with the same letter and sound like a joke name together. We've opted for my grandad's name as middle name instead so that there is still a link to my side of the family.

My DS has my surname as a second middle name. I didn't want to double barrel his surname and it works well as a name in itself iyswim. I am the last in my family with an unusual surname - I didn't like the idea of it just disappearing forever after me, but also wanted to give DS his father's surname for various reasons. I'm happy with his name many years later, and he likes it too. I say go for it!

My grans first name is Mary but she gets called May; my middle name is May after her and I will be naming dd1(due April 15th) with May as her middle name as well as she will take her dad's last name so I wanted her to have a piece of me. As my partner and I are not married, we have discussed him adding May on to his name as a middle name if we get married. For me it would be difficult to change my name as I have 3 residential visas and 2 passports for different countries meaning a name change could look dodgy. However he does not want to change his last name as it has a lot of history from his dad's side due to slavery etc whereas my last name is from my dad who I speak to once or twice a year on the phone and saw a handful of times throughout my childhood.

It's the norm in my circle - generally professional women who have kept their own name on marriage. Baby has Dad's surname and Mum's surname as a middle name.

We have achieved something similar in the opposite way and given DD a double barrelled surname with both of our names, unhyphenated. If she wants to move one of them to be a second middle name and only go by the other in the future then she can.

We did but it can be used as an normal name but it is very American. OP is knowing her name is helpful then for you the PM me.

My dh has his mum’s maiden name as his middle name, it’s also a regular first name. We considered doing the same for our dd, wish we had.