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Why do people double barrel first names?

137 replies

FlawlessFuckup · 27/01/2018 22:29

Inspired by the ‘somebody explain Nando’s to me’ thread to find answers to my own personal mysteries.

I just don’t get it. I think hyphens look ugly, and most people only get called the first half of the name anyway, Sofia for Sofia-Rose etc.

I personally feel hyphenating names with a made up misspelt half-name like -Mai is odd. But I find it even odder when people hyphenate two ‘normal’ names, that have no obvious connection to each other, like Sofia-Rose, to use the same example.

I just don’t get it. Could someone explain it to me? Why would/did you do this? Is it because you couldn’t decide between two names, or another reason?

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worstwitch18 · 28/01/2018 08:59

Satan-Grace! Shock Grin

pigeondujour · 28/01/2018 08:57

Three together is just unrealistic. Who's actually going to use them all? She'll just get called Ella, by everyone, forever.

'Council' is such a horrible way to describe anything.

RedBlackberries · 28/01/2018 08:56

Sarah-Grace obviously!!

RedBlackberries · 28/01/2018 08:56

It's a nice way to use a really popular name but make it different like Satan-grace or Clara-rose or whatever. I like it.

overnightangel · 28/01/2018 08:53

I hated it. It sounded so , council, for lack of a better word.

Well you sound so, up your own arse and snobby

itsbetterthanabox · 28/01/2018 08:52

I don't like it. It's always the same second names and and it's always to make a perfectly nice name even more flowery/babyish/girly.
Rose, may, grace, Marie etc.

DotCottonDotCom · 28/01/2018 08:46

Flawless not so much why, but here’s the best bit...

My mum told me the second part was suggested by my dad, which in turn was his ex’s name 🙈 my mum always sounded secretly fuming but I don’t know why she agreed to it either.

Yeah, they aren’t all there!

(They don’t know about my name change)

PaperdollCartoon · 28/01/2018 08:44

If I see a child with a double barrelled first name I always assume parents are lower class. I know this is judgmental but it indicates a group to me in the same way I’d assume Mohammad’s parents were Muslim.

Giving your children a double barrel with the second name shared is awful. Sounds like you couldn’t be bothered to come up with a whole name just for them.

fruitofthenight · 28/01/2018 08:44

My child goes to school with a child who has a triple barreled first name, it looks like the parents couldn't chose between two double barreled names so threw them together. So instead of chosing Ella-May or Ella-Rose theyve just chose Ella-May-Rose (not childs real name)

FlawlessFuckup · 28/01/2018 08:39

@Dot - did your parents ever say why they picked your name?

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DotCottonDotCom · 28/01/2018 08:22

I also remember if the school was caught calling me by one half of my double barrelled name my dad would get really angry. He would correct anyone. I found it awkward and embarrassing

NewYearNiki · 28/01/2018 02:20

Isn't it common in France?

Jean-Luc
Jean-Pierre
Anne-Marie

SuperBeagle · 27/01/2018 23:52

It's not a new thing.

Anne-Marie, Lisa Marie, Sarah-Jane, John Paul etc. all very popular in the past.

I have a Lily Rose. No hyphen. It's because we wanted Lily but it clashed with our surname as a standalone name. So she's called Lily 99% of the time, but when her name is read or said aloud in full, she's Lily Rose L, which sounds much better.

llangennith · 27/01/2018 23:14

I know an Ava-Grace and a Lily-Anne. Why ffs???

feral · 27/01/2018 23:13

I have a double barrelled first name. It's German.

I don't care for it but it is actually a proper name. Like Marie-Claire is.

I don't care for random double barrelling much but each to their own.

JPTB · 27/01/2018 23:11

It's cumbersome, a faff and I don't like it. But each to their own - I doubt everyone like the names my kids have! (And I don't care! And I fully expect people who hyphenate know full well that it's not received well by most people and they don't care either.)

Even a total of four syllables split into two never flows as well as a four-syllable name.
Ella-Louise is cumbersome. Elizabeth is lovely.
Anna-Beth is cumbersome, even though it's shorted than Elizabeth.
I've never seen a double-barrelled British name that feels comfortable, to my ears.
Somehow it does sound ok when the French do it! Grin

Of the people I know who have done it,
One - picked both grandmothers' names and mushed them together (Bizarrely, it could have worked much better as one name that was already a name - like Annabelle, but they called her Belle-Anna)
Two - Wanted to be unique (probably isn't though, the second name is one of those ubiquitous -Mae -Lily -Rose type fillers)
Three - parents couldn't decide and couldn't compromise. Though I always think that the parent who got their choice placed first is the winner!

The vast majority are girls, but I do know four boys with double-barrelled names. One gets shortened to his initials, they call him OJ, or 'Ohhjjj'!

FintyTin · 27/01/2018 23:08

I think it depends on whether the names 'go' together. Daisy-May sounds far less clumsy than Harriet-Poppy, for example.
Please don't do it if your surname is also hyphenated, though!

EggsonHeads · 27/01/2018 23:05

@MrsHathaway I didn't realise it was a catholic tradition-not catholic ourselves and have never had that assumption from others (husband and children are not the right ethnicity for people to assume Catholicism) but children may find it nice if they choose to convert. I think the whole 'council' thing is only used by people from that end of the socio-economic spectrum. I've never heard it in real life and I don't think that dotcotton meant any harm as she was referring to herself.

DullAndOld · 27/01/2018 23:05

well there is for example the Welsh name Valmai but its pronounced my not may

Myddognearlyatethedeliveryman · 27/01/2018 23:03

I knew a nice woman and her equally canny dsis, they had 6 dc each and all had double names!! Used to blow my mind hearing them at the shops!! Terry-Lee was one lad, Tony - Paul another. And one set of siblings had double barrelled surnames -

thepatchworkcat · 27/01/2018 23:03

don’t think

thepatchworkcat · 27/01/2018 23:02

Just to mention I don’t Mai is a misspelling - isn’t it possibly the Welsh or Irish version?!

BrazzleDazzleDay · 27/01/2018 23:01

My name would be much easier to pronounce if it was hyphenatted.

Fuckit2017 · 27/01/2018 23:00

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Demiguisee · 27/01/2018 22:59

I've heard Abigail-Kimberly. Seems so pointless as she's never going to be called that fully on real life, it might as well just be a middle name.