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Why do people double barrel first names?

137 replies

FlawlessFuckup · 27/01/2018 22:29

Inspired by the ‘somebody explain Nando’s to me’ thread to find answers to my own personal mysteries.

I just don’t get it. I think hyphens look ugly, and most people only get called the first half of the name anyway, Sofia for Sofia-Rose etc.

I personally feel hyphenating names with a made up misspelt half-name like -Mai is odd. But I find it even odder when people hyphenate two ‘normal’ names, that have no obvious connection to each other, like Sofia-Rose, to use the same example.

I just don’t get it. Could someone explain it to me? Why would/did you do this? Is it because you couldn’t decide between two names, or another reason?

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TatianaLarina · 06/02/2018 09:29

There’s meaning behind the name not the hyphen. It didn’t have to be hyphenated, they could have just used Louise as a middle name.

BabyMum17 · 05/02/2018 22:00

Sometimes hyphenated first names have a meaning behind them. My dad wanted me to be called Louise but my half related cousin is called Louise so my mum didn't feel comfortable having that just as my first name so they decided to call me Zoë-Louise so my dad could have part of his way but my name would always get shortened to Zoë so hyphenating it made him happy but no one would ever realise that my name was
Zoë-Louise is no one would ever really say that

TatianaLarina · 05/02/2018 13:12

I find the fashion unbearably twee.

Belindabauer · 05/02/2018 01:02

I have to agree that most people I know have dropped the second part. I've never met anyone with a double barrelled name I liked.
They are either cutesy- Lilly mae etc or don't sound nice Victoria-Marie.

Lennythelion14 · 04/02/2018 23:31

At my children's school its a cultural thing. Mohammed-Azaan, Muhammad-Ali or Mohammed something. All boys known by their full 1st name. There was also a Muslim girl with triple 1st names.The girls usually just had 1 first name tho.

sweetkitty · 04/02/2018 23:13

I'm double barrelled with hyphen and I hate it. It's a pain with online forms and I got teased about it when I was younger.

Lennythelion14 · 04/02/2018 23:03

My youngest child has a hyphenated first name. The 2nd part is after a child that died. Each to their own tho. Some names sound nice put together and others are clunky.

RosieCotton · 01/02/2018 14:22

I have a double barrel first name. Oh god is it a pain in the ass. They didn't give a normal spelling either so I ha r to spell the whole thing out. And some forms need your name as printed on passport but don't accept hyphens. It's a nightmare. My mum did it because "it was done" she came from a very roman Catholic household, we all have Saint middle names to please my nana but I hate it. The only time she has ever used my full first name is when I'm in trouble. Even my husband didn't realise for 2 years that I don't have a middle name I actually have 2 first names.

MikeUniformMike · 31/01/2018 13:08

It was quite common where I come from for the mother to use her surname as a middle name when she gets married. Middle names, especially two middle names were not that common.
Jane Taylor would marry John Smith.
Jane Taylor Smith and John Smith would have children.
A child, often a daughter would get her mother's maiden name as a middle name and the boy the father's first name.
The children would be Peter John Smith and Sarah Taylor Smith.
The full name tended to get used.

Kokeshi123 · 31/01/2018 12:33

It's considered a bit lower-class in the UK (which is funny, because in France there is no such connotation. Just goes to show how random it is).

Have been told by a double barrel that it gets annoying because people remember your name is DB but not what DB name it is. So if you are Mary Anne, you get Mary Lou, Mary Beth, Anne Marie, Lucy Anne etc. etc.....

Danglingmod · 31/01/2018 12:08

I work in a secondary school. I can't think of a single exception to my realisation that all the children with double-barrelled first names choose to drop one of them. This is also almost completely true for double-barrelled surnames too. I just think teenagers don't think that cutesy names are cool.

So, almost every Ava-Rose Wilson-Smith prefers to go by Ava Smith. I'm not sure if their parents are aware...

alphajuliet123 · 31/01/2018 10:48

I'm not keen on double-barrelled either, especially if combined with a double-barrelled surname. There is a boy at our school with both, and all his names could also be surnames. Poor kid sounds like a solicitors - think Taylor-Dale Carrington-Smith. Naff.

MrsSchadenfreude · 31/01/2018 10:30

Names that “go” together traditionally, like Sarah-Jane, Mary-Jane, Anne-Marie, Sally-Anne, fine. DD was at school with an Emily-Maeve, which doesn’t exactly trip off the tongue.

AngelicaSchuylerChurch · 31/01/2018 09:58

I know a very upper-middle class, staunchly Catholic family who have given one of their DDs an unhyphenated double-barrelled first name along the lines of Maria Theresa. Everyone seems to use the full name and they gently correct anyone who calls her 'Maria'.

MikeUniformMike · 30/01/2018 23:09

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MikeUniformMike · 30/01/2018 23:08

It's pronounced Dahl-ya. The flower id Dahl-ya or Dale-ya apparently.

MikeUniformMike · 30/01/2018 22:25

I don't know how to say Dahlia. I know the flower is pronounced Dale-ya but it's a popular name in Scandinavia so maybe it's pronounced Dahl-ya.

deste · 30/01/2018 22:19

I know a woman in her early 60s called Carol-Margaret Morrison- McLean. Names changed slightly. I think she thought it made her sound classy.

mathanxiety · 30/01/2018 06:34

One of my DDs has a double barreled name. I had forebears named Peter Stanislas (no hyphen but known by the full name), Marie-Louise, Eleanore-Margaret, Anna-Maria, Anne-Claire... All Irish and Catholic.

It's a popular option in Ireland and has been for generations. Not at all 'council' Hmm.

Out of fashion now is the use of Mary as a middle name for boys in Ireland. My grandfather actually went by 'Mary' because his first name was such a Latin mouthful.

MrsHathaway · 29/01/2018 17:31

ermagerd Weasel I'm actually surprised how many I got in two minutes until I got bored and stopped.

I know someone who painstakingly trawls the lists when the ONS releases them, to combine eg Isabel/Isobel/Isabelle, Mohamed/Mohammed, etc for a better indication of popularity. Because it may well be true that the precise name you've chosen isn't in the top two hundred (or whatever) but if it sounds identical to something that's top ten then that's useful information to someone who cares about popularity!!

WeaselsRising · 29/01/2018 16:48

Try this Sporcle quiz on double-barrelled first names. Hint: you have to enter every different spelling separately... Has kept me occupied for hours.

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Mayhemmumma · 29/01/2018 12:41

I suppose parents just love both names. I was tempted to add in the hyphen for my DD after she was born because quite frankly her name is amazing and I wanted to shout it from the roof tops....I gave my head a wobble and didn't mind..

Some of the children's names at our school are incredibly long and hyphonated and people use the full name, it's totally OTT but I quite like seeing all the little ones with their 5 or 6 syllable names!

SleepFreeZone · 29/01/2018 12:34

I don’t like it either, although my son’s little friend has a double barrelled first name and actually a double barrelled surname too! That’s s mouthful for sure.

I stuck my surname in as both children’s middle name as it can also be used as a forename and saved us double barrelling their surnames. I suppose it’s a play on what Egg has done on Page one but just far less fancy 😜

MamTDM · 29/01/2018 12:30

I know a Danny-Boy. Always referred to in full.

Alisvolatpropiis · 29/01/2018 12:19

Satan-Grace has made me laugh.

Mind, I’ve always thought that Lucifer was a lovely name, Biblical issues aside.