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Would it be wierd to have a work name? If not help me find one.

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Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:24

I have the most common name that ever existed. I'm sure you can guess. I've spent my whole life at school, university, work, school playground etc having to add a surname on as there are thousands of us.
Anyway I'm starting a new job next week in a small company. There are about 10 women. Currently 3 share my name. However there is another lady starting in the same day and my heart sank when I found out that yes she also has the name. So that's 5 out of 11. Potentially very confusing and I don't want to spent years being known as short x or old x or just a surname.
Anyway so I wondered whether to just say call me y to make things easier.
So I need suggestions assuming you don't think it's ridiculous. I want a nice normal name for a lady aged 46. But nothing too popular of course.

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Redsippycup · 21/07/2017 19:43

Does your middle name have a nickname that your mum doesn't use?

My mate Sarah is called Saz, but it isn't very professional I suppose.

Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:43

Yes Red that's true I hadn't thought of that but I definitely don't want be seen as stand offish.

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HelenaJustina · 21/07/2017 19:43

Sally is a known nn for Sarah, go with that? It's only for work and you might not be there forever!

Orangepear · 21/07/2017 19:43

Sally is a nickname for Sarah.

BertrandRussell · 21/07/2017 19:42

Mega snap!

ClashCityRocker · 21/07/2017 19:41

I think I could stretch to sasha being a nickname for Sarah - Sally maybe?

Sarey Ive seen in a book somewhere.

RedSandYellowSand · 21/07/2017 19:41

Problem us, you won't respond to your name in a normal way, so you will be seen as cold, and anti-social.
I go by my middle name, and it always rakesxa few seconds if someone calls me by my official name.

So, say I'm Sarah Louise Smith. If soneone calls out Louise, or Louise Smith, or Mrs Smith, I immediately associate that with me. When the Reciptionist says Sarah Smith to Dr Jones, I do pleatky blank it. It's not "me".

So, yes. It sounds great. But is unlikely to work in practice.

BertrandRussell · 21/07/2017 19:41

I think Sally is traditionally short for Sarah.

Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:41

I think Sally can be.i do t love it but it makes sense at least.

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Doilooklikeatourist · 21/07/2017 19:41

If it's Sarah
Why not try Zara ?

Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:40

I don't even have a nickname.

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TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 21/07/2017 19:40

Am I imagining things or is Sally a nickname for Sarah?

InvisableLobstee · 21/07/2017 19:39

How about a nickname rather than a different "proper name" then you can just say everyone calls me by my nickname.

ClashCityRocker · 21/07/2017 19:39

Id probably have a name that was loosely tied to my actual name.

So if it's Laura, something like Laurie, lola, Lara, etc.

A colleague at work is known by choice by her first name and middle name although they aren't hyphenated but probably wouldn't work.

I can see it being a bit of a pain in the arse if you've got to use your official bane in certain situations Eg first aid training or professional qualifications.

Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:38

That's the other problem with Sarah. No nicknames.

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Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:37

I wish it was Jane. Quite like Jane but there's already a Jane.

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PuppyMonkey · 21/07/2017 19:36

Oh right Sarah? Could you be Sara or Sahara or Sash or Sass.

Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:36

Yes River. You are right of course.
Sasha is a nice name. Feels a little too exotic when I'm used to having a popular name but very pretty.

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PuppyMonkey · 21/07/2017 19:35

Could you change it from Jane to Janie or Jay or Jazz (Wink)

Doilooklikeatourist · 21/07/2017 19:34

So I'm guessing Sarah , Susan , Louise , Gemma ?
And suggesting
Zoe
Lucy
Emma
Eleanor
Mary

RiverTam · 21/07/2017 19:34

So it's Sarah (why not just come out and say it??).

What about Sasha?

Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:34

Of actually I don't mind Fran.

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MrsHathaway · 21/07/2017 19:32

Baby is actually called Frances - how does Frances or Fran grab you?

Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:31

Oops dirty dancing.

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Freakishlycommon · 21/07/2017 19:31

Dirty fancy my favourite film so maybe not!

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