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Has anyone ever stole your name idea?

33 replies

Tippitoesandbuttonnose · 11/06/2017 19:01

My DM always wanted to call my brother Jamie when he was born( with James on birth cert). This is what she introduced him as to everyone who visited in the hospital but they called him James and eventually my poor mum went along with it.

Fast forward 18 years and my cousin is pregnant and plans on calling baby Jamie! This isn't a coincidence we don't think as her sister my other cousin named her DS Ethan, which was my mums first pick for her DS2 but my dad didn't like it so they called him Nathan. When baby Ethan was born my auntie said to my mum 'oh we know you wanted to call yours Ethan' Confused

So that's both cousins, daughters of my auntie who has known my mum through all the births of her children, who have picked names they've known my mum loved and wanted.

Just wondering if you've ever experienced someone stealing your name choice.

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Funnyfarmer · 11/06/2017 19:10

Yes with my 1st born. 16 years ago. I was pregnant at the same time as a friend of a friend. She knew she was having a boy. I didn't know the sex.
I didn't have a name for a girl but had cayden for a boy. I know it's a bit chavy now but I had never heard it before back then.
She said she was going to call her baby Ethan.
So a few months later I gave birth to a baby girl.
My friend told me this conversation took place.
Df "so funnyfarmer had a baby girl"
Name stealer. "A girl? What has she called her?"
Df "babyfarmer"
Ns. "So she didn't use the name cayden?"
Df. "Obviously not"
A month later she gave birth to a baby boy. Called him cayden!
She denied that she ever even due that was the name I had even though I told her myself.
She Also denied the conversation with df took place.
16 years later. Still bugs me

Mistletoekids · 11/06/2017 19:05

Is your mum planning on having more children? Hmm

AllTheWittyNamesAreGone · 11/06/2017 19:05

My neighbor adopted a dog who had my fictional girl child name.

Cunts

DramaAlpaca · 11/06/2017 19:04

They are different generations so I really can't understand why it matters.

In fact I think it's quite nice that the names your DM liked are now getting used in your extended family.

AbbeyRoadCrossing · 11/06/2017 19:04

I don't think it's stealing 18 years on and with a name as popular as James. If I've understood your post correctly.
Best to keep name ideas quiet when pregnant anyway until baby arrives then there's minimal hassle

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 11/06/2017 19:04

It's 18 years ago! Let it go.

NapQueen · 11/06/2017 19:02

Its hardly stealing is it?

These are all very common names.

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