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Opinions on double barrelled first names

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user1489781128 · 17/03/2017 20:18

My boyfriend really likes the name Chloe-Grey as a double barrelled first name but I'm not too sure. I wouldn't mind Grey as a middle name though.

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Mrsknackered · 26/03/2017 22:11

My grandma is Mary Jane and she never knew it was slang for cannabis until I told her a few years ago.
Sarah-Jane, those kind of classics are acceptable IMO but I've seen Kayleigh-Laura, Sienna-Aaliyah and Amelia-Lily, it's ridiculous. Pick one name!

Gallavich · 26/03/2017 15:32

There are names that get more popular amongst different demographics. So the atticuses and the Romans and the Gabriellas and the Arabellas are popular in middle-upper middle class circles, and the lily-maes and Jayden-joes are more popular in working class circles. That doesn't make them bad, just more popular in those demographics.
If you want a name that signals that you are middle class or aspiring, avoid a double barrelled unless it's a classic like anne-Marie.
Personally I really hate double barrelled names not because of the class association but because I think they are cutesy and infantilising. They are used for boys but it's mainly girls who get the flopsy-rai-mai-jai type names and I just think it's setting them up to be viewed as less serious than other women. When you add in potential social-economic disadvantages too it's a double whammy of crap for the kids.
Chloe is nice enough but pretty common, and Grey isn't a first name. People would assume she's Chloe Grey-Smith rather than Chloe-Grey Smith.
There are so many unusual and lovely names out there. Don't go for the combination of boring+random shoved together with a hyphen.

sooperdooper · 24/03/2017 07:52

My first name is hyphenated and I'd never known before MN it was 'chavvy' Grin I rarely use my full name, it just kinda got dropped at some point, not for chav reasons, just because it's a bit of a mouthful I guess, my parents don't even use it

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Farfromtheusual · 19/03/2017 14:40

Why is it classed as chavvy?? Hmm

My DS's name is hyphenated. Everyone always comments on what a lovely name and some have even said it sounds rather posh.

passingthrough1 · 19/03/2017 14:30

I really really hate hyphens, sorry.

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Ellieboolou27 · 19/03/2017 11:41

I think the chavvy association comes from the rose and mai / may epidemic

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harderandharder2breathe · 18/03/2017 11:59

Chavtastic

Sallysadlyseescertainty · 18/03/2017 11:17

This is a wind up?

TisConfusion · 18/03/2017 11:14

I really don't like double barrelled first names. Just pick one great first name!
Chloe is nice, I don't think Grey is nice at all, it's more of a surname.

NotYoda · 18/03/2017 10:51

I don't like them

They are a mouthful, they sound a bit twee. They make it seem like you couldn't make a decision so you diluted two nice names to make one that is less than the sum of its parts

Crumbs1 · 18/03/2017 10:22

Sorry double barrelled forenames usually label a child - not in a good way.

senua · 18/03/2017 10:21

Considering the fashion for double-barreling surnames, she could end up with something ridiculous like Chloe-Grey Smith-Brown.Grin

holidaysaregreat · 18/03/2017 10:21

Bit chavvy with the hyphen - not so bad without the hypen so something like Lily Rose is lovely. But for some reason Lily-Rae or Lily-Mai would be chavvy. Not sure why Lily Rose is OK but it just looks nicer.
Grey isn't a name though and would look silly.

GeillisTheWitch · 18/03/2017 10:19

I don't mind double barrelled names but Grey is not a proper name. Chloe-Grace would be ok although Chloe on its own is fine too.

ColourfulOrangex · 18/03/2017 10:16

My DS has a double barrelled first name and I am due a DD soon who is also getting a double barrelled first name, neither of them will have a middle name and yes sometimes my son is just referred to as the first part of his first name (if that makes sense) but he will always have a unique name that isn't too out there...it also works wonders when he decides to - rarely - play up Wink

NashvilleQueen · 17/03/2017 22:54

I think the problem is that Grey isn't a first name and just adding it to Chloe with a hyphen doesn't change that fact. I don't particularly like double barrelled names
but at least if you go for a Sarah Jane or a Lily Rose people know the score. Chloe is a nice name as it is. If doesn't need something tacking on the end to be different

freddiethegreat · 17/03/2017 22:42

My name is double-barrelled, by my own choice. The second half was added by deed poll at 18 after a deceased parent. I use both, I have a death stare for just the first name (I express my preference for both gently first, but after about three times, the death stare comes out). I have three 'short' versions, but all include the second part. That said, I find it hard to 'hear' Chloe-Grey as other than first name-surname.

expatinscotland · 17/03/2017 22:40

My dad has one, but his parents are Mexican and his name is in Spanish. It really works, in Spanish, French and other Romance languages. But in English? Sounds ridiculous. Sorry.

mummabearfoyrbabybears · 17/03/2017 22:37

Many years ago I had a friends who's daughter was called 'Anna-Christina'. The mum never shortened it and everyone had to call her Anna-Christina. It put me off double barrelled for life

WyfOfBathe · 17/03/2017 22:36

I didn't add earlier that my own name is double-barrelled. I probably shouldn't have forgotten that Grin. I use a much shorter version though, even in professional situations, e.g. Abigail-Louise, known as Gail. If you do give your DD a long or hyphenated name, you need to accept that she (or others) might choose to shorten it.