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Would you use the name anyway?

39 replies

mistermagpie · 25/02/2017 15:02

So I'm 34 weeks pg and if it's a boy, we really only have one name picked. However a friend of mine is 35 weeks pg and last week told me that her boys name is the same as ours. She told me first and I just sort of said 'oh how funny, that's the name we have picked too!'. She didn't really respond.

Factors for consideration:
A) both or other of us might have a girl anyway
B) we are friends but not particularly close ones, don't see each other that often and mainly socialise within a group that contains people that both of us are better friends with than we are with each other (if that makes sense).
C) our children won't go to the same school (she will go with the catholic school, we won't).
D) we have very very similar surnames, we're in Scotland so think McDonald and McDougal
E) and because you can't have a baby name thread without saying the name - it's Hamish. So not super common but not a rarity around these parts either!

WWYD?

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Biscuitsneeded · 25/02/2017 16:02

Just use it. It's a great name. The other people, or you, may move house, or you may just not see much of each other. I really wouldn't worry.

QuitMoaning · 25/02/2017 16:00

My best friend's son has exactly the same name as my son. Hers is about 5 years older but it didn't stop me. It is a common name, normally in the top 10 regularly.

Rockaby · 25/02/2017 15:56

I'd still use it.

Glossolalia · 25/02/2017 15:39

*Definitely

cookielove · 25/02/2017 15:38

I would use it!!

My Sil has named my nephew 2 of our top favourite names that we almost used for our ds, if we were to have another we would use one of them still neither of us own the name 😂

BreakfastAtSquiffanys · 25/02/2017 15:38

Use it.
The world needs more Hamishes

Glossolalia · 25/02/2017 15:37

Definirely use it!

Frouby · 25/02/2017 15:37

I would still use it.

AuntiePenguin · 25/02/2017 15:36

Still use it.

BikeRunSki · 25/02/2017 15:36

I'd stil use it

MrsMeeseeks · 25/02/2017 15:36

Hamish is such a lovely name.

I'd say go for it, if it doesn't bother either of you.

MrsPringles · 25/02/2017 15:35

I would still use it
and cross my fingers that she had a girl Wink

temporarilyjerry · 25/02/2017 15:30

If it's the only name you've picked, if you still love it when your lo is born, I'd use it. You may not know these friends forever. I didn't name my DD a name I wanted because we knew someone with a DD with that name and the same nn but we moved away when our DD was 3. We don't know these people now.

Hubabubba · 25/02/2017 15:23

I'd give each of your children their own name.

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