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Daughter is almost 10 months old... I don't know if I regret her name :(

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JasmineS88 · 28/10/2016 15:25

I still love her name. However, it's very American... In the UK, no girls ever get named this. My mum hates it, but she soon got over it (but sometimes makes subtle digs)...

No one likes it (especially on here)...

I've had a few "oh, that's different! I quite like that!" Confused which I think was meant... However, I often get "oh, you don't really seem the type!" Blush which is just rude. Even HCPs seem to make digs - often constantly saying her name out loud (not when they're talking to her) like they're trying to understand why I named her it.

Like I say, I still love it, but I now feel awkward joining groups/clubs, as I know they'll judge her/me. It's only going to get worse when she joins school Sad

I don't know what to do.

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NotYoda · 28/10/2016 16:16

OP

OK. Sorry I was blunt. I understand you wanted reassurance. I hope that you are reassured now Smile.

IminaPickle · 28/10/2016 16:16

It's a beautiful name as is Caitlin 😉
Style it out OP; as ILostit says names come in and out of favour, but it's just lovely.

SparkyBlue · 28/10/2016 16:14

That's a beautiful name

flowerpower668 · 28/10/2016 16:12

I love the name gracelynn, I am surprised to hear that you have had such negative opinions!

It's a beautiful feminine name and unique but in a good way :-)

I also love the name Gracie as a nickname!

JasmineS88 · 28/10/2016 16:10

ladydepp - I say it like Caitlin, I suppose!

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 28/10/2016 16:09

Oh I thought it was going to be Tammy-Lee or something Grin.

Gracelynn is a pretty name and I don't think it will attract negative comments as she grows up. My children's names used to be quite liked on here, but lately they're hated! Don't over think it.

"A Rose would smell as sweet by any other name" (badly quoted Shakespeare but you get the idea.)

jaykay34 · 28/10/2016 16:09

I actually love it ! I prefer it to Grace and Gracie (which there are loads of). Don't regret your choice OP, she will love it as she gets older.

loobyloo1234 · 28/10/2016 16:09

I like it OP .... honestly? Screw what other people think. I don't think it's that unusual that you should worry Smile To be honest, I don't think many babies suit their name really ... she'll grow into it though i bet

OhtoblazeswithElvira · 28/10/2016 16:08

I can't understand people who have the mental space to care about other people's children's names, and are rude enough to comment on them.

OP, you can use people's reactions to your chosen name to make a judgement about their character.

JasmineS88 · 28/10/2016 16:07

Thanks everyone. Really pleased with the responses. I sometimes call her Gracie, which I suppose is more 'normal' anyway!

NotYoda - I just wanted to talk about my feelings around her name/other people's views, etc. sorry?

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DanicaJones · 28/10/2016 16:07

I mean i don't think people will be reacting as they did on the thread you saw.

jobrum · 28/10/2016 16:07

I was wondering if it was Gracelynn! I saw that name on here a while ago and said outloud its so pretty. It sounds like a whole name, and a lovely one. Good name choice op!

OnceMoreIntoTheBleach · 28/10/2016 16:07

OP it's a gorgeous name Grin

Grace or Gracie for short, and when she's older, Gracelynn will be fabulous and unusual and special and will set her apart!

Think about the name Caitlin (various spellings, obvs).

It wasn't always popular, at some point it was unusual and new. But those with it can be Cate if they want, and Caitlin when it matters.

I love it Grin

ladydepp · 28/10/2016 16:07

I think it's really nice, just two syllables. Do you pronounce it like two names with emphasis on Grace or sort of run them together so it's a bit like Caitlin? (sorry if that doesn't make sense!)

DanicaJones · 28/10/2016 16:06

I was expecting something awful but that's perfectly nice and i doubt anyone is judging it badly at all. Just saying it out loud as it's slightly unusual, but not in a bad way.
You tend to get extreme reactions on MN but I don't think people will be thinking that in real life.

CupofTeaTime · 28/10/2016 16:06

I like it!

BellesBelles · 28/10/2016 16:05

Gracelynn is a lovely name! I would hear that and think it was part parents choice (Grace) and part meaningful family name (Lynn, maybe a grandma). I think it rolls well together and of course she can be known as Grace (or Lynn, or Gracie) all of which perfectly pretty and acceptable. I am Envy that you got to call a DD that! Say it with pride!

mudandmayhem01 · 28/10/2016 16:05

Gracelyn is a beautiful name, don't shorten it unless you or later on your daughter wants to. Its unusual but still fairly classic. Great choice!

NotYoda · 28/10/2016 16:04

I think Grace is lovely. And so is Gracie. I am not sure what you want to get out of this, other than for people to also say they like it?

If you like it, then stick with it. Keep it as her long name, and maybe experiment with Grace/Gracie and see how that feels?

I don't see it in quite the same way as I think maybe the comments you've had - I think it's OK, but unusual rather than anything outright negative. I wonder if that's what you are picking up from other people?

BTW. I am slightly biased. I have to say/spell/explain my name a lot and it annoys me.

thisisafakename · 28/10/2016 16:03

What? That's not a weird or horrible name at all. Call her Grace or Gracie for short. You must mix with some narrow minded people if they think that's a controversial name. I thought it was going to be the US trend for giving girls male sounding surnames as a first name. Like Mackenzie or McKenna or Addison.

Passthecake30 · 28/10/2016 16:02

The name sounds fine to me. I know a (20 something) Grace so I'd call her that if it really bothers you...

Bigfam · 28/10/2016 16:02

I think it's actually a really beautiful name, not one I've heard before either.
We have a daughter due in December and some people have said they love the name we've chosen and others just say "oh, that's different" we love it though & I think if we worried what people thought and changed it, we'd regret it in the long run.
You've already said you love it, what anyone else thinks shouldn't matter Smile

Mouthfulofquiz · 28/10/2016 16:02

That's really nice OP. I wouldn't change anything, just see how it naturally evolves. You'll probably end up calling her Gracie, or something else over time anyway. My boys get called loads of different things.

halfdoneharris · 28/10/2016 16:02

I think Gracelynn is lovely. You may be feeling more sensitive about the name and people don't intend to sound mean, but are genuinely interested in where that name has come from. It is different but not necessarily in a bad way. Gracie as a nickname is also gorgeous. Stand strong, be proud x

squoosh · 28/10/2016 16:02

I know someone called Catherine Maria. Always Catherine Maria, no shortenings. Such a mouthful. Gracelynn is better than that.

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