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Daughter is almost 10 months old... I don't know if I regret her name :(

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JasmineS88 · 28/10/2016 15:25

I still love her name. However, it's very American... In the UK, no girls ever get named this. My mum hates it, but she soon got over it (but sometimes makes subtle digs)...

No one likes it (especially on here)...

I've had a few "oh, that's different! I quite like that!" Confused which I think was meant... However, I often get "oh, you don't really seem the type!" Blush which is just rude. Even HCPs seem to make digs - often constantly saying her name out loud (not when they're talking to her) like they're trying to understand why I named her it.

Like I say, I still love it, but I now feel awkward joining groups/clubs, as I know they'll judge her/me. It's only going to get worse when she joins school Sad

I don't know what to do.

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albertcampionscat · 28/10/2016 18:40

Gracelynn is lovely.

shouldwestayorshouldwego · 28/10/2016 18:37

She will be greatful in a few years that she isn't Olivia A. Olivia G. Emily D. or Emily H. Even if there is a Grace there is unlikely to be many of them and it isn't confused with other names like Emily, Emma, Emilia etc. Children like a name which uniquely identifies them. The only downside is that you won't find personalised tat with her full name. I tend to make stuff or order from ebay. I think it is a lovely name, unusual but not weird and fairly timeless. She has options to shorten it if she wants to and if your mother really wants to then you could give her permission to use Gracie as her nickname for her. If she likes Gracie better, or maybe it is just her stamping her feet because it isn't her place to name her. A few people were surprised by one of our dc's names but it is never mentioned now - it was just people whom we knew before.

allegretto · 28/10/2016 17:39

It's a lovely name. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise.

HardcoreLadyType · 28/10/2016 17:36

It's lovely.

I think you are being swayed by your mother's unkindness about her name.

I think you'll find that the other people's comments are simply because it's unfamiliar, not that they don't like it. Also, HCPs will be repeating if to ensure they get it right, and remember it, not to make a dig.

notagiraffe · 28/10/2016 17:32

I like it. Never heard it before but love Grace and Gracelynn sounds like Evelyn which is an elegant name. It's pretty. It doesn't sound out of place in an English schoolyard. It's cute.

Burgatroyd · 28/10/2016 17:27

Have the courage of your convictions. I like it! Gracelyn is nicer than Grace in my opinion. Anything goes nowadays. I changed DD's name because old name sounded like another name and was tired of correcting people. Changing the name wasn't a right or wrong choice and no one batted an eyelid

iwilldoit30 · 28/10/2016 17:24

Nothing wrong with the name at all!! I was thinking it was going to be something awful but actually I really rather like the name.

BitOutOfPractice · 28/10/2016 17:18

OP I must admit I was braced for something really awful when I started reading this thread but I think it's rather lovely and not too out there at all. Don't regret it. It's lovely. And easily shortable (that's a real word!) if needs be

NipSlipper · 28/10/2016 17:18

I've never heard Gracelynn before, but its very pretty. I like it a lot.

Stick to your guns. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this name!

BendydickCuminsnatch · 28/10/2016 17:15

Another who really likes it. Yay. I bet all those who commented have kids called Isabelle and Oliver Wink It's a lovely name but people just like to judge (as I just demonstrated, judging boringness :))

BummyMummy77 · 28/10/2016 17:07

I honestly like it. And I live in he states and have never heard it.

I wouldn't think another thing about it op. I was expecting something awful!

It's sweet, classy and pretty.

IloveCheese11 · 28/10/2016 17:07

I also think Gracelynn is pretty. A bit more unusual than Grace but not 'out there' by any means. I'm surprised that evokes a negative reactions tbh. But yes, you can easily shorten it to Grace and noone will bat an eyelid.

SingaSong12 · 28/10/2016 17:05

Never heard of the name before. I'm neutral on it, but there's definitely nothing wrong with it. I wouldn't recognise it as being American. I might stumble over it a bit at first.
I might get it wrong thinking it was a first and middle name, but wouldn't once I got to know someone apart from my dreadful memory

If you both love the name ignore people making rude comments.

ShutTheFridgeUp · 28/10/2016 17:01

Not a name I've heard before, but I think it's really pretty.

DoloresVanCartier · 28/10/2016 16:56

I think it's a beautiful name

TataEs · 28/10/2016 16:56

never heard it, but it's hardly awful or offensive! i quite like it, tho i wouldn't pick it. my only thought would be 'that's unusual, i wonder where it came from'
i too assumed pronunciation same as caitlin, i'm surprised u feel that it receives such negative reactions.

SpookyMooky · 28/10/2016 16:53

It's pretty, and I've never heard it before so it doesn't sound American to me. Maybe people say it a lot because it's harder to remember names you've never heard before. Stick with it, and then she can choose if she wants to shorten it later.

willitbe · 28/10/2016 16:50

As a health care worker, I would possibly stumble over whether it should be pronounced Gracie-Lynn or Grace-Lynn, and would possibly appear a little awkward at saying it, but I think it is a lovely name with either way. So perhaps this is what others are struggling with, and not that they think poorly of the name?

I tried shortening all my children's names later and failed, so if you are going to follow the suggestion of shortening it, then sooner rather than later is best! My children don't want me shortening their names now, even though I love the shortened versions and the longer versions are more of a mouthful in calling for them!

Kew1234 · 28/10/2016 16:50

What a lovely name Smile it's really pretty. My DC name got more than a few raises eyebrows when he was little. Along came a footballer of the same name - it's incredibly popular now!

Icapturethecast1e · 28/10/2016 16:50

Beautiful name would not change it if you like it. Wouldn't worry if people had problems with it, it's your child your choice.

angstybaby · 28/10/2016 16:49

would you even be thinking this if it weren't for people making comments? Sod them, do what you think is right.

I have an unusual name. when i was a kid no-one could spell it or pronounce it but now I get told how lovely it is and i saw it on a mums net discussion about 'names you think are lovely' (or something along those lines). Names come in and out of fashion. twenty years from now it'll be charmingly unique.

i have the opposite problem: i worry that i've named my DC3 something which is becoming waaaay too common. i've already met 3 kids called the same thing.

if it helps, my parents called my brothers' names (obvs with their involvement!) when they were 8 and 10 (coincided with moving from london to the provinces) and it was fine.

JasmineS88 · 28/10/2016 16:49

The funny thing is, no one has ever produced it wrong Grin people always assume Gracelynn, I think it would be different with Gracelyn (as that's more 1 name) but I think Gracelynn is obviously 2 names Smile

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Levatrice · 28/10/2016 16:48

That name is lovely!! Keep it as is; dont change it for other people you will be resentful!

stonygreysoil · 28/10/2016 16:45

i also suspect some confusion because the only name along those lines in Britain historically has been Jocelyn, which is pronounced quite differently [ joss eh lin]. So some people may genuinely wonder if its to be pronounced Grace Lin or Grass eh lin....

228agreenend · 28/10/2016 16:44

Pretty name. I wouldn't think it as American and would have presumed you combined two family names to get it.

You love it, your husband loves it, so that's all you need to consider.

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