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Daughter is almost 10 months old... I don't know if I regret her name :(

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JasmineS88 · 28/10/2016 15:25

I still love her name. However, it's very American... In the UK, no girls ever get named this. My mum hates it, but she soon got over it (but sometimes makes subtle digs)...

No one likes it (especially on here)...

I've had a few "oh, that's different! I quite like that!" Confused which I think was meant... However, I often get "oh, you don't really seem the type!" Blush which is just rude. Even HCPs seem to make digs - often constantly saying her name out loud (not when they're talking to her) like they're trying to understand why I named her it.

Like I say, I still love it, but I now feel awkward joining groups/clubs, as I know they'll judge her/me. It's only going to get worse when she joins school Sad

I don't know what to do.

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Scrumptiousbears · 28/10/2016 23:59

OP not sure why people have responded badly in RL. There are some mad names out there and this is far from one of them.

MistressMolecules · 28/10/2016 23:57

Gracelynn is a lovely name OP, unusual but pretty!

pieceofpurplesky · 28/10/2016 23:55

I would stick with the lovely name Gracelynn - it will naturally form in to a NN like Gracie

rainbow99 · 28/10/2016 23:48

I know a Gracelyn, shortened to Gracie Smile

clippityclop · 28/10/2016 20:51

Goodness I was expecting some sort of hyphenated made up job (Tyraleonie-Shayle'een?). Gracelyn's really gorgeous. I favour classic names.

Aoibhe · 28/10/2016 20:39

I think that's a very pretty name, and I'll admit that I'm (secretly) a name snob Blush

Ohyesiam · 28/10/2016 20:36

That name is fine, sounds like a name ( unlike some).
I thought you meant you called her. Dizney starbucks or something.

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Sugarpiehoneyeye · 28/10/2016 19:59

Beautiful name OP, never heard it before, don't change it.

paddypants13 · 28/10/2016 19:56

I like Gracelynn op.

If it's any consolation if I hear a new name I like I often repeat it a few times. I don't know why, it's like getting a feel for the name. Maybe that's why the hcps do it. (I'm repeating Gracelynn over and over as we speak!!!)

BestBeastie · 28/10/2016 19:53

I like Gracelynn. Shortens to Grace too, which is timeless.

People are such idiots. Ignore them. I bet she'll like it.

JasmineS88 · 28/10/2016 19:51

Chish, I say it the same?? I prefer it with 2 Ns as I like it to be like 2 names together... with just one N, it feels like it should be said as 3 syllables like Madelyn isn't Made Lynn, Jocelyn isn't Joce Lynn, etc. IYSWIM? It would then make people think it was Gras-eh-lyn!

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DanicaJones · 28/10/2016 19:49

I just looked up the thread you mentioned and I see what you mean about people's reactions. I think the thing to remember though is that a lot of people who frequent this board tend to like names that are a bit unusual and cool. Names like Antigone, Ottily, Ptolemy etc, so those people are never going to like a name like Gracelynn. They wouldn't like my dd's name either as there are three in her class, so far too common. That doesn't reflect what the world at large thinks though.

BellMcEnd · 28/10/2016 19:48

I know a 9 year old Gracelyn! It's a gorgeous name. I don't think it's "out there" at all Smile

ChishandFips33 · 28/10/2016 19:47

I like it!
If you pronounce it like Caitlin then maybe just have one N at the end - I think it would make the pronunciation clearer

It could be that people are saying it to test it out - Grace-Lynn / Gracelyn

Grace and Gracie as your pet name are lovely. I lost my long name as soon as I could and get known by a much shorter/softer version. Some friends are known by their middle names, I don't think there are stiff 'rules' these days

Meadows76 · 28/10/2016 19:43

Ffs why are people so fickle? I swear never in my life had I heard anyone even consider changing the name of their child until I came on this site. It seems as common as changing their bloody nappies. Your child's name is her name. If you regret it so what. It's her name.

hawaiibaby · 28/10/2016 19:40

Ps I sometimes regret my baby's name - he's 7m. Was quite a last minute decision and people have commented a few times that it's very posh or given me a funny look when I've used it (I may be slightly paranoid!).

It's Henry. I can't imagine him as anything else though and don't know what else we would have used but it does worry me sometimes. I love it, yet don't feel proud of it which makes me a bit sad. So I know where you are coming from.

booellesmum · 28/10/2016 19:39

I am usually quite traditional when it comes to names, but Gracelynn is really nice. If you like it keep it.

hawaiibaby · 28/10/2016 19:37

I honestly said, 'Awe' when I read the name - Gracelynn is lovely! I really really like it. Don't let an old thread bother you and I bet 70% + of people who repeat it etc. are doing so in a positive way. I wouldn't change it. Use a nn sometimes if you like but you gave chosen a beautiful name for your daughter!

Etjls · 28/10/2016 19:31

My youngest has a name I can't put on here as it would identify us (it's not a made up word but never have I heard a child being called it) I had everyone try and tell me to pick something else etc and I ignored them and I love his name

EnriqueTheRingBearingLizard · 28/10/2016 19:28

You're massively overthinking it OP.

I really dislike the choice I made for one of our DCs and this is 29 years later. I love the name itself, but it became far too popular and within a couple of years I wouldn't have chosen it over again.

However, it's a good name, a lovely name and suits them. More than that anyway is that once they started pre school, friends began to use nicknames, so the real name was only used in formal situations.

ApocalypseNowt · 28/10/2016 19:04

My DD1 has an unusual name - not weird at all..you just don't see it used that much.

I get a lot of similar sort of comments but I genuinely take them as compliments. Maybe it's because I love the name so much &/or have the hide of a rhino...but if someone doesn't mean what they're saying or are actively trying to have a dig well that's their look out!

Fwiw I like Gracelynn Smile

kiki22 · 28/10/2016 19:03

I grew up with my name being unusual people commented on it all the time about 6 years ago it made the top 20 or something and there are a whole bunch of little my names before then id only met 3 people in my life with it. Never bothered me infact I liked being different I've made an effort to give my kids unusual names.

I think your dd will be glad of it its not like its rainbowstar now that's a weird name.

Veggiesupremeextracheese · 28/10/2016 18:50

I love it! It's a very pretty name, not horrible at all!

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 28/10/2016 18:45

It's a lovely name.

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