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I keep being told my name choices are silly

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kw1091 · 22/07/2016 10:35

DC1 on the way and people keep telling me my girls name choices are silly! They're all my favourite names and have been for years. DP likes a few of them.

Thoughts please?...

Girls (middle name will be Jane, Valerie or Emily):
Harvie
Hazel
Jordan
Aurora
Olive
Maxie

Boys (middle name will be Kenneth, David or Harry):
Leo
Lukas
Harvey
Finn

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toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:29

Maxine
(from Wikipedia)

Maxine Andrews (1916-1995), member of The Andrews Sisters singing trio
Maxine Audley (1923–1992), English actress
Maxine Brown (country singer) (born 1932), American country music singer
Maxine Brown (soul singer) (born 1939), American soul and R&B singer
Maxine D. Brown, American computer scientist
Maxine Carr, convicted of perverting the course of justice in relation to the Soham murders (not to be confused with Maxine Moore Carr / Maxine Waters below)
Maxine Elliott (1868-1940), American actress
Maxine Hong Kingston (born 1940), Chinese American author and Professor Emerita
Maxine Kumin (born 1925), American poet and author
Maxine Mawhinney, a newsreader on the BBC News 24-hour television channel
Maxine McKew (born 1953), Australian politician and journalist
Maxine Nightingale (born 1952), British R&B and soul music singer
Maxine Peake (born 1974), English actress
Maxine Sanders (born Arline Maxine Morris, 1946), prominent Wiccan
Maxine Sullivan (born Marietta Williams, 1911–1987), American jazz vocalist/performer
Maxine Waters (born Maxine Moore Carr, 1938), American politician
Maxine (wrestler), Stage name of American former professional wrestler, model, and former WWE Diva Karlee Pérez
Sofia Maxine Q. Ramos, Filipino writer

toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:27

Harvey is an English family and given name derived from the Breton name Huiarnuiu, derived from an Old Breton first name Huiarnviu, derived from the elements hoiarn, huiarn (Breton houarn) meaning "iron" and 'viu' (Breton bev) meaning "blazing". It is related to Old Welsh Haarnbiu.

Saint Hervé (Saint Harvey), 6th-century Breton saint
Harvey Brown (officer) (1795–1874), American military officer
Harvey Brown (philosopher), British philosopher of physics at the University of Oxford
Harvey Bullock (writer) (1921–2006), American television and film writer and producer
Harvey Campbell (football player), Canadian football player
Harvey Cox, American theologian
Harvey Cushing, pioneer of neurosurgery
Harvey Einbinder (1926–2013), American physicist and author.
Harvey Fields (1882–1961), American politician
Harvey J. Fields (1935–2014), American Reform rabbi
Harvey Fierstein, American actor and playwright
Harvey Samuel Firestone (1868–1938), founder of the Firestone Tire & Rubber Company
Harvey Gantt, American architect and democratic politician
Harvey Goldsmith CBE, English performing arts promoter
Harvey Grant (born 1965), American basketball player
Harvey Keitel, American film actor
Harvey Kurtzman, American comics creator and editor
Harvey Kuenn (1930–1988), American Baseball player, coach and manager
Harvey Bernard LeBas, American politician
Harvey Lisberg, British talent manager and impresario
Harvey Locke Carey (1915–1984), American lawyer and politician
Harvey M. Lifset (1916–2005), New York politician
Harvey Mandel, Innovative American guitar player
Harvey Martin, American football player
Harvey Mason, American jazz drummer
Harvey Mason, Jr., seven-time Grammy Award winning American songwriter
Harvey Milk, American politician
Harvey Pekar, American alternative comics writer
Harvey Shapiro (musician) (1911–2007), American cellist
Harvey Shapiro (poet) (1924–2014), American poet and editor of The New York Times
Harvey Washington Walter (1819–1878), American lawyer and railroad business executive
Harvey Weinstein, American film producer, co-founder of Miramax Films and The Weinstein Company

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvey_(name)

FATEdestiny · 22/07/2016 11:25

Hopefully the Katie Price/Jordan connection will have faded by the time your DC is a bit older.

My cousin's daughter has the middle name Jordan. This was before the celebrity that is Jordan even existed. Jordan (aka Katie Price) hit the media about 2 years later. My cousin (well to do head teacher) was not best pleased with the chavy associations with her DDs name

MrsJayy · 22/07/2016 11:24

YOu are right everybody has an opinion on a name .

Sophronia · 22/07/2016 11:24

Hazel and Olive are lovely

kw1091 · 22/07/2016 11:24

Hahahah god forbid being a Myra...or Adolf Shock

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AsteroidB314 · 22/07/2016 11:23

Harvie is nmsaa - harley isnt either but it is prettier.
Maxie is risky. Becauese of pad. What about Trixie
I love Hazel

toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:22

FELL in popularity.

Farfromtheusual · 22/07/2016 11:22

Maxie is the only silly one - Max(or I personally like Maxwell) is nice for a boy though.

Hazel is also lovely. And none of the others are ridiculous.

I'm only here for ideasGrin

toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:22

Absolutely!

I remember my mother saying to me years ago that Myra as a name totally feel in popularity in the 60s and beyond because of the Hindley connection. Shame for those already called Myra, of course.

kw1091 · 22/07/2016 11:21

Someone always has a bad name connection don't they?
I couldn't have a Rosie because of a horrible girl at school, but I know it's a lovely name.

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toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:20

I like you toadgirl

Aw, thank you Blush

toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:20

Hopefully the Katie Price/Jordan connection will have faded by the time your DC is a bit older. Hopefully, she will have gone from our TV screens by then

Trouble is, with ANY name, you could suddenly have an awful reality star with the same name pop up and become famous after your DC has been named. Nothing to be done about that.

kw1091 · 22/07/2016 11:18

I like you toadgirl

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Viviennemary · 22/07/2016 11:16

Nothing too terrible on that list. Though Maxie and Harvie are borderline silly. And the strange spelling of Lukas.

toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:13

Origin of the name Maxine Maxie as NN?

Modern feminine form of Max, a short form of Maximilian, which is a compound name composed from the Latin names Maximus (greatest) and Aemiliānus.

www.babynamewizard.com/baby-name/girl/maxine

MrsJoeyMaynard · 22/07/2016 11:11

I'd stop talking about names with people in real life. People often seem to think they've got a say in what the baby will be called if you share short lists with them, so will happily try to put you off names not to their taste. Generally, people are much more polite after the baby has been born, and will try much harder to keep negative opinions to themselves.

ScrambledSmegs · 22/07/2016 11:08

Your choices are absolutely fine. It's not like you want to call your DC Sex Fruit or Number 16 Bus Shelter (first one rejected, second approved - truefax.

FATEdestiny · 22/07/2016 11:07

My SIL asked which out of 2 names I liked and why. I told her my favourite and why I didn't like the other name.

Massively regret that now. She chose the other name.

I learnt my lesson. I'll never again give an opinion on a name, just nod and smile.

kw1091 · 22/07/2016 11:06

My DP is Scandi hence Lukas with a K

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EssentialHummus · 22/07/2016 11:05

Harvie and Maxie (Pad) are beyond silly.

Yup.

I'd also second Lucas with a C unless you are from somewhere where the K spelling is standard.

kw1091 · 22/07/2016 11:05

Thank you everyone!
I'll keep my mouth shut from now on Grin

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MrsJayy · 22/07/2016 11:03

I think people just get used to names 1 of my cousins children has an out there name my aunt was horrified they are 20 nowand it really is just their name

toadgirl · 22/07/2016 11:01

I don't see any silly names there.

When I read thread title, I was expecting to see some really outlandish names. These are all normal.

Definitely stop telling people in advance. Make your decisions privately and announce the name when it's all official. If you say too much in advance, some nosey-parkers take that an invitation to critique the name.

Tell them when it's a done deal.

Christine88 · 22/07/2016 11:00

My sons are called rupert and Dennis and people were horrible about both names when I was pregnant but now either people pretend they like them or no better than to insult my child lol