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I really want to honour my DH's granddad by giving our son his name as a middle name but his name is....

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GoodEggy · 11/07/2016 20:02

Donald Confused

He's the loveliest man ever and I'd really like to honour him like this but I'm just not sure I can do that to my son!

How bad is it?

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mellmumma · 21/07/2016 22:49

My brother in law is Ross Donald after his grandad. He loves it.

TeacupDrama · 21/07/2016 21:54

I used to work in the far northwest of Scotland lots of men were called Donald Macdonald though I don't think it was the best choice but it was almost certainly because it was their grandfathers name

Donald is a perfectly normal name more so in Scotland than England

NervousRider · 21/07/2016 21:45

Think it was already suggested but could the Grandfather choose a name himself? Eg "grandpops - we think you are ace so would you like to choose a middle name or even use your own?" You might find out then that he actually hates his name and doesn't want it to be used

HeteronormativeHaybales · 21/07/2016 21:36

I quite like Milo Donald (though your first name choices are not ones I would have chosen).

My dd has the name of a friend who died while I was pregnant as her middle name. It's not a name I would have used as a first name, or one I particularly liked before, but it feels right that she has it.

quitecrunchy · 21/07/2016 16:19

I like Donald, good strong Scots name (but like others, I'm in Scotland)

NotYoda · 20/07/2016 19:25

I don't think middle names have to be cool, or "go" with the other name

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 17/07/2016 13:46

I went to primary school with a boy called Robbie Robertson Grin

Donald is great, go for it.

Just out of interest, what first names are on your DH's short list?

OlennasWimple · 17/07/2016 13:39

How about two middle names and put Donald second? My DC have two middle names and the second one often gets dropped

Rosaaa · 17/07/2016 13:37

I see no problem with Donald.

Florrie21 · 17/07/2016 00:35

Do it, it's wonderful to link the generations in that way. Gives a great sense of connection/belonging.

Only shame is that Trump is in the news....but your little one will know why he has that name.

Owllady · 12/07/2016 22:28

I like Donald :)

MrsHathaway · 12/07/2016 22:26

I think sometime the reason for using a name is more important than the name itself.

Yes, absolutely.

Gunpowder · 12/07/2016 21:48

*think

Gunpowder · 12/07/2016 21:48

I think you'd be ahead of the curve with Donald, it's a strong classic name, thing it will defo come back into fashion in the next 5/10 years.

Footle · 12/07/2016 21:43

This thread has reminded me that a late and much loved friend's middle name was Don, because his father Donald preferred it. Friend would have been in his 70s now, and even when he was a child nobody thought anything of it.

Thoughtfulduck · 12/07/2016 21:25

I went to high school with a boy that had his grandfathers name as a middle name. It was 'Leslie'...when people found out a few laughed and said "seriously" but once he said it was his now deceased grandfathers name everyone seemed to accept it. This all happened in the space of about an hour and it was never laughed at again.

I think sometime the reason for using a name is more important than the name itself.

ArcheryAnnie · 12/07/2016 17:00

Another one here who thinks Donald is quite sweet as a middle name!

BertrandRussell · 12/07/2016 16:48

Lorcan Donald is fab! And so is Milo Donald.
Had you considered Lachlan?

Ds has a pretty grim middle name but he loves having his grandfathers' names (first name is another grandfather).

Jojoclaire · 12/07/2016 16:43

Has no-one watched Mad Men? Donald Draper is the central character and with his dashing looks I'm sure your DS will suit it perfectly (ignore the womanising and alcoholism). And Mr Trump will be a distant memory before you DS is out of nappies, fingers crossed...

I think go for it, I think it's a good solid name. I'm having to let go of the idea that we're going to have a Bernard however much I loved my sadly passed DF...

MimiSunshine · 12/07/2016 15:43

I love your name list, they were all names we had for a boy.
I also think Dexter Donald sounds super cute

ErrolTheDragon · 12/07/2016 15:37

I know a few Dons who are neither Scottish nor aged - it's a perfectly normal name.

derxa · 12/07/2016 15:34

My grandfather was known as 'Old TD' He wasn't Tristan Donald though Grin

SoggyBeachDays · 12/07/2016 15:27

Donald seems utterly and completely normal to me. I know many of all ages, from pre-schoolers to old men. I wouldn't give it a moment's thought (I am Scottish, though - it doesn't seem to be commonly used elsewhere, reading this thread?).

PointlessUsername · 12/07/2016 14:08

I like Tristan Donald

Daytona79 · 12/07/2016 13:57

I also think Donald is way nicer than any of the first names you have picked 🙈😂

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