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How would you spell Jayden for a girl?

109 replies

awdrgyjil · 29/01/2016 14:07

Just that really!

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cheekstime · 02/02/2016 12:45

Jayden sounds like a play on the word Jade. I would just go for Jade or something completely different x

SirChenjin · 30/01/2016 17:05

girls with male names escape the initial cv prejudice

In the NHS - one of the biggest employers in the world - we don't see the names until we're at the interviewing stage. Many of the other leading employers are now doing this too - one of the main reasons is to 'un-white' the bias.

Interestingly, according to this article - girls with gender neutral names (like Cameron) are more likely to do well in certain fields whilst people with uncommon or unpopular names are more likely to be associated with juvenile delinquency.

TheDisillusionedAnarchist · 30/01/2016 16:16

Will do some googling, can't remember where I read it. Surely makes sense in a misogynist society, girls with male names escape the initial cv prejudice.

Life outcomes may have been overstating it somewhat, I think it may have been a study of job applications.

The question with Jayden however spelled would be whether the advantages of being male could overcome the class connotations. Would it be better to be Jayden or Octavia when applying for a job? Possibly it would depend on what the job was. However why should the Op care if she likes Jayden.

Alisvolatpropiis · 30/01/2016 12:54

They're not pronounced in quite the same way either, Meredith and Meredydd.

Alisvolatpropiis · 30/01/2016 12:54

Meredith is traditionally a Welsh male name, usually spelled Meredydd.

Meredith is the anglicised spelling.

SirChenjin · 30/01/2016 12:41

Belbin is a Meridith, isn't he? The one with all the team role theories so beloved of my boss.

sofato5miles · 30/01/2016 12:39

J. U. S. T. D. O. N. T.

SeldomAthleticFC · 30/01/2016 12:36

As far as I'm aware, Moggie, Robin still is a boy's name. Robyn is a girl's name. I knew John Wayne's real name was Marion but I'd never heard of a male Meredith. Interesting.

MoggieMaeEverso · 30/01/2016 12:25

It is remarkable that somebody would use a boys name for a girl. It simply is.

Lindsay
Ashley
Robin
Meredith
Marion

... Were all boy's names first...I imagine in a couple decades Jayden will be fair game for either sex. Op is just ahead of her time.

Outaboutnowt · 30/01/2016 12:24

I don't think Jayden is an awful name but IMO it is a boys name, and your daughter wouldn't have a great time being at school with a typically boys name and possibly being in the same class as male Jaydens.

If I were you I would go for Jade or Jada, which are both lovely and as her nn would be Jade anyway, I think would work out better for her in the long run.

ZiggyFartdust · 30/01/2016 12:24

Really Anarchist? Where did you get that nugget from?
I would love to see the reliable longitudinal study that has followed the entire lives of a large number of girls with boys names.
Hmm

Alisvolatpropiis · 30/01/2016 12:24

Do they Disillunsioned? Can you link to those?

Wardrobespierre · 30/01/2016 12:17

No. In my case I acted with incredulity just as I said. I am neither a snob nor ill mannered and I made no comment on the name Jayden.

Some people were obnoxious of course, thus has the Internet ever been. The vast majority were honest or helpful. It is remarkable that somebody would use a boys name for a girl. It simply is.

TheDisillusionedAnarchist · 30/01/2016 12:07

Jayden is fine, maybe Jaden. Girls with boys or unisex names statistically have better life outcomes.

MissAlabamaWhitman · 30/01/2016 12:04

Incredulity.

So, thats the modern euphemism for acting like an ill mannered snob is it?

Thanks for the heads up.

I hardly suppose that an OP asking for advice on an alternative spelling of Sidney for their daughter would have garnered such flagrant sanctimony.

Why is it that Jayden is fair game? I wonder Hmm

Wardrobespierre · 30/01/2016 11:09

I think the tone of the thread is set by incredulity rather than being obnoxious. Choosing a boys name and spelling it differently just so you can use it for a girl is a strange premise isn't it?

Colyn
Trevvhu
Math-yoo

It's just very strange.

I love traditionally masculine names for girls. But more Harry as a nn for Harriet or Stevie type names where it's not a case of just blatantly using a boys name.

My niece has a boys name. However, they spell it the same. Not my cup of tea but at least she will only have to explain the one idiosyncracy for the rest of her life.

ZiggyFartdust · 30/01/2016 10:56

She'll never be Jayden (insert surname or initial)

No, she'll be "girl Jayden" as in "Not Jayden M or Jayden L, but the female one, yeah, I know, weird name for a girl, isn't it?...."

So much better.

moopymoodle · 30/01/2016 10:48

I have a boy called Jayden, please don't call a girl it. She would be badly teased!

Sofiria · 30/01/2016 10:40

Jayden is an awful name.

Jade is nice, though. Or Jane, Janine, Jadzia?

WannaBeAMummy16 · 30/01/2016 08:05

Jaeden probably. Dislike it though on either sex.

Meeep · 30/01/2016 02:52

Jade Anne is the best suggestion.

Alisvolatpropiis · 30/01/2016 02:43

I don't think there is a female spelling of Jayden (which is a variation on the biblical name Jadon).

Tartyflette · 29/01/2016 23:21

Ok, trying to not be rude or bullying - I don't think any of the 'feminine' spellings really work. Jaydene alters the pronounciation. Jaydenne puts the stress on the last syllable.

SirChenjin · 29/01/2016 23:16

Indeed - and I'll pass on your good thoughts to my parents Miss

MissAlabamaWhitman · 29/01/2016 23:11

Good for you Sir.
I suppose it helped that you were presumably born and named at least twenty years ago.

OP I know a Jodene. South African lady, very lovely and cultured (classy and polite)
May I suggest Jaydene? Smile