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Aidan, Ryan or Liam? Final choices..

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Cheburashka · 04/09/2015 10:42

Hi all

Desperately need help with a name for our first baby. Our final list consists of Ryan, Liam and Aidan (DH half Irish). The problem is our surname (Axon). We love Aidan but it doesnt sound great with the surname. Ryan and Liam sound a bit better but we dont like them as much as Aidan. Any advice? Is Aidan a definite no? Do you have any preferences among these 3 names? Confused

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FrogSong · 12/09/2015 19:12

I like Aidan the best out of those three and I think it goes fine with your surname to be honest.

VenusVanDamme · 12/09/2015 11:34

Aiden is lovely, was on shortlist for DS and I'd never associate it with Jayden, Kayden etc.

Quite shocked there's such a feeling about Liam, never been a problem here (Glasgow) and I think it's a nice name.

Not a fan of Ryan, only know a bad one which puts me off and too similar to DH name!

MsJuniper · 10/09/2015 00:03

I think Aidan is the most beautiful name, the one I know has never had anyone associate it with the rhyming names you mention - I think those are usually spelt with a y or an e but anyway just have a totally different feel.

mrsschu · 07/09/2015 10:57

I would be stunned if anyone thought Aidan was of the same ilk as Jayden or Brayden... Aidan is an established name with a long history whereas the other two names were made up about 5 minutes ago (sorry to be so severe!).

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Cheburashka · 07/09/2015 10:33

Thank you everyone! I feel a lot more confident about Aidan now, even though DH planted a seed of doubt yesterday saying "but will it not be associated with all the jayden/brayden stuff?!" Well, I know it sounds similar but it's a completely different type of name. Any ideas for a strong argument on this one? Something that would get these thoughts out of his head..?

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reuset · 07/09/2015 09:47

Aidan. Not a fan of Ryan and Liam

StormCoat · 07/09/2015 09:44

MrsChu, it surprised me too, but it's not just a Mn thing, as I have also once or twice encountered the same anti-Liam feelings in England in RL. I'm not sure precisely why, but there's definitely more suspicion towards /less enthusiasm for Irish boys' names than girls', with Niamh (and bloody 'Neve'/'Neeve' etc), Aoife, Saoirse and the like regularly attracting positive comments.

Bin85 · 07/09/2015 08:33

Aidan
Ryan and Liam are awful.

mrsschu · 07/09/2015 08:29

Agree that Aidan is the best of the bunch and sounds fine with Axon. I'm always surprised that Liam is considered "chavvy" or "naughty" on here. In Ireland it has none of those connotations and is a very solid name. I like it but prefer Aidan. Ryan on the other hand is pretty awful. I want to say it's part of this weird trend of taking a bog standard Irish surname and turning it into a "cool" first name eg. Flynn, Cassidy etc (all of them fine as surnames, awful as first names) but Ryan has been around for a long time as a first name so I guess it doesn't quite fit the bill... Anyway, rant over, go with Aidan Smile.

Clawdy · 06/09/2015 18:54

Aidan is a good name. Ryan and Liam are a bit dated now. And I seem to know quite a few naughty Ryans......

StormCoat · 06/09/2015 17:51

What Squooshed said. As an Irish person, Ryan has a slightly makey-uppy 'surname as first name' feel, whereas the other two are solid, classic Irish names. You might want to bear in mind that, based on responses to Irish boys' names on here, some people are very derogatory towards Liam, which is seen as 'chavvy'. Which is interesting in a rather unpleasant way, as in Ireland, as I said, it's probably more like the equivalent of John or Edward.

Aidan Axon sounds cool.

TyrionLannistersShadow · 06/09/2015 16:34

Aidan is a great name and it's fine with your surname really, go for it!

Seriouslyffs · 06/09/2015 16:20

Aidan is lovey and cool with your surname! The others are naughty boy names!

DramaAlpaca · 06/09/2015 16:06

Aidan or Liam. Both are lovely and fine with your surname.

Ryan is a surname to me. Where I live there are at least three children with the surname Ryan in every year at school.

Hellochicken · 06/09/2015 15:01

I like them all.

I think Aidan and Liam are the best.

Aidan Axon sounds fantastic to me, why don't you like it?
Plus like pp said he will be Aidan 99% of time and maybe Mr Axon when older, you don't often say whole name at same time.

It really sounds like you like Aidan best and you are the one who has to say the name everyday, so I'd go with that.

OddBoots · 06/09/2015 14:59

I like Liam but only because I have known unpleasant boys called Aiden and Ryan (although I have known some lovely Ryans too).

NotTodaySatan · 06/09/2015 14:53

Aidan. By a country mile. It's a fantastic name.

Ryan and Liam are naughty kid names to me and just nowhere near as nice.

BikeRunSki · 06/09/2015 14:52

Aidan by a thousand miles

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 06/09/2015 13:35

Liam.

jessifleur · 06/09/2015 13:14

Awww Aidan/Aiden please, it got vetoed by my DH!

SmugairleRoin · 04/09/2015 21:27

I'm a bit meh on Aidan. Liam would be my choice.

Considering you like Ryan and Liam, I'd suggest Rian.

Sophronia · 04/09/2015 15:43

I'm not really keen on any of them, but Aidan is the best of the three.

Gummibaers · 04/09/2015 14:01

I'm not keen on any of your names, but if your question is whether Aidan Axon works, then I think it does (although a 1 or 3 syllable first name would be even better imo).

fairyfeatures · 04/09/2015 13:57

I am not a fan of Aidan in generally, i'm not 100% sure why but I think it's because it sounds lazy and just not generally an attractive name.

Your names are obviously not my personal preference but Ryan would be my choice of the 3.

wigglesrock · 04/09/2015 13:54

I think Aidan is fine with your surname. It's not like he will be known by both names all the time - you, his family, his friends will just call him Aidan. Go with your favourite name - don't overthink it. Although I do like Ryan, I never think I do, but when I hear it said I warm to it. Liam I'm not as fussed on, it's just a bit dull, I grew up with quite a few and to me it's a bit bland.