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139 replies

Glindathegoodwitch · 21/08/2015 14:21

I often read on here & see people commenting on the posts along the lines of

'He/She would never get taken seriously in the professional world'
'Imagine Dr Such and such name'
'Imagine going for a job interview with that name'

Are people genuinely serious when posting this? Or is it just a jibe they feel that they can use at a name they don't personally like?

If I were in a position to interview somebody, which I have been in the past, it wouldn't even be on my radar to take their name into consideration. I mean, I may raise an eyebrow at a name, pull a face (in my head) at a name or more than likely it would intrigue me. But never in a million years would I stop a clearly capable person or perfect candidate for a job on the basis of their name that they didn't choose for themselves? A name doesn't define character or capability surely?

And if Dr Princess Consuela Bananahammock wanted to save my life or someone close to me's life by performing open heart surgery, I wouldn't say 'Sorry. No, I just cant take you and your name seriously!'

In equal measure, I would not name a child 'Richard', 'Bill' or 'Alan' presuming that will mean they will become a multi billionaire entrepreneur....

I just want to know if people genuinely believe what they are saying???

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fairyfeatures · 21/08/2015 14:54

Freakonomics says it all.

fairyfeatures · 21/08/2015 14:52

I'm glad I live in the real world and not a laboratory full of statistics and stuck up snobs called Jane and Trevor.

The attitude in which you spoke... Not only is she 99.99% likely to be from a socio-economic background to never have even aspirations of medical school, let alone an actual hope of it - particularly snobby, rude, pretentious and plain disgusting!

No offence to any lovely Jane's or Trevor's out there, just picked the plainest names I could think of!

UrethraFranklin1 · 21/08/2015 14:49

freakonomics.com/2013/04/08/how-much-does-your-name-matter-a-new-freakonomics-radio-podcast/

Just a taster. Do try to at least think outside your own opinion.

DriverSurpriseMe · 21/08/2015 14:49

Urethra's post at 14.30 is spot on incidentally.

As for Poppy, is a very popular name. I don't find it particularly cutesy. Now, a name like Lillie-Lou or Molly-Moo, that's a different kettle of fish.

UrethraFranklin1 · 21/08/2015 14:47

Ok so 'research' vs my actual life?

Yes. Haven't you heard the phrase "anecdote is not data"? Statistics work by looking at thousands of people, not individuals.

It's nothing to do with my attitude. Seriously, folks, have you head of Science, Research, Sociology, Psychology....?
Your opinion pales in comparison.

Glindathegoodwitch · 21/08/2015 14:47

And yes my point about the doctor and the open heart surgery was a bit of fun... but I do wonder with some of the views I read on here...

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DriverSurpriseMe · 21/08/2015 14:46

People make snap judgements (usually class based) around certain names. That is a fact.

StonedGalah · 21/08/2015 14:45

But it's your attitude that 'backs up' the findings Urethra

fairyfeatures · 21/08/2015 14:44

Ok so 'research' vs my actual life?

UrethraFranklin1 · 21/08/2015 14:41

There is a huge amount of research that backs it up, its not my opinion.

You are really naive if you think otherwise.

Glindathegoodwitch · 21/08/2015 14:37

Wow - she actually believes it!

Agree with fairy confused - nothing wrong in the slightest with Poppy!

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fairyfeatures · 21/08/2015 14:36

Urethra - that is unbelievably one of the most insane statements I have ever read. Your preconceptions of socio-economic background a person's aspirations are so disappointing to come from somebody in this day and age. I think you should go and see Dr Princess Honeyball Pantyface for some therapy. Odd human.

As a professional myself, I have a fairly unusual name, I have done very well for myself, considering I started out the first 7 years of my life on a council estate. I got the chance, and I worked hard for it.

And no, that was obviously taking the piss...

Poppy is a beautiful name confused I cant wait until she kicks people like our friend Urethras ass!

slightlyconfused85 · 21/08/2015 14:30

I get this with DD who is called Poppy. Apparently nobody is going to take her seriously with this name and she will never get an Interview or a decent job. Her future qualifications, skills and experience don't matter of course, her (normal) name is all that will decide her future. Really annoying

UrethraFranklin1 · 21/08/2015 14:30

I think you've missed the point entirely.

Princess Honeybell Pantyface isn't going to get the chance to be a Dr in the first place, she isn't going to get the chance to be taken seriously. Not only is she 99.99% likely to be from a socio-economic background to never have even aspirations of medical school, let alone an actual hope of it, she's not going to be treated in a way that gives her those kinds of opportunities.

Have you heard of self fulfilling prophecies, the Pygmalion effect? When you give a child a silly inconsequential name, you're giving them, and everyone else, a picture of them, a path for them. IT's just the start of a long road that means no, she's not going to be a High Court Judge.

You didn't really think people were saying that its simply that everyone is the same but at some point someone would just look at a name and decide not to let them do the heart operation, did you. Hmm