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Starting to feel a little down by the jokes...

28 replies

Simplemind · 31/07/2015 07:00

Dd is 4 and has the name Elsa. At the time we enjoyed the name being fairly uncommon. Now everywhere we go we get comments ranging from "ha bet you are glad the frozen film came out" to " ah were you named after Frozen". I know it probably sounds silly but it is starting to make feel little down. I keep wondering if we she start should start shortening her name to Ellie or El or use a middle name. Am I over reacting ? I sometimes cringe when we are out with the comments that are made. Also are there going to be a massive rise in the number of Elsa's ?

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SingSongSlummy · 05/08/2015 23:22

You should act all surprised and highbrow and tell them that she's actually named after Elsa from Wagner's 'Lohengrin' and that you've never heard of this 'Frozen' nonsense....

SanityClause · 05/08/2015 23:03

Just glare at them, then turn away humming Born Freeeeee....

BooChunky · 05/08/2015 23:00

What does your DD think?

I know it's on a completely different level but my DD is Matilda and is overjoyed when she watches the film, and tells her friends about it.

Having two frozen mad girls myself, I would think they would both love to be called Elsa, and it is a beautiful name, and the frozen fever will eventually pass Smile

Ludways · 05/08/2015 22:52

Elsa is a beautiful name, I'd have given it to my dd but I'd already used it for my dog. Lol, she was named after Elsa the Born Free lion and long before the Frozen film. Stick with it, people will soon forget.

Poffleski · 05/08/2015 22:40

DD(4) met an Elsa the other day and keeps wistfully asking 'is it a real proper name?' and swooning at the thought of being called Elsa!
It's gorgeous and was on the list for DC2. Don't cringe, it'll pass. I like the suggestion that Queen Elsa was really named after your DD Grin

SaulGood · 05/08/2015 21:02

People have always sung a certain song at me when they hear my name. I just shrug and smile. The other day I met my idol and he sang that song when I introduced myself. Grin

It doesn't matter. You just shrug and move on. People tend to make the joke once and as your dd's world becomes more fixed (school, clubs etc) it'll die down.

wigglesrock · 05/08/2015 20:33

The comments wouldn't bother me at all - I wouldn't shorten it to Ellie. What does your daughter think? I've a four year old Anna, occasionally people usually when they're trying to engage her in conversation say "oh like Frozen?" She just says no not really & gives them a bit of a hard stare.

Findtheoldme · 05/08/2015 19:44

Surely you are confident in your choice so that comments shouldn't matter?

qumquat · 05/08/2015 19:39

Ellie is a much more common name than Elsa, so I wouldn't call her that unless you actively prefer it. Elsa is a beautiful name I'd just grit my teeth through the comments if I were you, people are just making conversation.

PuppyMonkey · 05/08/2015 18:32

Elsa is a lovely name and so what if it does make people think of Frozen, it's not like it's a hideous, shameful connection is it?Confused

HelenaJohannsen · 05/08/2015 18:25

Elsa is a beautiful name, don't allow a silly craze to change it. The Frozen craze will die down eventually and you'll be left wondering why you worried at all. A lot of crazes have gone past and its always the people who have the name of the leading character have had all the fun. Allow your daughter that.

As an alternative, if the jokes (Which, honestly, are some of the most uninspired jokes around) really are getting to you, use Elsie as a nickname until the Frozen drama dies down. That way, you have a very similar sounding name, but it is not immediately Frozen.

Don't allow jokes about your daughter's name to get to you. You chose that beautiful name for a reason when she was born. Don't allow an awful film to change it for you :)

CruCru · 05/08/2015 13:17

Elsa is a lovely name. Frozen won't last forever. I know loads of Bellas and don't think of Twilight.

moonshineonthegarden · 05/08/2015 00:04

Look people in the eye and say 'actually the Frozen character was named after her'. Then look mysterious Grin Elsa is a lovely name. Don't stress!

Binit · 04/08/2015 11:43

It could be worse - my friend picked Harper for her dd 5 years ago. It was really unusual. Until the Beckhams used it! Harper Beckham will always be in the papers. At least the Frozen phase will pass!

Binit · 04/08/2015 11:41

Just ride it out. In a few years, Frozen will be completely irrelevant and a distant memory to your dd's peer group and their parents.

Until then repeat, she was born before the film was made.

Mclaren37 · 04/08/2015 11:38

Aren't people ridiculous? Elsa is a gorgeous name. Don't worry about the Frozen phase, it's only people with kids of a certain age that are even aware of it - and it will be over in a year or so whereas your daughter will have her whole life with a beautiful name.

purplemurple1 · 03/08/2015 05:54

Mine are 2yrs and 6 months and both have names that are almost the same as two frozen characters. But they are family names so we really wanted them.
Its a bit annoying constantly correcting the other kids at nursery but in a few yrs no one will care any more.

Hellion7433 · 03/08/2015 05:49

Nice name by the way

Hellion7433 · 03/08/2015 05:49

I really wouldn't worry about it you could always use the nick name Elsie to get you through the next year or two till the frozen fads over

Ward3 · 03/08/2015 05:39

My dd's (6) name is Elsa, after my Finnish great-grandmother. At first I was a bit concerned/annoyed after Frozen about the name shooting up, but there were 3 or 4 other girls in my year with the same name and it didn't bother me. And my dd was born before it really became popular.
Of course, everyone comments on it and it is a bit annoying, but they can easily be brushed off with a simple 'yes, just like Frozen, but she was born __ years earlier' or even 'wow, original/never heard that before.' And as your dd grows, it may become more obvious that she was born before the film came out.
In school, the name Elsa has made dd a bit of a celebrity. Everyone comments on her name and compliment her. She currently loves it.
I wouldn't change her name just because of this. This Elsa trend may eventually die down or keep rising, but because of it, later in life your dd may seem to be younger than she actually is.

CakeRattleandRoll · 01/08/2015 15:44

Elsa is a lovely name. Like PP, it makes me think of the lioness in Born Free, but I haven't seen Frozen.

I would be surprised if there is much of a rise in its popularity due to Frozen. People seem to think that that is what happens, but no past examples spring to mind. There aren't loads of Ariels, Auroras, Meridas, Esmereldas or Giselles...

BothEndsBurning · 31/07/2015 13:14

Yes, you are over-reacting. There's nothing to "cringe" about. If the name was shared with someone who had become notorious for some unspeakable reason, then you might have reason to feel the way that you do. This will pass.

I'm old, lol, and I associate the name Elsa with a lioness. Still think it's a lovely name. Please don't dumb it down to Ellie, there are hundreds of them everywhere.

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 31/07/2015 11:58

I think any name on the planet no matter how unheard of it is runs the risk of becoming very very over used due to a future film. Without hindsight there is no way of knowing.
I'd imagine yes her school friends will comment but not in a negative way. More in awe and your dd will be very popular due to the frozen connections to her name.
I would love to use Anna. Not after frozen. Just that it is classical timeless and elegant. The only thing that would put me off is people would enevitably pronounce it Arna which I can't stand. So I wouldn't use the name. Not because of the frozen connection but because of the pronounciation

squoosh · 31/07/2015 10:44

Who's feeling down about this, you or your daughter? Because unless it bothers your daughter it isn't a problem. She's 4 years old, you can't just start calling her by a different name at this stage. Her name belongs to her.

JakeyBurd · 31/07/2015 10:41

I guess you just have to remind people that the name was around long before the film, or as Orange says, laugh them off as being the 57th person that day to say it.

A generation ago my sister got the same after naming her daughter Marnie, as it wasn't widely used and the Hitchcock film was their only point of reference. It soon wore off.