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I really like your choices, OP.

Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy & your baby

It sounds like it's too late to change your mind, but here are my thoughts anyway...

Don't mind any of your boys names, but don't like any of your girls names!

Judith in particular, sorry! It reminds me of the baby born on the TV show The Walking Dead - they called her Judith, and it makes me and my OH laugh every time we hear it. It just doesn't sound right for a 21st century baby girl. I imagine Judith as a middle aged woman who always does a great job contributing to the annual work's bake-a-cake charity fundraiser.

With your surname, I could imagine a Sasha or a Natasha?

I'd also be tempted not to bother with a middle name if he or she is going to have a double-barrelled surname, unless you were going to use a meaningful family name. But that's completely personal choice of course.

Ruth - this is one of those names that I cannot understand people liking; it is so plain and boring
Dorothy - I hate this. Again plain and boring.
Judith - see above
Matilda - I quite like Matilda and it has lovely nns.

Boys:
Miles - like it
Marcus - like it, maybe a tad pretentious
Victor - very 'now' - in a bad way. Are you and the dad sporty? Don't do it if the sporty genes aren't there!
Gus - fat name
Tobias - okay
Magnus - not sure whether my response is 'what on earth are you thinking' or 'actually that's quite nice'..

Ruth: This is a nice name. I once knew a horrible Ruth, but that couldn't ruin the name for me because I think it is so sweet.
Dorothy: This is not such a great name, other ones on your list are better
Judith: This is not a good name
Matilda: I personally like this name but it is very popular these days so if that bothers you, avoid it

Miles: A bit pretentious!!!
Marcus: This is nice, I like the name Mark
Victor: I dont really have an opinion on this one
Gus: This is a nickname - what would it be short for?
Tobias: cute I guess?
Magnus: This was the name of Miss Honey's dead father in Matilda by Roald Dahl

Good choices. You have similar taste in names to me - I have a Gus.

Dorothy is lovely! nn Dolly/Thea?

Victor and Miles are my favourites out of your boys' names.

Both cool and slightly unusual.
You're right about Tobias - there are loads of Tobys at the moment, def. a trending name.

Stupid phone, sorry.
Judith - love this too. Judy is a cute nn
Matilda - so bored of this now.

Boys:
Miles - sloaney
Marcus - yes
Victor - don't personally like it but can see why you would.
Gus - short for Angus or Fergus, or indeed Magnus
Tobias - but not Toby
Magnus- brilliant

Great List!

Girls:
Ruth - love this.
Dorothy - this is having a renaissance, isn't it? Will you still like it in 5 years if there are a few around
Judith
Matilda

Boys:
Miles
Marcus
Victor
Gus
Tobias
Magnus

Girls - Matilda is my favourite by a long way but, as you've ruled it out, I'd pick Ruth out of the other three. Also quite like Dorothy but not keen on Judith.

Boys - I don't really like your top 3 (do love Tobias/Toby though) but Marcus would be my pick of the three. Really dislike Magnus, it sounds like someone who thinks he's better than everyone else.

Ruth is a terrific strong female name. From your boys' list I love Victor.

I really like Marcus & Magnus, and Miles is OK.

Of your girls' names I like Dorothy & Judith a lot, I think they sound sort of retro & cool. Ruth has the same vibe, but I don't like it as much.

Matilda and Marcus are my favourites.
Ruth and Tobias also lovely.

Love Ruth. Not keen on the other girls names.

Like Miles best from your boy list

I've known a fair few Marcus-es in my life, and not one has ever been called Mark.

Love Ruth.

Ruth- don't think the alliteration is a problem
Dorothy- a bit hipster! Probably not a problem in a hip part of London though ??
Judith- I actually think it's quite a pretty sound (although I know you don't want pretty!)

Miles- yes a bit wet
Marcus- I know 2 Marcus' (in their late 20's) and they are both known as Marcus, never mark
Magnus- just hate it, sorry!

Love Ruth, Judith and Dorothy - probably in that order.
Only really like Victor from your boys' names - Magnus is okay, though.

Judith and Marcus for me.

Definitely not Jude, that's a man's name, I wish people would stop poaching male names for girls.

Of the others. I like Victor, Miles and Magnus.
Matilda is too popular now, and I hate Tilly.
Ruth seems hard-faced to me, probably because of the word 'ruthless'.
Dorothy I like, but Judith will be more unusual.

Ruth, Matilda, Marcus and Tobias meet the MrsTwee standard for baby-names. 'My' version of Matilda has an h in it - Mathilda. My Tanith has only the one n, and my Lilleth has an e.

But your boy has to be Charles, James or William and your girl could be Sophie, Eleanor or Edith.

I think we have different taste in names but out of your list I like Dorothy and Matilda.
Not keen on your boys names but my favourite would be Tobias.

Judith & Victor

I like all of your boys choices, but none of your girls.

They all sound a bit clunky and middle aged. Matilda is ok, but very popular.

Love Matilda, not keen on any of the boys names though.