We're having a boy 
I've posted before to get feedback on Nathaniel, which was a resounding yes and is top of our list, but we're not convinced. We also like:
Jasper (though I'm not sure about it)
Elijah
Sebastian (but we think it's a bit gay for a kid with two moms!)
Matthew (too popular)
Alexander (not unusual enough for me)
We need more options. We want something known but not common. Our dd is H a r r i e t and we're in ireland so it fits the profile.
All suggestions welcome 