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Boys name avoiding the sounds b, d, p, t, f, s, c

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PebbleFrog · 31/03/2015 22:18

We're expecting a baby with a bilateral cleft lip and probable palate and they may have speech problems when they begin to talk, especially with the sounds mentioned.
I spoke it a speech therapist I know & she said all vowel sounds will be easy for them to say, along with the nasal sounds m and n, but other sounds may not be so clear.
We want to give them a middle name that will be easy for them to say, in case they struggle with their first name.
Got lots of ideas for girls (Nina, Anna, Emily), but struggling for a boy.
Any suggestions?

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TRexingInAsda · 01/04/2015 22:41

Of course, sorry - you don't owe me an explanation. That question was a lack of brain to mouth filter on my part. Or brain to hand, I suppose, in this case! x

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PebbleFrog · 01/04/2015 22:13

Wow! So many ideas! Thank you.

TRex we don't know for sure whether there will be any problem with the palate at all, and if there is, it may be really successfully repaired in surgery, so it's more of a precaution, just incase they find their first name difficult.

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Bifald · 01/04/2015 10:31

Owen

Ewan

Noah

FishCanFly · 01/04/2015 10:27

Roy or Ron

Writerwannabe83 · 01/04/2015 08:48

I've got a DS called Arron.

We wanted to avoid the Aaron spelling as we hate the Air-ron pronunciation.

OneMagnumisneverenough · 01/04/2015 07:38

Oh, I missed the bit about it being a middle name. Maybe the baby is being named after dad or has a name selected for a cultural reason or something?

mathanxiety · 01/04/2015 03:14

I wanted to ask that, TRex.

CruCru · 31/03/2015 23:10

Amar.

patienceisvirtuous · 31/03/2015 23:08

Aaron

OneMagnumisneverenough · 31/03/2015 23:06

b, d, p, t, f, s, c
Aaron
Ellis
Hugo/Hugh
Ivor
Niall
Will

TRexingInAsda · 31/03/2015 22:55

Wouldn't it be much, much more important to give them a first name that they are likely to be able to pronounce?

PlumpingIsQuiteUpForThud · 31/03/2015 22:50

I think 'J' sounds are good - Jamie is particularly non-reliant on tongue placement. Also Leo, Alan and Harry.

I'd like to second another poster's comment about operations for cleft palate - I've met people before who told me they'd had an operation as kids and you'd never have guessed. Their speech was indistinguishable from mine.

Hope you're alright op.

Letsgoforawalk · 31/03/2015 22:45

Ooh, I had one of those !(baby with bilateral cleft lip and palate....) and it never occurred to us to give her a name she could say ( although now I think about it, we did, her name contains none of those sounds. That's really thoughtful of you... Smile
You might also find that repeatedly saying a name that contains difficult sounds, means they get lots of practice and therefore they are less of a problem.

I wish you all the very best and hope it all goes well. PM me if you have anything you want to ask. Mine had a bilateral complete cleft lip and palate. Now she is 13 and thriving totally, confident, happy, busy etc etc.

slug · 31/03/2015 22:40

Ruben

ouryve · 31/03/2015 22:37

Owen/Eoin
Ewan
Ian/Iain
Evan
Noah
Neil, Noel

i owuld have htought M would be hard to pronounce, actually.

Fleecyleesy · 31/03/2015 22:33

Henry

wonkylegs · 31/03/2015 22:32

From DSs friends
We've got

Jake
Rowan
Rohan
Joe
Oliver
Alex
Noah
George
Gerry
Harry
Owen
Neil
Ryan

Johan
Jamie
Ian
William

Fleecyleesy · 31/03/2015 22:32

Joe

lemonyone · 31/03/2015 22:29

Love the suggestion of Jamie.

And hope you are okay Op - that must have been quite unsettling to discover. I used to work with the surgeons who did those ops and follow ups and the results they get nowadays - functionally and aesthetically - are just phenomenal, so I'm sure you'll be in good hands. Best wishes.

Lovelydiscusfish · 31/03/2015 22:26

Jim is nice.

TeaMakesItAllPossible · 31/03/2015 22:25

Ryan
Henry
George
Ethan
Leon
Leo

EdithWeston · 31/03/2015 22:25

Milo, Marlowe, Iolo, Alan

Rollo, Roy, Aaron

Allstoppedup · 31/03/2015 22:24

Adam

thetroubleis · 31/03/2015 22:23

Ewan or Ryan?

enderwoman · 31/03/2015 22:22

Jay
Ray
Joe