MIL opinion on name choice

FWIW I think it's a wonderful name. You just want everyone to love your child's name, im not surprised parents to be keep it shtum! You'll just have to grow a thick skin and ignore her- they'll be plenty of people who LOVE his name including you. As an aside my children's names were pretty much loathed by everyone (PIL refused to acknowledge both but they are bonkers) people adore their names now.
Let it wash over you, some people have no manners.

My MIL didn't like DS1's name. She refused to call him by it for about a year. Even on xmas cards etc she would address to "my grandson". It upset me. She didn't like it as it wasn't "biblical" DP and I aren't religious in the slightest, never have been. Eventually she stated using his name. He is 6 now but I can tell she still isn't happy as it wasn't on her approved list.
This is her problem and hers alone. His name is not uncommon or quirky, she is just very hard work (that's a whole other thread)
It did get to the stage I carried a copy of his birth cert in my bag to show her his name should she get arsey. I never did though as I just couldn't be bothered getting down to her level.
If you both love the name then to hell with what anyone else thinks. I love Leo as a name BTW

A colleagues used a great analogy that when you are told the name of someone's baby it's like when you see a bride on her wedding day - you say how lovely/wonderful/beautiful regardless of what you really think - any thing else is plain rude!

Agree, it's always a bad idea to tell people before the birth, because if they're in any way clueless/socially inept, they will freely tell you they don't like it.

We announced both DCs' names when they were born, and the names were simply accepted.

It was a bit silly of you to tell her the name pre birth. If she asks again just say you don't want to discuss it. And change the topic of conversation.

Of course you must name him Leo. They made their name choices when they had your DH

Tbh, if you start making concessions like this before your baby is born, it is going to be really difficult to do things 'your' way after the baby arrives.

This is the name you will be using for YOUR baby for the rest of your life - def. should be a name you and dh love! Congrats...,

MIL has no right whatsoever to have a say in your child's name. My PILS BEGGED me to include the name Arthur in our son's name as it had been in the family for years. We refused as we both loathe the name.

None at all.

And they would get told to fuck off

This is why we didn't tell anyone what names we were even considering. It takes a spectacularly rude person to slag of a baby being presented with a name.

My mil didn't like our name choices, I refer her once commemting it would have been nice if "one of her grandchildren had been given a name I liked". I just bit my tongue, she is lovely really, just has very different taste in names to dp and myself. Pretty sure she has grown to like the madthings names now :)

The only time I would take someone's opinion on board would be of the name we had chosen had very traumatic associations for them, eg if it was the name of an abusive ex-partner, or a sibling who had died or something like that. If it's just that they don't particularly like the name, then I wouldn't be put off it - although if there were two names I liked equally, then I guess if people hated one of them then I'd choose the other.

Yes MIL aired her views. Ironic because through misplaced loyalty we used her name as the Middle name. We never uttered the name until she was actually born nor would I ever. We told them about a car we were thinking of buying once and we had to listen for 2 hours about other cars we should buy. We learned our lesson and never discussed any purchase with then again. A name discussion would have been the exact same.

My MiL didn't like our choice for DD and was quite vocal about it at first. Think someone may have had a quiet word because now she loves it

And yes, MIL will get used to it.

Tell her to fuck off! Why did fil even play along, that's just as bad.

Leo is a lovely name.

'Have I introduced you to my friends? Meet (raise middle finger) Fuck and (raise index finger) Off'.

Your baby, your call.

I had an auntie saying our boy name (Felix) is horrible and cruel and and and... do I give a shit? No

It's very rude to slag off a name, especially when it's a perfectly nice, normal name.

My mum was horrendous, first three dc I tried my best to keep everyone happy, this time round as long as DH and I like it I could 't give a fig.

Absolutely stick to the name you both like. It isn't up to anyone else and finding names is hard enough! If it was a very unusual or odd name then maybe other people's opinions would be useful, but Leo is a good solid name.

Your DH needs to tell her to wind her neck in and STFU. She's had her turn.

Don't worry. I faced criticism for my name choices too. It stinks. It feels horrible and it's unfair.

But, it's your choice. Don't change it unless you want to because you've changed your mind.

They will learn to live with it.

My mother is also quite depressed and vocal. She didn't like our boys name choice and it did influence me. However, I was on the fence about the name.

Once he was born he got a different name. Leo is lovely.

I am quite stubborn so if I wasn't on the fence, I would have gone for initial choice. If you love it, go for it. I cannot see why she wouldn't like Leo. Maybe she would prefer a longer version you could shorten (not that you need to)

Tell her to bog off and next time keep your name choice secret until you name the baby. Interfering old bag.

I would be upset too, when I tell anyone a potential name and they grimace I take it personally. However Leo is on my boys short list so don't change it!

Most people say what a lovely name and shut up even if they dont like it