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Etienne....for a girl?

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Mammammio · 02/01/2015 20:04

Is this a massive no no? I know it's 'Stephen' in French, we are not french and live in the UK but we both love this name and prefer for a girl. Would you assume this was a boy if you heard it? She would go by Etti as a nickname and be called that the majority of the time but I think that the full version is lovely.

I know a little girl called Elliotte and another called Dylan and no one seems too fussed but wondered what people think?

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Phipilapie · 10/01/2015 06:40

What abour Emmilene? Like Emmilene Pankhurst? Brilliant name for a girl. Not dissimilar in sound to Etienne.

ChippingInLovesChristmasLights · 07/01/2015 14:08

It's a shame, but probably wise.

However, if I was in the uk I wouldn't saddle a boy with Etienne.

fattycow · 07/01/2015 11:57

Deffo a boy name.

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Mammammio · 06/01/2015 13:22

Thanks for all the thoughts! We are atoring Etienne for future use in case we ever have a boy...thankfully we have now come up with a few nice girl options which we both like so this thread was worth the effort.

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NeedABumChange · 06/01/2015 10:59

Sorry but etienne would sound like you were a bit uneducated and had no idea it was a boys name rather than a cute boys name for a girl.

How about Ariadne?

SecretNutellaFix · 06/01/2015 08:09

The French male version of Laurence is Laurent.

PitchWrapped · 06/01/2015 08:02

It wont be the OP that is saddled with a mans name though will it, its her daughter who will have to put up with it

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pickledsiblings · 05/01/2015 22:56

Elena could have Etty as a nn, no?

WordOfTheDay · 05/01/2015 22:34

Thanks Aunt Dinah. You're right: Saint-Étienne FC is based in Saint-Étienne. It's very close to Lyons (39 miles), whence the association in my head....

ZenNudist · 05/01/2015 08:25

I'd judge sorry. It's a boys name.

GreatAuntDinah · 05/01/2015 06:22

Uh, St Etienne is the main football team in, um, St Etienne...

WordOfTheDay · 04/01/2015 23:59

Etienne is 100% a bloke's name. It is NOT unisex in any way. It is NOT used as a tom-boyish name for a girl. Using this name for a girl would be an awful, humiliating blunder. It's like calling a girl Edward, Richard, Derek, Brian, William. It would just demonstrate that the parents had no idea what they were doing and had been too stupid as to look into the name.

It's not just a matter of a couple of raised eyebrows when the girl is on holidays in France. Every French speaker, and many, many others, she encounters in the UK and anywhere she goes in the world will think "oh.my.god, this poor girl, her parents obviously had no idea when they named her what they were naming her; she/they must have regretted it inumberabke times ever since".

It is on a par with the worst name blunder I ever came across. A very, young French woman in France, who I met, who named her son Wendy because she thought it was a great sounding English name. After years of embarassment, the poor lad now calls himself Vendy.

Re. the connection with football, St. Étienne is the main football team in Lyons. It has a massive following.

Luckily, there are many, many names that can yield the nickname, Etty. I'm sure you'll have no trouble at all finding one that you love that isn't a (100%) male name.

PitchWrapped · 04/01/2015 21:54

I'd assume the parents were a bit thick...all our french books at school had the name Etienne so most people should know its a boys name. I like Ethlyn

GreatAuntDinah · 04/01/2015 21:51

I've never heard Alouette as a name, it would definitely be weird.

ICanTotallyDance · 04/01/2015 21:42

Chalala

Well, when I said it's a French girls' name I meant... it's French... and it had been used as a girls' name. Whether it's actually used as a girls' name in France is another matter entirely! So you may not have lost touch as much as you think. The only Alouette I ever met was American.

SurlyCue · 04/01/2015 21:32

I think Ettienne is lovely for a girl and the cynic in me thinks having a male name might be beneficial depending on what career she goes for.

GreatAuntDinah · 04/01/2015 21:30

And thoth Laurence is always a girl's name in French.

GreatAuntDinah · 04/01/2015 21:27

How about Andouillette? Wink

Funnily enough Stéphane can be a girl's name in France. But there are the names Etienna and Etiennette if you're really keen on the idea.

florascotia · 04/01/2015 11:36

I rather like Arietty. The character in the book would be a good role model - she's brave and adventurous and spirited. As others have said, several invented names from literature have passed into wider use. Presumably, Arrietty is a 'borrowed'/adapted/recycled version of Harriet, which is another good name that could give nn Etty.

Deerhound · 03/01/2015 23:35

Ethlyn
Ethelyn /Etheline
Etta
Ethena (this means strong in Hebrew, apparently, which I particularly like)

TheQuibbler · 03/01/2015 23:14

Some male French names sound oddly female to Anglo ears. My (French) husband's best friend is called Fifi - which is the normal shortening for Philippe. I think Lulu is short for Louis.

Etienne, though is so very male. But James has been used as a female name and I think it sounds grand.

Some nice and close alternatives. I think, on balance, I would use one of those.

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Mammammio · 03/01/2015 23:09

Yes I actually studied a degree in English literature, I'm not absurd.

He's believed to have invented many names we use frequently today (one of which my DD1 goes by) but it's tricky to be sure obviously...there's no mention of many of his character's names in previous literature before his time. Because it's 400 years ago people assume they've been around forever but actually they haven't.

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DancingDinosaur · 03/01/2015 23:06

Don't be absurd op, Shakespeare did not make Miranda, Jessica or Olivia.

A quick google appears to show that he did invent these names.

Yika · 03/01/2015 22:57

Why not just call her Etti? It's cute!

I know an Etty, not short for anything, and an Eti short for Esther.