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Kate or Katie?

37 replies

flowerbum · 14/12/2014 20:54

What sounds better? And no i dont like Kathryn!

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merlehaggard · 16/12/2014 07:33

I like both but probably Kate best. If my youngest had been a girl, we had the name Caitlin lined up and was going to shorten it to Cate. I did have some reservations about Cate spelt like that, didn't like the spelling of Kaitlyn with a K and it felt wrong to spell Caitlin with a C but shorten to Kate with a K!

berberana · 16/12/2014 07:28

I am Catherine (after grandmother) but always shortened to Katie (am now 34!). I don't like being called Kate as it seems lazy that people can't be bothered to say "ie"!! And I do prefer Katie, never felt it was too young, although I am the only person of my generation I know to be Katie rather that Kate. But that's quite nice!

Stella29 · 15/12/2014 22:36

Definitely Katie. Katie is beautiful, Kate is a bit mumsy. I love old fashioned names but no Kate just sounds boring.

newbie6 · 15/12/2014 22:30

Katie is lovely and it is also shortened from Katrina

Choose what YOU like Smile

DramaAlpaca · 15/12/2014 21:37

I vote for Kate, nn Katie.

Wafflenose · 15/12/2014 21:15

I have a 9 year old Kate and she LOVES it. We have never called her anything else (apart from Kajagoogoo!) and she has only ever had Katie from a couple of teachers. We gave her a long, posh middle name in case she didn't like it, but she thinks it's brilliant. She is confident, with a straight-to-the-point personality and a name to match. :)

IWantDogger · 15/12/2014 18:06

I think it's a lovely name - prob prefer Kate. Benefit of a longer name on birth certificate is that it gives more options for the child when they're older.
Weirdly at the moment, in the small village where I live, literally about 50% of my friends are Kate or Katie (all in their thirties) and it was the most popular name at school as in there were about 6 in the year (of 90)

CorporateRockWhore · 15/12/2014 18:05

Katie Maria does flow better but how often are you going to say her whole name out loud? Pretty rarely.

I have a Kate and get SO many compliments on her name. It's got potential for an adult, whereas to me Katie is very child-like.

TheOriginalSteamingNit · 15/12/2014 18:00

I love Kate, but would always give the proper name even if you're only ever going to call her Kate or Katie, personally!

Sophronia · 15/12/2014 17:53

Definitely Kate. I think Kate Maria sounds lovely.

bubalou · 15/12/2014 16:19

Also with spelling I know a Katy who her name gets shortened to Kat and she hates it.

Smile
bubalou · 15/12/2014 16:19

That's ok Smile

I was called Kate or Katie until about 11-12 I would say so 'pre-teen' age I wanted to lose the less 'cutesy' version.

My name is Kate but it's amazing how many people call me Katie and I have to correct them.

To be honest I would have been happy to be named Katie and would probably just say to people 'my names Katie but call me Kate' when making introductions etc.

Katie Maria is lovely Smile

Vagueandbemused · 15/12/2014 13:38

I'm a Katherine, who was Katie as a child and is now Kate. Slightly annoying when completing official forms I have to use Katherine, and then get called that until I correct people, which is embarrassing for everyone. Just go with Kate and call her Katie while she's little. Don't bother with Katherine unless you intend to use it!

Mumoftwoyoungkids · 15/12/2014 13:30

Kate was always my "girls name". When I was pregnant dh said he liked Katie one time. We went for Katherine (IMO Katie is short for Katherine and Katy is short for Kathryn) as it makes it easier to change from one to the other. She's currently Katie (which really suits a 4 year old) but I wonder if she'll become Kate as a teenager (and Katherine as an adult).

All lovely names.

But if you dislike Katherine (I prefer Kate / Katie but didn't dislike it) then stick with Kate. Most people don't know that my Katie is really Katherine. And it is always a bit of a pain in the doctors when we sit blankly waiting to be called whilst the doctor goes "Katherine? Katherine?"

flowerbum · 15/12/2014 13:15

Thanks for the input bubalou, at what age did you stop being Katie and become Kate then? I want maria for a middle name after a special family member which is stirring me towards Katie as I think Katie maria sounds better than Kate maria. I think Kate is lovely to grow into though. I want a name that is both pretty and that a woman would like.

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flowerbum · 15/12/2014 13:07

Thanks for the input bubalou, at what age did you stop being Katie and become Kate then? I want maria for a middle name after a special family member which is stirring me towards Katie as I think Katie maria sounds better than Kate maria. I think Kate is lovely to grow into though. I want a name that is both pretty and that a woman would like.

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bubalou · 15/12/2014 12:53

I am a Kate. Smile

I really like my name and always have.

I hate it when people call me Katie now I'm an adult or ask me 'is it short for katherine'?

No - Kate is an actual name!

My middle name is Louise so I got called Katie Lou when I was younger which I liked. Smile

I think all options are nice but Katherine is too mature for a baby name I think.

flowerbum · 15/12/2014 10:42

Thank you all for the interesting input. I don't see the point of having Katherine when I hate it and I love Kate or Katie. My son is called alex and people were trying to get me to out Alexander on his birth certificate despite the fact I would never use it as love the name alex! I like your point bobby1234 about cutesy names. Still undecided, I like both names.

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burgatroyd · 15/12/2014 08:32

I once met a granny called Amy. She suited her 'baby' name and stood out amongst her mates Maud and Beryl.

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 15/12/2014 08:25

Kate.

No need at all for a longer name that you dont like or never intend to use. Sarahs and Claires dont get any choice yet they are seen as proper names. So should Kate imo.

Bobby1234 · 15/12/2014 08:22

I don't think it's cutesy at all and like you wouldn't want Katherine. I don't understand the obsession with people calling names cutesy when Katie will be growing up with Poppy's and Daisy's x

StetsonsAreCool · 15/12/2014 08:21

I'm a Katy. I hated it as a child, because I couldn't imagine being a 30 year old called 'a kids name' (as I saw it). Well, it's done me alright so far, and I now prefer not to shorten it to Kate. My family called me Kate, but no one else is allowed. It doesn't suit me and it's not my name!

Xmas Grin
Bobby1234 · 15/12/2014 08:20

My sister is Katie and 30 always liked it as does she x

LadyCassandra · 15/12/2014 08:19

My friend is a Kathryn who calls herself Katie, but is called Kate by nearly everyone. At least she has a choice!

WhispersOfWickedness · 15/12/2014 08:17

I am a Kate! It is a great name, I love it Grin My family uses Katy as a nickname, this works really well Smile