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Strong, feminine girls' names with nickname

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sanilee · 01/11/2014 19:53

Hi, all. We are looking to get pregnant soon and have settled on our potential boys' names. We are finding the girls' names a bit trickier. I love classic names that sound strong and feminine. DH agrees but would also like a cute nickname to go with them, which is fine by me. I tend to be drawn to three syllable names, names with historical and/or literary connections, and names with "L" or "R" in them, though those aren't requirements.

Boys: Lionel (nn Leo) FamilyMiddleName
Theodore (nn Teddy) FamilyMiddle Name

Middle name will be family name (Lee or Holly) though I don't care too much about first and middle name coordinating. Last name is a bird, fish, or something that could throw off even Holmes. Begins with "H".

We wanted the nickname of Rosie and would also call her Rosie Lee (in the States so has nothing to do with tea here) but don't love any of the "Rose" names and Rose by itself is just too abrupt. We like Rosalind nn Rosie, especially because of the Shakespeare connection but I am not sold- I am not sure if the "lind" is a little harsh. I also really like Delphine but DH is not convinced and I am not quite either.

Other names we liked but will likely not use:

Seraphina (nn Fina)- negative associations for DH
Lavender- not sold, no nickname
Chloe- I like the "lo" sound but feels a bit trendy
Grace- seems a bit blah
Clara- see Grace, no nickname
Arabella/Annabel- too many Bellas in the US right now
Rose
Araminta (nn Minty)- DH LOVES and I love the historical connection (Harriet Tubman) but I don't know if I could actually give a child this name, seems like it would be a bit much; also a bit harsh sounding. I know this is a "posh" name but that is irrelevant in the States
Jemima- love but would never use due to racial undertones here
Josephine (nn Posy)- love the nn and "Little Women" connection, don't love the full name
Juliet- don't love the "t" ending, perhaps is too strongly associated with the character
Felicity (nn Fi) - DH doesn't like

Thanks!

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sanilee · 01/11/2014 23:09

No worries, Ella- it's a great suggestion!

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sanilee · 01/11/2014 23:09

Ha, the Melrose thought crossed my mind before! Love Evangeline, worried Eve would get swallowed by all the Avas/Evas. Love Simone as well, but what would be the nickname? Emmeline is very pretty but not very strong and Emma is a huge name here. I think Matilda nn Tilly is adorable, but Matilda sounds like a child's name and not a woman's name to me for some reason.

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EllaMenoPea · 01/11/2014 23:06

Sorry, just seen has already been done!

EllaMenoPea · 01/11/2014 23:01

Charlotte nn= Lottie

AhoyMcCoy · 01/11/2014 22:55

Matilda (nn Tilly)

TunnocksCW · 01/11/2014 22:50

Simone
Emmeline
Dorothy

vintagenurse · 01/11/2014 22:48

Evangeline - Eve
Genevieve - Eve/Viva
Victoria - Vita

Carrie5608 · 01/11/2014 22:45

Danielle nn Danni
Millicent nn Millie

TunnocksCW · 01/11/2014 22:43

Bit of a stretch maybe, Melrose....?

sanilee · 01/11/2014 22:33

Hazlenutt, Stella is a strech, though I like Estelle and Maristella even more.

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HazleNutt · 01/11/2014 21:58

Estelle, but doesn't have a nickname really. Stella at stretch.

wickedlazy · 01/11/2014 21:54

Joe short for Josephine or posy nn for Josephine. Or Frankie short for Francine/Francesca (sp?)Grin

sanilee · 01/11/2014 21:52

Constance reads as a bit dour to me and not feminine.

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sanilee · 01/11/2014 21:51

Tunnocks, I know, I have gone back and forth about that. I love how strong and feminine it is, but just feel like it is too abrupt regardless of age, especially with likely a one-syllable middle name. And what eventually her last name is one-syllable, as well? Though that might be overthinking it.

Ginny is fine but I knew a Virginia nicknamed Gigi as a child and then used her full name as a teenager. I prefer Gigi to Ginny and love Virginia enough that I wouldn't mind the inevitable switch.

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Irishkez · 01/11/2014 21:50

Constance nn Connie?

TunnocksCW · 01/11/2014 21:47

FWIW Rose may be too abrupt for a little one but is a pretty but practical grown up name. It would undoubtedly be Rosie anyway in childhood.

Do you like Ginny as a nickname?

sanilee · 01/11/2014 21:43

The fact that it is Maya Angelou's first name is swaying me. Goodness, I just am not sure! DH likes it.

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sanilee · 01/11/2014 21:42

Angharad has a lovely meaning, though, shame about the accent here and mispronunciation.

Still love Marguerite from a previous suggestion with nickname Daisy but can't quite shake that we are too apple pie looks wise for it to work.

And no, I actually love Virginia!

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Doilooklikeatourist · 01/11/2014 21:39

Angharad -- pronounced ANG harrod

TunnocksCW · 01/11/2014 21:39

I do think Delphine is a bit French depends on your family if it works.

Is Virginia too American Grin ?

mathanxiety · 01/11/2014 21:29

The HAR bit would become 'hair' in the US. The R is a Welsh, 'rolled' R and this would be lost in translation too. I considered Angharad for DD1 but decided against it.

mathanxiety · 01/11/2014 21:27

An-HAR-adh. (D as it is pronounced in French)

cingolimama · 01/11/2014 21:24

Romola (Romy for short)

sanilee · 01/11/2014 21:19

I really like Sephy and love the sound of Persephone but the whole "Rape of Persephone" myth is too off-putting.

Again, love Felicity but DH really doesn't. How do you pronounce Angharad?

Clarissa is too "explains it all" and seems again 90s and even a bit prissy to me (I am sure the TV show/90s connection is based on where I live), Maryann is okay, and Meredith doesn't seem feminine enough to me, though I have always loved the idea of Merry as a nickname. I think the "ith" ending is what makes it a bit too masculine to me, same with Ruth. Silly, I know, but there it is.

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PitchSlapped · 01/11/2014 21:10

I personally love Meredith, nn Merry or Edie. What about Persephone nn Sephy?

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