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Strong, feminine girls' names with nickname

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sanilee · 01/11/2014 19:53

Hi, all. We are looking to get pregnant soon and have settled on our potential boys' names. We are finding the girls' names a bit trickier. I love classic names that sound strong and feminine. DH agrees but would also like a cute nickname to go with them, which is fine by me. I tend to be drawn to three syllable names, names with historical and/or literary connections, and names with "L" or "R" in them, though those aren't requirements.

Boys: Lionel (nn Leo) FamilyMiddleName
Theodore (nn Teddy) FamilyMiddle Name

Middle name will be family name (Lee or Holly) though I don't care too much about first and middle name coordinating. Last name is a bird, fish, or something that could throw off even Holmes. Begins with "H".

We wanted the nickname of Rosie and would also call her Rosie Lee (in the States so has nothing to do with tea here) but don't love any of the "Rose" names and Rose by itself is just too abrupt. We like Rosalind nn Rosie, especially because of the Shakespeare connection but I am not sold- I am not sure if the "lind" is a little harsh. I also really like Delphine but DH is not convinced and I am not quite either.

Other names we liked but will likely not use:

Seraphina (nn Fina)- negative associations for DH
Lavender- not sold, no nickname
Chloe- I like the "lo" sound but feels a bit trendy
Grace- seems a bit blah
Clara- see Grace, no nickname
Arabella/Annabel- too many Bellas in the US right now
Rose
Araminta (nn Minty)- DH LOVES and I love the historical connection (Harriet Tubman) but I don't know if I could actually give a child this name, seems like it would be a bit much; also a bit harsh sounding. I know this is a "posh" name but that is irrelevant in the States
Jemima- love but would never use due to racial undertones here
Josephine (nn Posy)- love the nn and "Little Women" connection, don't love the full name
Juliet- don't love the "t" ending, perhaps is too strongly associated with the character
Felicity (nn Fi) - DH doesn't like

Thanks!

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ReinholdMessner · 11/11/2014 23:49

Surprised that no one has suggested Rosanna. The one I know goes by Ro but you also have the potential NN Ros, Rosie, Anna...

sanilee · 11/11/2014 17:53

Rhonda, actually, I crossed off Rosemary because DH doesn't like it, as mentioned above, though I didn't love that meaning.

Teresa is pretty but not quite right. Sorry to be difficult! All others either DH has nixed or we have a close family member or friend with the name.

I love Portia and Camilla, adding them to list.

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beavington · 10/11/2014 23:54

Tess/ tessa is a nn for Teresa isnt it? I love them both

cherrybombxo · 10/11/2014 11:40

I'm a Jessica, nn Jess. People always tell me that my name is pretty

Seasidedolly · 09/11/2014 20:52

How about Rosa? One of my best friends is Rosa and I love it, I usually call her Ro but some people call her Rose

whitechocolatestars · 05/11/2014 04:15

Portia nn Tia

I love this name but DH doesn't

Ophelia nn Lia
Emilia nn Millie
Cressida nn Cressie

SurfsUp1 · 05/11/2014 03:19

Phoebe could have nn Fi, Fifi, Phoebes (that's what the ones I know get).

What about Camilla, nn Cam or Milla or Milly

CheerfulYank · 05/11/2014 02:46

I'm in the exact same boat OP...in the states and looking for a "formal" girls name with a nickname.

I'm pregnant with DC3. I already have Samuel called Sam and Margaret called Maggie. If this one is a boy he'll be William, nicknamed Will.

For a girl I have noooo idea. Confused I love Phoebe but there's no nickname.

I find myself really liking Olivia but it is very popular. Of course, so is Sam...

eae123 · 04/11/2014 22:41

Harriet (nm Hattie) or Eliza

Carrie5608 · 04/11/2014 11:13

Charlotte with nn lottie. I love the charlotte bronte connection of this name.

RafaellaNhaKyria · 04/11/2014 04:50

Roslyn, nicknamed Rosie

mathanxiety · 04/11/2014 04:41

Vanessa?

SurfsUp1 · 04/11/2014 01:30

Nicola - Nicki or Nico
Victoria - Vicky or Tory
Louisa - Lou or Lulu
Georgette - Georgie
Charlotte - Charlie
Fiona - Fi or Fifi
Olivia - Livvy
Katrina/Catriona - Kitty
Annabelle - Annie
Amelie - Mimi
Calliope - Callie
Tamsin - Tammy
Beatrice - Bea
Beatrix - Trixie
Matilda - Tilly
Michelle - Shelly

Rosalie seems like a great option for you. Obviously not with Lee as a MN, but what about your other option - Rosalie Holly?

SuburbanRhonda · 03/11/2014 17:35

Yes, minipie, the OP dismissed Rosemary because it apparently means "bitter rose", though I have read that it also means "dew of the sea".

It's a beautiful name, IMO, all the more so for being so rarely used.

bexibean · 03/11/2014 16:50

Rosetta?

minipie · 03/11/2014 16:50

Has anyone said Rosemary?

Some others you might like (though some don't have super obvious nicknames):

Mariella

Alicia
Eloise
Calista
Felicity
Miranda
Serena
Corinna
Penelope
Venetia
Jessamine

mathanxiety · 03/11/2014 16:41

I have actually never come across anyone with the nn Belle, but I know lots of Bellas.

squoosh · 03/11/2014 13:45

Sybil/Sibby

PomPomPingPong · 03/11/2014 13:43

Rosalys

sanilee · 03/11/2014 06:06

Adding Mirabel and Simone (and also Primrose though I don't know see us using that). Know a baby Lucy that was just born, so Lucinda is likely out. How popular do you think the Belle nickname is? I was wondering if Bella was a bit more in vogue at the moment.

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Squtternutbaush · 03/11/2014 02:41

I know two Simone's, both have family nn's one is Simmy and the other is Mona. I have to say I like Mona best (name and the person :o).

How about
Elsabeth nn Ellie, Elsa, Beth, Betty, Betsy or Clarissa nn Clara?

turdfairynomore · 03/11/2014 02:23

I know an Imogen who is known as Mog-very cute!! And a Genevieve who gets Vievi (pronounced vee-vee). If DS had been dd he'd have been anghard (hari)

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mathanxiety · 03/11/2014 01:59

Mirabel?

SuburbanRhonda · 02/11/2014 22:55

So do you say it Eh-van, with the emphasis on the Eh?

Or eh-VAN, with the emphasis on the Van?

IYSWIM Blush