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people pronouncing my baby's name the way I dont

255 replies

SophieJoe2014 · 16/10/2014 12:37

I have called my dd elle (ellie) but everyone calls her el
I understand that in English it spells el but if you look up how to pronouce elle it comes up with el or ellie
it's making me feel like I have done it wrong people will judge me for it.
has anyone been in the same situation or have any advice?

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SirChenjin · 16/10/2014 17:44

I once knew a woman who insisted we pronounce her name (Siobhan) SHOW-bin. We all went along with it because we were polite, but were all very Confused

neverletgojack · 16/10/2014 17:38

This is what happens when everyone tries to be 'different'
Nobody can spell or pronounce anyone's name.

god help teachers.

divingoffthebalcony · 16/10/2014 17:34

Is Ellie an accepted pronunciation for Elle?

I'm going to put my neck on the line and say no.

I know some people like "creative" spellings, and some people think an E at the end of a name = an "ee" sound (like a boy called Alfe pronounced "Alfie") but... no. It's wrong. It goes against all linguistic conventions I can think of in the English language. And it looks illiterate.

Sorry OP, but I think you should change it to the accepted spelling.

wooooosualsuspect · 16/10/2014 17:27

I would pronounce it Ellie.

But then eveyone on MN says I pronounce my DSs name wrong, so what do I know.

Bowlersarm · 16/10/2014 17:21

There is no way people will see Elle and pronounce Ellie.

Of meet Ellie and know to write it Elle.

It'll be a total pain for her to correct all the time

WillowWoods · 16/10/2014 17:07

It was Wall-e I was thinking of Grin I'd add an i.

Lweji · 16/10/2014 16:56

Ell-e?

Sounds like someone from Superman's family.

Or is that Wall-e? Hmm

Ludways · 16/10/2014 16:35

I prefer El to Ellie, a much nicer adult name IMO.

WillowWoods · 16/10/2014 16:34

Ell-e?

nilbyname · 16/10/2014 15:52

Poor you op if it bothers you then you should change the spelling of the name, or suck up correcting people all the time.

My DD has an unusual name, and I am often repeating it to people. She has 2 very classic middle names just in case!

SirChenjin · 16/10/2014 15:47

Her middle name isn't Leigh, is it? You could hyphenate abd kill two birds with one stone

Honeezreturn · 16/10/2014 15:34

If I saw the name Elle is would pronounce it El
Ellie is pronounce Ellie

Sorry but it's quite straightforward to me, I know some Ellies and one Elle and they are what they are
Maybe change the spelling?

SurelyCurly · 16/10/2014 15:27

Either, stick in an i op or just start calling her Elle

squoosh · 16/10/2014 14:58

I think the OP should put aside how much the El pronunciation bothers her and think instead about what a pain it will be for the bearer of the name.

merrymouse · 16/10/2014 14:56

I don't really care how people pronounce names. For all I know 'Elly' is how 'Elle' is pronounced in Lithuania, or Mauritania.

In theory I love Game of Thrones names that are slight variants of common names like Jojen and Sansa (although I would want to see how the series played out before using them on an actual person and am probably only brave enough to give them to a pet Grin)

I think the only issue is that in the UK Elle is generally pronounced El so the OP will just have to decide how much of a bother it is that people are going to assume it is pronounced Elle when they read the name.

rachel234 · 16/10/2014 14:43

Because most people in the UK pronounce Elle the French way, you're going to have to keep correcting them if you prefer it pronounced Ell-ee. Hopefully most people will learn and remember quickly.

UpduffedFatty · 16/10/2014 14:42

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squoosh · 16/10/2014 14:21

Elle is never pronounced as Ellie. Ever.

Change the spelling of your daughter's name.

ScrambledSmegs · 16/10/2014 14:11

Is Ellie an accepted pronunciation for Elle? I have met an adult one and from what I could gather it was a genuine mistake on the part of her parents. She was both embarrassed and annoyed at having to constantly correct people.

However, people will always make mistakes with names. My DD2 has a classic name spelt in the classic manner. At hospital recently I told the receptionist her name, who then said 'No, you mean "totally different pronunciation of same name"'. Um, no I don't.

OutragedFromLeeds · 16/10/2014 14:05

Elle is pronounced El. If you want your DD to be called Ellie then you can use Ellie or Elly or, if you must be creative in your spelling, Ellee.

Alternatively you could move somewhere where Elle is pronounced Ellie (not anywhere they speak English or French).

Or you could let you DD go through life with a name that is constantly misspelt and mispronounced.

ScrambledSmegs · 16/10/2014 14:01

When I was little I met a girl from another school called Siobhan. Pronounced See-oh-ban. I had no idea why my mother was HmmConfusedGrin when she met her.

Sylviet · 16/10/2014 13:55

Anyone with the name Elle, who is pronouncing it as Ellie, is mispronouncing.

Where did this mistake actually start?

Lweji · 16/10/2014 13:50

I've spent a lot of time on the phone to call centres explaining that I don't have an 'i' in my name, she's going to be doing exactly the same for her whole life

I have also spent many phone calls spelling my name.
Which is why I have given my DS a very standard English name, which is spelt the same in my mother tongue (just pronounced differently, but we use the different pronunciation according to where we are).

Grittzio · 16/10/2014 13:49

Welcome to my world! I have an Esme, pronounced Esmee, I had never even heard of the name Esmay before people started calling her that or until I came on here, she doesn't even have the accent on the 'e'. I find most people who say it wrong at first, listen to how I say it, then pick up on how we wish it pronounced, or Esme will correct them! I went with an 'ee' sound as my PIL have a habit of putting it on all GC names, we didn't use Jack for a boy because of it, so they call her 'Es' now instead - aaaargh! Also with my own name I have had to live with the constant mispronouncement all my life so I guess I don't see it as a big deal. Change the spelling if you want to, we changed the spelling of my sons short name using a Y as oppose to IE as I preferred it that way, he was about a month old but it's his long name on the birth certificate anyway.

MardyBra · 16/10/2014 13:47

I would assume someone who calls their child Elle pronounced Ellie is either

a) a bit thick knows no French OR

b) trying and failing to be interesting or unusual - along the lines if calling your child Jorja instead of Georgia