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do people get your dcs name wrong...

60 replies

burgatroyd · 02/08/2014 17:22

Just that really...
Perhaps you called Dd Emmeline and everyone calls her Emily
Or DS is Josh, just Josh and people insist on calling him Joshua.
With so many preferred variations, shortenings, alternative spellings, being used I wonder if this is a common issue.
Or do you have a misinterpreted name and if so do you wish you was called something simple and straightforward like Jane.

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DogCalledRudis · 04/08/2014 07:23

My own name. It is spelled Natalija in my passport, and whenever i have to show it, people will most likely read it as "Nataleejah"
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Iph · 03/08/2014 21:58

Yes! We inadvertently named both DS1and DD1 names that it turns out a lot of idiots people misread as those of the opposite sex. DS1 is Gabriel and has also had years of birthday cards from his great-aunt addressed to Gabrielle Hmm
I still love their names though and wouldn't change them for anything.

Frikadellen · 03/08/2014 19:56

Ds is called Conrad and we often get " connor" and i LOATHE the name Connor so it REALLY annoys me.

ashesandfire · 03/08/2014 14:31

Yes, my dd is Bethany, she was 'Bethany nn Bethan' at her doctor's surgery for a while (and all the letters were addressed to Bethan - no idea where they got that from), a good friend also referred to her as Bethan for a while, FIL once referred to her as Beverley (REALLY?), she has also been called Bryony. I had no idea it was such a problematic name Hmm
My work colleagues also always call her Beth, which sort of irritates me - even though I LOVE the nn Beth, and it was part of the reason we chose the name- I'm conscious she will probably go by Beth when she's older so for now we are making use of her full name - and I have always introduced her as Bethany. It just irritates me slightly that people shorten names themselves!

FreeSpirit89 · 03/08/2014 09:42

My DS is called Harley, but people call him Harvey.

ROARmeow · 02/08/2014 21:36

My DD is Lydia. Told several people her name, and they've assumed it's Olivia. Not adults so much, but often kids will get it wrong.

No idea why, it could be my Belfast accent, or just the fact that there's 10 Olivia's to every 1 Lydia round here.

TeenyfTroon · 02/08/2014 19:30

Yes, TheWoollybacksWife, I can hear both those versions of Kirsty so clearly in my head.
(Do love a good Scouse accent tho, reminds me of my lovely Dad!)

FluffedUpFerretOnSteroids · 02/08/2014 19:28

When people can't say my name, it's always Beth or Bethany, I hate it and sometimes if it's an appointment I have no clue their calling me Hmm

strawberrypenguin · 02/08/2014 19:27

nelly my SIL does exactly the same with my DS's name! Replaces the y with ie to make it the female version. I think she must do it on purpose for some reason as its a well known name!

NellysKnickers · 02/08/2014 19:19

Yup. Ds1 has a name where the masculine version is spelt with a y and the feminine version is ie. People always get it wrong. Even if I've spelt it out first like in a text message. Really pissed me off, not sure if people are lazy or thick!

RockySpeed · 02/08/2014 19:12

Yes!! DD Sophia had better get used to being called Sophie. Even my Mum calls her Sophie ConfusedConfused

1lov3comp5 · 02/08/2014 19:08

DS is called Eli. Visit to get vaccines at 4 weeks old...

Nurse: now is this a boy or a girl?
Me: boy
Nurse (looking at form with his name on it): so is he called Eli or Ellie?
Me: Hmm

TheWoollybacksWife · 02/08/2014 19:05

Teeny just be thankful you didn't call her Kirsty. My Scottish BIL says is beautifully (sort of Kuhstie) - my Scouse rellies pronounce it Kerrrrrsteeee Grin

Some of my relatives and my NDN insist on calling my DD Joanne when her name is Joanna. Drives me potty. She is almost universally known as Jo now. She is an adult now so is quite capable of correcting people. Grin

pinkgirlythoughts · 02/08/2014 19:01

DH has a name similar to your Josh example (but not Josh), he's just the nn, not the full name, and is constantly asked "is that (e.g) Joshua?" When we moved in together and I went to register us for council tax, I explained to the woman, watched her write Josh on the form, and a few days later received the letter addressed to Mr Joshua X.

Conversely, DS has a name where the nickname on its own is very popular, not so much the full name- think Alfred instead of Alfie. Obviously, when registering him for anything 'official,' we use his full name, but the library, health visitors, and even GP surgery have all later updated their own records to call him Alfie! Grrrr!

IWantToMakePeppaBacon · 02/08/2014 18:59

DD is Cassie - constantly being called Casey Confused

TeenyfTroon · 02/08/2014 18:57

My Rory is Rooree to his Irish and Scottish relatives, Rory to his English ones. That's fine, he's happy with both. Róisín is Rosheen to her Northern Irish relatives, Roe-sheen to her Irish ones and bloody RuhSHEEN to many English people. Fgs.
Well that's outed me then! (Scottish/Scouse cross me!)

GwenStacy · 02/08/2014 18:50

Your first example ;-) I've even said Emmeline in a text and she's replied back asking after Emily…

InkleWinkle · 02/08/2014 18:44

My DD2 is also called Alexa but gets called Alexis, Lexie, Alexia etc

She's very good at correcting them Grin

Gugglebum · 02/08/2014 18:42

DH's American friends and family insist my Graham is Gram. Gram? That is what I call my grandmother. How do you get one syllable out of 'aha'? Second vowel after a consonant makes the first vowel long. Phonics, anyone? Grey-am or Grey-um. Now I have them call him Grey because I can't stand them calling my little boy what I call my Gram. Confused

TooManyDicksOnTheDancefloor · 02/08/2014 18:18

Yes, dd2 is called Bronwen and everyone, including my sister, call her BronWIN. It's got to the point where I feel that I'm being unreasonable to correct them so I call her Bronny instead.

lanbro · 02/08/2014 18:16

Yes, dd1 has an 'ann' sound in both her full name and nn but many people say 'arn', stopped correcting a while ago, those that matter know her name!

SnayPah · 02/08/2014 18:13

Not pronunciation but spelling - there are 3 ways to spell DD's name and even people I talk with often by text / email (so they see it written all the time) spell it wrong. It doesn't bother me, people have been spelling my name wrong my whole life.

FeministStar · 02/08/2014 18:12

Yes, one of my colleagues does it every single time. I wouldn't mind so much but we have worked together for 7 years and our DCs are in the same class at school FFS. It really, really pisses me off, not least because it's one of the top 5 names.

burgatroyd · 02/08/2014 18:11

lally London funnily enough! Grin

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NotMyChashkaChai · 02/08/2014 18:10

Yes dd is katya. we get kat-ee-ah all the time when it's just two syllables: kat-ya. It's a five letter name for goodness sake!

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