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do people get your dcs name wrong...

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burgatroyd · 02/08/2014 17:22

Just that really...
Perhaps you called Dd Emmeline and everyone calls her Emily
Or DS is Josh, just Josh and people insist on calling him Joshua.
With so many preferred variations, shortenings, alternative spellings, being used I wonder if this is a common issue.
Or do you have a misinterpreted name and if so do you wish you was called something simple and straightforward like Jane.

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kiwiscantfly · 16/08/2014 15:22

I also have an Eilidh who gets called Hayley, but she corrects them fairly promptly (bossy 3.5 yo).

MarianneBrandon · 16/08/2014 15:11

DS is Brandon but people often call him Brendan which drives me mad.

5madthings · 16/08/2014 12:06

I have a short classic name and people still get it wrong.

My dd is merryn so yes unusual but not out there odd... People think it's Mary or Miriam...

Oh and ds4 is Rudi, people often think it's ruby... He is 6 and most definitely looks like a boy! It was more understandable when he was a baby/toddler though tbh he has always looked like a boy.

Oh and ds1 Theo, often mistaken for Leo.

MollyBdenum · 16/08/2014 12:02

Duck, I would always check pronunciation for a Thea, in case it was pronounced Taya in a German sort of way, which it sometimes is.

Notso · 16/08/2014 11:51

I have a short, classic, easy to spell name that can't really be shortened into another name Bunbaker, people love to add 'ie' to it though.

JammyTodger · 16/08/2014 11:40

I am often corrected by people on how to pronounce DS's name. How many kings of France were called Lewis ffs? I had never heard Louis pronounced Lewis before I had him, but now it seems everyone's doing it. Currently pregnant with DC2 who if a girl will probably be Emmeline. I'll brace myself for more name confusion...

Bunbaker · 16/08/2014 11:26

No, because we chose a classic name that can't be shortened or played with and is easy to spell as there is only one way of spelling it.

aubreye · 16/08/2014 11:22

DS1 is Isaac Caspar. Isaac is fine, but he gets called Jasper a lot.
DD1 is Delilah Verity. She's fine but has had comments about her name being very unusual.
DS2 is Ephra Finn. Yes Ephra not Ezra.
DD2 is Rosie Harper. A lot more common and doesn't get mistaken.

DuckandCat · 14/08/2014 13:36

I also have a Thea. People act like its a really 'out there' name and were a bit Hmm when we announced it.

She is constantly called Tia and it drives me mad! How hard can it be, it's 4 letters long!!

burgatroyd · 05/08/2014 14:37

Paddington is your dd's name Elin?

monster Elina was very nearly dd2 name! Lovely!

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TheAuthoress · 05/08/2014 14:02

My DD is also called Thea (good taste emmeline Smile) and people often ask my DS 'what's your sisters name?' as she's only a baby. He can't prounounce his th's yet so says fee-a which sends most people into a tizzy of confusion! Even when I say Thea afterwards they still seem confused Grin

AgadorSpartacus · 05/08/2014 13:55

Ds is Rohan.

This gets pronounced Ro - HAN emphasis on HAN with an audible aitch.

Also Rowan with an audible W (there is NO w in his name!)

He has been called Roland, Owen and Rory.

It's pronounced Roan with a silent h.

TheGoop · 05/08/2014 13:34

people lengthen my son's name - i.e Billy instead of Bill. He hates it, even at under four he still knows they are getting it wrong and will tell them.

monsterfaery · 05/08/2014 13:18

DD gets called Elena / Eleanor when her name is Elina(to rhyme with Tina) especially at places like the doctors so I don't realise they are calling her as it doesn't register as her name.

DS gets called Caitlin, his name is *Caelin.

Oh and other DS gets called Ashton and he is *Aston.

Paddingtonthebear · 05/08/2014 11:37

Yes, often "Ellie" or "Erin". She is neither

Artandco · 05/08/2014 11:34

Middle name so not that bad but it's Teodor. My mother tells everyone it's pronounced Theodore but we couldn't spell it right! Despite us repeating that it's spelt right in dhs country and is pronounced 'teo -door' and is dhs father and grandfathers name.

Nope she still asks why we didn't ask her for spelling clarification

GiniCooper · 05/08/2014 11:27

emmeline my mother renamed one of my nieces to people too because she was hoping my sister would change her mind.
She also didn't hide her disappointment at my failure to use her name choices. When I had my DD she did announce a different name but said she made a mistake.

Yeah, sure you did.

myotherusernameisbetter · 05/08/2014 11:19

outs myself now, but I have a Craig and a Ciar (pronounced Kee ir).

My neighbours call them Greg and Ikea - that's even what they write in Christmas cards....at first I thought they were trying to be funny, but it seems not! they are just a bit thick

youngest was is very pretty and was often confused for a girl who of course was called Ciara......he hates that. Interestingly despite him having an unusual name we don't get many wrong pronunciations.

PsammeadPaintedTheLion · 05/08/2014 11:16

We have a Lucia (Loo SEE ah) who my aunt calls loo CHEE ah. It's a valid and perfectly nice pronunciation of the name, but the pronunciation that we chose is loo SEE ah. We expected to correct people who first saw the name written and used whatever prn they first though of, but not a family member who has been told a hundred times.

Dd2 gets called Jessica when her name is Francesca.

FruitBasedDrinkForALady · 05/08/2014 01:12

The mum of one of the boys in DD's nursery corrected him in saying her name the other day. She told him DD's name is Nina. It's not, and he was right, DD's name is Lena (lee-na, not len -a). I felt bad telling the other mum though, because DD can't pronounce her own name properly and always introduces herself as nina!

emmeline7725 · 04/08/2014 21:01

My daughter is called Thea. When she was born we received many cards from friends of my in laws congratulating us on the birth of 'Theodora'. I was extremely unimpressed that mil had renamed her!

It often gets misheard as 'Fia' or sometimes 'Sophia'.

IWannaHoldYourHand · 04/08/2014 20:23

I have an Ethan,mil called him Nathan for the first year. His teacher calls him Ian Hmm He's had Neil, and Evan too.

Ds2 is an Alexander, he is OK with pretty much every shortening, except Alex. Doctors, the dentist, the hairdresser, other parents, the nursery staff, all shorten it to Alex. He gets Alexandria/Alexandra quite a lot too.

seb1 · 04/08/2014 18:50

I have an Eilidh though almost every english person she meets calls her Hayley.

Kim82 · 04/08/2014 16:49

Yep ds is called Ben and he constantly gets referred to as Benjamin...

I've also just named my baby Charlotte and the amount of people who have asked me her name and then said "oh Scarlett? That's lovely". I didn't think the name Charlotte would cause any issues!

BlueChampagne · 04/08/2014 16:39

Frikadellen our Conrad also gets called Connor, or Conran!

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