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Too cruel to choose a name with a geek/nerd connection?

139 replies

spence24 · 11/07/2014 11:48

OH and I are both self-confessed pop-culture geeks/nerds (whatever you wish to call us!) - I work in the comic book industry, he is a cartoonist and illustrator. We both love Sci-Fi, and always have.

We keep wanting to pick a name (we don't know gender) that has a link to the world we live in, and it will grow up in, but we also want it to be "normal" enough sounding just in case it decides to rebel and be into something like football... shudder

We also have the issue of the fact that our names already rhyme, something our friends and family bring up at every possible moment. He also has a daughter who name ends in -y, like ours both do, so ideally we want a name that doesn't do that, otherwise we may as well just join the circus as the rhyming family...

sigh - I think my hormones have kicked in because right now, the fact that I honestly believe we will NEVER agree on a name is really getting to me, and it seems to be the Number 1 challenge, which is ridiculous now that I've typed that...we're not even due until January!!!

Oh! And he also vetoes any name that ANY of his work colleagues have, or are married to, or have called their children, despite me not knowing ANY of them. ARGH.

Sorry, rant over. Going back to my corner now.

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TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 11/07/2014 20:48

Jayne? Wink

gamescompendium · 11/07/2014 20:38

My sister has a friends whose kids are all named after Dr Who companions (old and Nu Who). Think 'Clara' rather than 'Adric' though so although it's obvious when you are told no-one but a superfan would realise.

I think if you want to do it you need to choose a pool of names that is large enough that you have a decent choice if you end up with, say, 3 girls.

Gileswithachainsaw · 11/07/2014 20:25

I think I love you up

:o

Gileswithachainsaw · 11/07/2014 20:24

Arf at William (the bloody) :o

upyourninja · 11/07/2014 19:52

We went through this whole process with our DD. We ended up picking something else from our shortlist when she was born as it suited her more, but she does have Kathryn as a middle name, as a Trek link.

We also considered many of the names from the list above. Fwiw I didn't want anything immediately recognisable - though I do know a 23 year old Buffy (so film rather than series maybe!). You could always use the slightly more recognisable geekery name as a middle name?

I'm now trying to think of names that haven't been mentioned...

Alex (Krychek)
Melissa (Scully)
Emily (Scully)
William (Scully/The Bloody Grin)
Anne (Summers)
Lucy (Lawless, i.e Xena - awesome role model)
Callisto/Callista from various places, nn Callie
Vala (Mal Doran, Stargate)
Some of the endless LOTR names(!)
Roslyn (Laura Roslin from BSG, on my shortlist but now used by a friend because of Welsh family links)
There are so many Trek options - all the peripheral characters - Delaney twins, jake (Sisko)
Have fun Grin

TinklyLittleLaugh · 11/07/2014 19:02

Moomin DD2 is The Mymble, or sometimes Madame Mim. Tis character forming.

TheWanderingUterus · 11/07/2014 18:54

How about Montgomery?

DH said no Hmm and he supposedly calls himself a fan of Star Trek.

John with Luke as a middle name?

Beverley?

Delenn?

Susan?

Yama · 11/07/2014 18:53

I love the name Hera - the baby in Battlestar Gallactica.

Gileswithachainsaw · 11/07/2014 18:51

So has to be drusilla!!!

I wanted to name dd2 amber (amber benson link) Blush

I'd so call a kid Anya, Dana, willow and wish I had guts for buffy or cordelia.

shobby · 11/07/2014 18:47

Showing my age here, but any characters from Michael Moorcock books....?
Una
Cornelius...

doziedoozie · 11/07/2014 18:44

Jayged.

(a name I made up for a short story set in the future, female character)

DalekInAFestiveJumper · 11/07/2014 18:40

I have friends, they're brother and sister. His kids names are Tony, Steve, Peter, and Carol. Her kids names are Diana, Bruce, and Clark.

I tend to refer to their group family outings as crossover events.

MadameJosephine · 11/07/2014 18:24

My nephew was going to be Annika if he was a girl as it was seven of nine's name before she was assimilated

DalekInAFestiveJumper · 11/07/2014 18:17

Here's my one suggestion. Choose a name from something that's more or less complete. I had a friend name his daughter after a character in a book series that was not yet complete, only to find it really made reading later books in that series very difficult/traumatizing!

Angelto5 · 11/07/2014 18:15

All my dcs(5) names come from our fav film/tv progs.
My ds2 is called xander (& on his birth cert) & some people don't even know it's a nn of Alexander!!!i also say we got his name from vin diesels character in xXx!
I'm also a huge btvs & angel fan. We even had a cat called cordelia!!!
Btw Liam is angels real name.
My dh has also been doing our family tree & came across the name Titus. Also looking @ film/tv credits give some good ideas.
Charisma
Connor
Jesse

MoominKoalaAndMiniMoom · 11/07/2014 18:11

Ahh Tinkly she gets referred to by some people as the Mini Moom (hence the username Grin ) but I'm not mean enough like my parents to inflict a Moomin-related nickname on her that will stick with her for at least the next 20 years and still going strong... not that I'm bitter Wink

TinklyLittleLaugh · 11/07/2014 17:51

Callie is nice, also Cally (Blake's Seven).

But you might have gone for Little My or The Mymble, Moomin.

PitchSlapped · 11/07/2014 17:51

I like Josslyn/jocelyn with Joss as a nickname - joss is tomboyish and cool and jocelyn is pretty and feminine if she does end up being a girly girl

MoominKoalaAndMiniMoom · 11/07/2014 17:47

My DD is Callie - after the character in Battlestar Galactica. Her middle name, Teagan, was a happy coincidence being the same name as a classic Who companion Grin

We also considered Kaylee, from Firefly, and Arya.

thatstoast · 11/07/2014 17:42

^ And it should be Stan-Lee rather than Stanley!

TinklyLittleLaugh · 11/07/2014 17:38

Stan, if you like Marvel stuff.

spence24 · 11/07/2014 16:58

GwenStacy I'll probably end up outing myself on here if I go I to much detail, but sod it - I own a comic book store and I am also a comic convention event planner. I've found being a woman interesting but also incredibly liberating, but I also don't let any of the sexism get to me - it's there because it's been allowed for so long and people have just come to accept it - I feel the only way to break it down is to just jump right in and be all "Hey guys! I'm here doing what you do, and I'm doing it pretty well!"

No one has ever challenged me or found it odd that I'm a woman which I love, but some of the "older" die hard fans assume that I'm the face and I have a husband behind the scenes doing all the "manly" things. On the contrary, I met the OH because he happened to be shopping in my store and struck up a conversation. He then tried to impress me my drawing a personalised poster of me as a cartoon character surrounded by heroes and villains - and it worked!

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Callmegeoff · 11/07/2014 16:19

There are siblings at dc's school called Lucus and Layla. I thought nothing of it till I saw them and their parents dressed in Star wars outfits for the local carnival !

PatriciaHolm · 11/07/2014 16:13

Could go really old school and do Isaac (Asimov), Ray (Bradbury), Arthur (C Clarke), Phillip (K Dick)?

DS has one of those as a middle name and I'm not sure DH has ever twigged exactly why...

GarlicJulyKit · 11/07/2014 16:11

Robin. Unisex and versatile. Job done Grin

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