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Is the baby names thread a good reflection of real life name choices??

95 replies

januaryjam · 04/07/2014 11:42

I always find the baby names thread really interesting. I don't know whether it's just me, but when considering the names that are regularly suggested/loved on here, I NEVER come across them in real life.

To give you some examples, here are names of babies I know of who've been born in the past few months or so...

Poppy
Grace
Amelia
Annabel
Harry
Olivia
Ava
Anna
Oscar
Joshua
Oliver
Joseph
Isla
Max
Benjamin

I can't ever imagine anybody I know announcing that they've named their baby Susannah or Juliette for example. (Before I'm flamed, I do NOT mean to cause any offence, these are perfectly nice names but not names that are considered "potential baby names" where I am).

I guess the point I'm trying to make is are the suggestions made on MN actually representative of real life? Or do I just mix with difference circles to other MNers?

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mrsnec · 10/07/2014 11:40

That's really interesting. I saw someone post the Scottish regional charts the other day and I was surprised that there weren't more traditional Scottish names on there. I'm not in Scotland nor am I Scottish by the way. I live abroad. eve, Sophie and Abigail were all on my shortlist and we're probably going with Eve as a middle name its popularity at the moment isn't really putting me off.

weatherall · 10/07/2014 09:23

Does she not see loads of James's, Archie's and ruairidhs?

bouncingbelle · 09/07/2014 18:42

Mrsnec - I'm in central scotland, which is currently awash with Sophie and Eva's! After a wave of Alfie and Finlay's a few years ago, there's no real uber popular boys name at the moment where we are (my sister works in a maternity so knows all the current trends!).

13loki · 09/07/2014 09:08

banana DDs middle name is ancient Greek mythology based, starting with a K. It's not the usual anglicised spelling, but the more traditional. It's actually the name of an asteroid/minor planetoid. I can't tell if it would be mumsnet approved.

Babies I've known the last 3 years
Lola
Harriet
Josh
Toby
Kallisto
Älfi
Saga
Finley
Finlay
Henry
Norah
Ioan
Flora
James

BananaHammocks · 09/07/2014 08:43

Burgatroyd, you're so right about the rules!
Mustn't be a nickname
Or a surname
Can't have a hyphen
Or start with a K
Ancient roman/Greek names are desirable... But a bit try hard unless you have some Italian/Greek heritage or studied classics at a Russell group uni!

mrsnec · 09/07/2014 08:03

Bouncing, 3 of your girls names were on my shortlist. Can I be rude and ask you where you come from I'm interested to see what demographic I fit into. Wouldn't have chosen any of those boys names though.

bouncingbelle · 09/07/2014 01:51

I never hear mn approved baby names in real life! Babies born in the last year that I know are

Eve
Eva
Freya
Sophie
Abigail

Rowan
Noah
Gary
Isaac

rosepetalsoup · 08/07/2014 22:10

Hi OP
Do you have a child or are expecting?

Anyway, no, it's not. You'd think all the kids were called lionel or leonora or whatever. Actually they're not.

Beehatch · 08/07/2014 10:36

We have an interesting mix around here, awash with the usual Ellies, Islas and Harrys but also a strong component of more unusual names. Recent babies I know of:

Jasper
Ava
Saarika
Joshua
Darcie
Arlo
Kayden
Emilie
Estelle
Joseph
William
Sachin
Harry
Poppy
Amie
Edward
Nathaniel x2
Devon (girl)
Max

mrsnec · 08/07/2014 10:16

I think you're always going to come across people that can't spell names regardless of how popular they are or wher they come from. I have a relatively simple name but it has a few variations and nearly every day I find myself saying yes it's an e on the end not an a and no it doesn't have an h in it but I'm used to it and I wouldn't choose a name just because it's easy to spell.

DannyShouldHaveChosenRizzo · 08/07/2014 10:04

My parents loved old English names. My sisters and I have never heard our names anywhere else. We are very used to having people say ' pardon', 'is that your real name?' 'how is that spelt' etc.
It can be very tedious. I didn't like my name much growing up but love it now. One of my sisters still hates her name at age 50!

mrsnec · 08/07/2014 09:50

That's a lovely name too! But I doubt the booze was your inspiration for it burgatroyd!

burgatroyd · 08/07/2014 09:40

Mrsnec. I did with dd1. Think Hill. Though I wouldn't say it was my favourite tipple...

HavanaSlife · 08/07/2014 06:54

Ds3 has a nn on his birth certificate corey

And ds2s name is cory Grin

mrsnec · 08/07/2014 06:41

Thisbe is a rather delicious local vino where I am. Couldn't name a child after your favourite booze!

The mention of Jane made me laugh, my dh and his parents all love it and were trying to persuade me. I just felt it would sound like we didn't try hard enough but now I'm thinking it's probably boring enough to be different these days! Can't use it though.

BillnTedsMostFeministAdventure · 08/07/2014 01:33

Squoosh, I quite like Ultra-Wackadoodle - should it be hyphenated?

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burgatroyd · 07/07/2014 17:46

Floggin it sounds booful

burgatroyd · 07/07/2014 17:45

It so is!!!!!
Pyramus and Thisbe. The original Romeo and Juliet.
Prn Thizbee. Thisbe Nisson the novelist. Its truly fab.

Floggingmolly · 07/07/2014 17:30

God almighty! It sounds more like a lisp.

ILoveCoreyHaim · 07/07/2014 17:23

Dd3 has a very un mumsnetty name. She has a nickname as her full birth name Shock

Alisvolatpropiis · 07/07/2014 17:16

It is Flogging Grin

Floggingmolly · 07/07/2014 17:16

Thisbe Shock. That is not a name...

burgatroyd · 07/07/2014 17:07

Minipie, Milky is very popular around these parts! Where have you been? ??

I love xanthe, and Thisbe for that matter. I lump them in with Phoebe, Chloe and Hermione.

The only time I have truly been taken aback by a name was when I met a thirty something woman called Queenie. I couldn't get over it! In London I've heard all sorts of names, but Queenie (an old relative of mine was called that) really had me stumped. She owned her name though and now I love Queenie too.
Most mnetters hates names like Queenie. Don't know why as its actually quite nice if you let it grow on you. Mn doesn't like cutesy names like Dolly, but Polly's all right. Mn does seem to like modern names like Quinn either. According to mn general consensus you can call your kid Kitty, but not Sheba. You shouldn't use a foreign name unless you're from that country. When using an Irish name like Caiomhe its preferable to use that spelling, than Keeva. Not only is the latter sort of cheating but has the dreaded K. I never knew there were so many rules!
Its name Dogma!
I really want to meet a baby Jane.

Hopefully · 07/07/2014 16:56

My three DCs have very typical 'MN' names (always suggested on baby name threads), and I have met one other of each of the older two and never met another with the same name as DD.

DogCalledRudis · 07/07/2014 15:42

Babies i know, including mine:
Heath
Keith
Lucia
Rosa
Emily
Nathan
Calvin
Kieron
Jakub