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Is this an awful nickname?

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ClareBell08 · 12/04/2014 16:13

Hi all :)

Sorry for my second post of the day. I have just got back from lunch with my sister and would love some thoughts!

So I posted earlier about my final 2 names selected for DD. DH and I think it will be a case of looking at her and seeing what fits. One of the names is Helena. My sister knows that I definitely want a name that can be shortened or turned into cute nicknames. Both her, my other sister and my brother all have names that can be shortened etc and I was always jealous when I was little! The most I ever got was Clarebear!

Anyway she asked what I would shorten Helena to and said that Heli was awful (apparently sounds like "smelly"?) I think though that with NN's they sort of just "happen" and develop but my DH and I have already discussed using Leni as a possible nn which I think is really cute! As soon as I mentioned it, sister blurts out "oh god no you can't call a little girl Leni that's awful!!" She said it's too "boyish" and "old man-y" To me though it's no different than Ronnie, Kenny (I know a little Kendra who gets Kenny) Billie, Bobby, Dani (not that we see many Danielle's these days but you get the point!)...what do you all think? Is Leni truly awful?

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Ludways · 14/04/2014 19:11

I love Nell and Nellie but I like Leni too, I just prefer the old lady sound best.

KnickyKnacky · 14/04/2014 18:57

Know a couple of Helenas and neither are ever called Heli. Both are called Helena no nn's

Leni is a cute nn.

SockQueen · 14/04/2014 14:49

I'm a Helen, no a on the end. My parents occasionally call me Nell/Nelly and my sister calls me Len (weirdly she only started doing this as a teenager, it's not been a lifelong thing). I HATE Hel/Hels and actively discourage this wherever possible, so most people just use my real name. If you are going to shorten it I think Leni is ok.

bouncingbelle · 13/04/2014 23:11

Leni and Nell are both so lovely it makes me want to change my own name to Helena!!

WhoAteAllTheCremeEggs · 13/04/2014 21:15

Pronounced Laynee but we were well prepared for people to call her Lenny and we loved both.
Was also considering just calling her Lenny to pronounce it that way I'm not worried if a name is a 'proper name' as long as it sounds nice and belongs to dc IYKWIM, like my ds really owns hes name he doesn't seem like any other name would fit. I think most children grow into their names.

BryKP · 13/04/2014 20:34

I think Leni is lovely! Said either as Lenny or Laney. WhoaAteAllTheCremeEggs can I ask how you pronounce the name? I think I've found a new favourite name thanks to this thread!

WhoAteAllTheCremeEggs · 13/04/2014 12:52

Leni is a real girls name, it was my chosen name if ds had been a girl there were 17 Leni's registered in 2012.
I love it.

weatherall · 13/04/2014 12:42

Very Heidi Klum's DD.

I think she's more likely to be nned Lena (lay-na) anyway.

MerryMarigold · 13/04/2014 06:22

I think NN's do kind of 'happen' and can end up sticking. I really regret my dd's NN, as it just developed and has now stuck, but I hate it. If it is important to you, I would pick a name with an obvious NN and then make sure she gets called that NN from small.

mathanxiety · 13/04/2014 06:17

Leni/Lenny is beautiful. Always makes me think of the Dutch singer Lenny Kuhr who won Eurovision long, long ago.

Hella is also beautiful imo.

Polonius · 12/04/2014 22:16

I know 8 Helenas and not one is Heli.

SolveAProblemLikeMaria · 12/04/2014 18:05

I think Leni is a cute nickname, either pronounced Lenny or Laney. (not keen on Lee-nee). I think as you said it depends on her personality. Lenny is perhaps a bit more "edgy" so if she's a feisty little thing perhaps that would suit her more. If she's more placid and calm, maybe Laney as it's a bit "girlier." both sweet names though and Helena is beautiful

C4ro · 12/04/2014 17:12

Are you pronouncing it Helen-a (like Eleanor) or more like Hell-ayna?

Lena (Ley-na) is nice and fits with the second. We are in Austria and there is a Lina in my DD class.

BumbleeBee · 12/04/2014 17:04

Ok now I've seen this interview and at 2.12 it sounds more like "Lay-nee" hahaha so I'm really not sure! as florascotia says I think there are a lot of possibilities with Helena :) lovely name

BumbleeBee · 12/04/2014 16:59

I just found this video of Heidi Klum pronouncing her DD's name..turns out it's not Lenny or Laney like I thought it would be!! Seems its "Lee-nee"

so guess there are 3 options there for you lol. Lenny, Lay-nee, Lee-nee

florascotia · 12/04/2014 16:56

I once met a Danish Helena nn 'Hella'

I also knew an old Scottish lady Helena known as Ellen.

I also met a Helena whose name was never, ever, shortened

Helena is a lovely name with a great many possibilities.

ChishandFips33 · 12/04/2014 16:55

I like Leni ? and as a child I was desperate to have a name that sounded boyish - needless to say my name doesn't fit the bill

Once anyone meets her they'd know she's not a boy so any mistake of gender would be very short lived!

I know a few Jordan's, Jamie's and Alex's and they were christened like this - and not boys!

I would establish her NN early so she's not likely to get others that aren't as appealing if you're very worried

BumbleeBee · 12/04/2014 16:55

Leni is really cute but would it be Lenny or Lay-nee? as ContinentalKat says Heidi's daughter is pronounced Lay-nee. I think both Leni and "Laynee" are sweet. I'm not keen on Hellie/Nellie myself..think Leni is much nicer.

Essexgirlupnorth · 12/04/2014 16:50

I know a Helena and she gets Len as a nickname.

ContinentalKat · 12/04/2014 16:47

Heidi Klums daughter is 'Lay-nee'. Another nn for Helena in German would be Lena, 'Lay-nah'.

I love Helena, not keen on Helly or Nelly, though.

Martorana · 12/04/2014 16:38

Nell is utterly gorgeous.

You can be any age and be Nell.

IHaveAFifthSense · 12/04/2014 16:37

I like Leni as a nickname. In fact, I prefer it to Helena (which I also think is a lovely name). I generally like boyish names for girls though.

sleepingbeautiful · 12/04/2014 16:37

I don't think Leni is a bad nn! Your sis is over reacting. What's the difference from calling Charlotte nn Charlie or Georgia nn George, Harriet nn Harri, Alexandra nn Alex, Joanna nn Jo etc?
I know two Helenas, one is always Helena and the other is Nell. I think in the old Chalet School books Len was really Helena.

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ClareBell08 · 12/04/2014 16:35

napoleonsnose and blondeMalteser I didn't realise Heidi Klum had a little Leni. I do think it's very sweet!!
BlondeMaltester it would be pronounced the first way, Helen-ah. DH prefers Hel-ay-nah but I knew of one and no one ever got it right and she would get so fed up with correcting people all the time! I prefer Helen-ah anyway myself. Laney is a nice alternative though, hadn't considered that. Eleni is sweet but I immediately think Blini, those little pancakes!

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BlondeMalteser · 12/04/2014 16:31

and as napoleonsnose said Heidi Klum has a little Leni short for Helene. Leni is actually quite a popular name in Germany.