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I think I want to change my baby's name...

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FriggFRIGG · 12/04/2014 13:58

Her name is Greta Ivy Clementine
I want to change it to Flora Greta Clementine

She's 4 months old.
Flora was the name we had originally settled on but I changed my mind once she was born.

DD1 has a name I've never truly loved and I think I've made the same mistake again.

I'm not sure what to do Sad

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FriggFRIGG · 01/05/2014 20:46

Oh blimey....I hope I got the correct form,I've already sent it off.
It seemed like the right form...

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nikki1391 · 01/05/2014 20:21

yeah that's the correct one

flavourflave · 01/05/2014 18:05

What form was it? I got the not baptised one. Is that it?

nikki1391 · 01/05/2014 17:59

I changed my daughters name on birth certificate

Thanks to her dad her name was very long

1 first name
3 middle names
2 surnames

I changed it on birth certificate at 11 months to

1 first name
1 middle name
2 surnames

I went to my local registry office to get the form, but the guy there gave me the wrong form and wrong info, I then went to the registry office where my daughter was registered who also gave me another wrong form. I ended up having to call the General register office who emailed me the correct form which I printed and filled in and luckily when I went back to register office where dd was registered this time there was a receptionist that actually knew what she was doing unlike the last 2 that I had encountered

If you have problems at register offices just contact the General register office who will send forms and will give correct info

flavourflave · 26/04/2014 17:53

No! East of england here. The woman said I couldn't change on a whim I said please read the back of the short cert. She then apologised but I told her that really she should know this as it was her job! Its not like I'm trying to refund a t shirt! Would you know if dd would have to answer yes to have you been known by any other name? Not too worried about that as lots of women need to do that with maiden name, just curious.

FriggFRIGG · 25/04/2014 19:02

I'm glad this thread has helped someone else too!

(You aren't in a county beginning with a H in a town beginning with an A,are you? )

The woman first told my DP it was impossible,then when he pressed her,said it could be done,but only if we went to the high court and paid £500!!!
I called back and recited the law to the cowbag,she STILL tried to argue with me that they couldn't "just change it because you changed your mind!" I said that was precisely what she could,and would be doing!
At this point she just gave in and asked me if I wanted her to send the form.
uh,YES.

It made me really mad that others have probably given up thinking it couldn't be done Sad it's just a form FFS,what the heck was her problem?

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flavourflave · 25/04/2014 17:19

OP this thread inspired me to do the same. Bizarre but also had a woman at office tell me I couldn't do it! Hope she hasn't sent others away...

Thanks!

flavourflave · 25/04/2014 17:18

OP this thread inspired me to do the same. Bizarre but also had a woman at office tell me I couldn't do it! Hope she hasn't sent others away...

Thanks!

flavourflave · 25/04/2014 17:18

OP this thread inspired me to do the same. Bizarre but also had a woman at office tell me I couldn't do it! Hope she hasn't sent others away...

Thanks!

flavourflave · 25/04/2014 17:18

OP this thread inspired me to do the same. Bizarre but also had a woman at office tell me I couldn't do it! Hope she hasn't sent others away...

Thanks!

FriggFRIGG · 25/04/2014 13:57

Update:

After a short argument with the stupid woman at the local registry office (where she tried to convince me it was,at first,impossible,and then,expensive and difficult to change a baby's name) a form is on its way to amend her birth certificate.

We have already told family and friends (some of whom think we are insane ) and she is now known as Flora.

I am so,so much happier with her name and can't believe how much better it feels.

Grin
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MrsTamkin · 15/04/2014 16:48

I have FOUR middle names. Growing up it was a source of conversation and even a little pride. Mildly amusing at the alter ( my husband has no mns at all) but otherwise I can honestly say it never bothered me. If anything it made me feel good that my mum thought my name was so important she gave me so many!

oldbutnotpastit · 13/04/2014 20:44

so pleased you've made a decision that's right for you ,your dh and your dd . it is horrible when you feel you've chosen the wrong name .
yes people will mock to begin with but people have very short memories . They will have forgotten she wa sanything other than Flora before you know it and she'll certainly never remember she was Greta .
Flora Ivy Greta Clementine while long is also extremely beautiful .
good luck with the registrar tomorrow

TerrifiedMothertobe · 13/04/2014 20:35

Change it to whatever you want. And, sod the initials. My sons are O.D.D obviously MIL pointed it out..... I don't think anyone gives a SH1T!

Flora is gorgeous.

FriggFRIGG · 13/04/2014 20:26

Thank you for all your replies.
We have been using Flora for 2 days now and it suits her so much better,it just clicks. Though We do trip up and call her Greta sometimes I guess that will fade.

I had chosen Greta over Flora for a number of reasons which don't seem to matter now (popularity being one of them).

What you said about middle names has struck a chord Old and I think we may now give her the absurdly long name of Flora Ivy Greta Clementine...

I'm certain people will scoff and possibly think I've lost my mind,but honestly,changing her name to one i feel suits her,matters more to me than other people's opinion.

Thanks for the shove...I'm calling the registry people in the morning. Grin

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oldbutnotpastit · 13/04/2014 20:12

have you tried using flora at home for a while to see how it feels . it may be that when you begin to use it , it immediately feels right or alternatively you may know it's not the one .
with Dd5 we changed her name at 9 months after 9 long months of name regret . 3 years on nobody can remember the name she was given at birth . when we first decided to change her name there was a name i loved which when we tried it on her didn't feel right for her even though i love the name . in the end we chose her 2nd mn which as soon as we used it fitted perfectly . A word of warning though the angst re her name didn't go immediately , i felt guilty for changing it ,i did feel daft and people did look at me as though i was mad . i also often questioned whether i'd chosen the right name and whether i should have changed it after all .3 years on it was the right decision and it no longer causes any concern.
like you we ended up with 2 mns which have similar sounds /endings and not the best combination of initials . if we had given her her new name at birth she wouldn't have been given these 2 mns but at the time we changed it i posted for advice on mumsnet and at the time there was a lady whose parents had changed her name when she was a few months old but in doing so they'd replaced one of her names with another mn for example having been abc she became cda , she still felt 30 years on that her parents had robbed her of one of her birth names . she still regretted their decision and wished that they had just added a new name to her original 3. she said she felt as if she'd lost part of her identity. maybe something to bear in mind when deciding whether to remove one of her initial birth names . it certainly influenced me when deciding whether we should ditch one of dd's original birth names
i like both names although marginally prefer Greta as it feels more unusual than flora .

SpawningSalmon · 13/04/2014 14:50

The thread that you posted when trying to choose your DDs name was one of the first I went on when I started to visit the Baby Names section. I adored the name you finally went with and it has stuck with me all this time. So when I came into this thread and saw that you were thinking of changing it I thought 'Noooooo!'... until I saw that you were thinking of changing it to my DDs name. Smile I still think Greta Ivy Clementine is absolutely gorgeous but I think if you aren't happy with it then change it. I also think Flora Ivy Clementine sounds best. Off to add two new middle names to DDs name

Bowlersarm · 13/04/2014 11:51

Flora is lovely. Definitely do it.

Anjou · 13/04/2014 11:50

I followed/posted on a few of your threads too FRIG, and I'm really sorry you feel like you've not made the right choice.

There's no problem with changing it at 4 months. Have you tried calling her Flora for a while to see how it feels? Sounds obvious, but you'd want to make sure that it's 'the one' before changing.

As for initials and too many names? It really doesn't matter. Unless it spells something truly awful like PIGBAG or FATARSE or something. The more names the merrier as far as I'm concerned! Go nuts. Smile

Sharaluck · 12/04/2014 23:17

If you're getting rid of Greta as a first name, maybe you could scrap it completely and use

Flora ivy clementine

DramaAlpaca · 12/04/2014 23:05

I remember your name threads. You really want to change her name and your DH is on board, so just do it. It sounds like you'll regret it if you don't.

Agree with others that Flora Ivy Greta is the best way round.

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FriggFRIGG · 12/04/2014 17:48

Flora Ivy Greta would result in the initials FIGP-G
Flora Greta Ivy FGIP-G

Flora Greta Ivy Clementine P-G is almost absurdly long....

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