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Please help! DD is 1 week old and no name.

87 replies

vik123b · 09/01/2014 14:05

Have a shortlist for girls names. The two names we cant decide on are Hermione and Betsy. Just interested to hear peoples views.

I love Hermione but DH prefers Betsey. Few things do put me off Hermione though - will it be a nightmare for her to learn to spell? people can't pronounce it (Hermy-won) and obviously Harry Potter (will she be teased and compared to Hermione Granger? Our surname also begins with a hard G). Love Betsey but worry is too cutsey and she may hate it when she gets older and don't want it shortened to Bet (she wouldnt be Elizabeth as my daughters middle name is Elizabeth so don't want to use again). We have quite kooky style so think either suit us as a family. Need to make a choice!

We like both names so whatever we choose for first name the other can be the middle name. We like Bluebell also for middle name (my other 2 children have two middle names) so would be either:

Hermione Betsey Bluebell

Or

Betsey Bluebell Hermione

Also, if we chose Hermione do you think we could use Hetty as a nickname? DH lost his Nan yesterday whose name was Stella, not keen on Stella and doesn't fit with our names but Hetty has same meaning (Star) or could you think of some way to incorporate it into the name?

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DonkeysDontRideBicycles · 09/01/2014 14:25

Ha x

DonkeysDontRideBicycles · 09/01/2014 14:25

Ha xpis

DonkeysDontRideBicycles · 09/01/2014 14:25

I'm keen on the name Hester, Greek in origin meaning star.

bakingtins · 09/01/2014 14:24

baby girl star names

I think the Harry Potter connection would mean most people are familiar with the pronunciation of the name Hermione.
I think Betsy is lovely as a NN but too cutesy to be her given name, it would have to be short for Elizabeth for me and Betsy Bluebell sounds like a My Little Pony
Of the star names above I really like Hester, which could be NN Hetty if you like that.

vik123b · 09/01/2014 14:23

Estelle is nice but we have a family friend called Estelle so can't use it really.

There are various spellings of Betsey. We like the spelling as in Betsey Johnson fashion designer, its just a bit different. But it can be spelled Betsie (Betsie Larkin - singer/songwriter), also seen it spelled Betsi (Cadwaladr who was a nurse who worked with Florence Nightingale in the Crimean War).

I do like cutesy names, am just that way.

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picnicbasketcase · 09/01/2014 14:23

I don't much like either but Hermione is better than Betsy.

PsychicPaper · 09/01/2014 14:20

what about;
Estrella
Astrid
Esther
Maya
Nova
Sesheta
Starla
Vespera

Dillydollydaydream · 09/01/2014 14:10

Estelle is lovely as a nod to dh nan?
Estelle Betsey Bluebell?
Betsey Bluebell Estelle?

sonlypuppyfat · 09/01/2014 14:08

Bluebell Hmm

Middleagedmotheroftwo · 09/01/2014 14:08

And Betsy is Betsy, not Betsey.

Middleagedmotheroftwo · 09/01/2014 14:07

Betsy and Bluebell go toghether, but Hermione seems an odd fit with those IMO.

It wouldn't be my taste (too cutesy), but I think Betsy Bluebell Stella, or even Betsy Bluebell Star sound OK.

vik123b · 09/01/2014 14:07

Please help me decide! DH says if I haven't decided by today he will call her Betsey.

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