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Should migrant children keep their 'exotic' names?

80 replies

Fiona2011231 · 11/08/2013 13:35

Recently I met a lady of Indian origin in a birthday party. She told me that her children has European names (like Lisa, Michael, etc). I saw nothing unusual about that.

However, later on, she and some other friends had a discussion. She insisted that non-European children (from Africa or Asia, etc), born in the UK, should have Western names rather than keeping their original names.

The reason, she said, is that they would have more chance to succeed in life if people heard their names. And I myself remember reading an article which said those job applicants, who adopted Western names, were more likely to be given an interview.

What do you think about this issue? Do you think it is true that non-European children should have Western names if they want to succeed here?

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PoppyWearer · 11/08/2013 13:51

I worked with a few people of Chinese/Korean ethnicity in other countries (USA, Singapore, Australia), and many seemed to have a Chinese name and an "English" equivalent.

A colleague had a baby and introduced him with both Chinese and English names. This seemed to be the "normal" thing to do in that country/context (Singapore).

LynetteScavo · 11/08/2013 13:49

And no, I really don't think children should change their names when moving country.

And that includes within Europe, where names are pronounced differently, or America, where names which are considered MC here are considered something quite different there.

LynetteScavo · 11/08/2013 13:47

I went to school with several Chinese people.

They had all chosen "Enlgish" names especially to come to this country. The names they chose tended to be slightly out of the ordinary. Think Eustace, and Violet. This was back in the '80's when the rest of us were called Sarah and Kate.

I don't think these names helped them get on at all. Although I remember we all laughed when we asked one girl what her real name was, and what she told us sounded like "shit fan" Blush. (She is now incredibly successful, in a jaw dropping way. Obviously neither name ever held her back).

insancerre · 11/08/2013 13:40

no, they shouldn't have to change their names

insancerre · 11/08/2013 13:39

no

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